Saturday, May 4, 2019



SIDELINED

Sometimes we get sidelined -
Knocked off the track -
Sometimes we take the wrong path -
Go down the wrong street -
Don’t we all? Don’t we all?
Surprise life is all about reversals,
second chances, coming back out
of nowhere, comebacks, ready to do
what we really always wanted to do.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


May    4, 2019 



Thought for today: 

“When you go home, tell them of us and say, ‘For your tomorrows  these gave their today.’” 

John Maxwell Edmonds 
[1875-1958],  Inscriptions 
Suggested for War Memorials (1919)
Cemetery: Brittany American
Cemetery, World War I

Friday, May 3, 2019



STANDING UP FOR US

It’s always nice to have someone 
stand up for us - especially when 
we’re in a slump - someone in the 
stands rooting for us. There. Quietly 
rooting for us. Presence.  Support. 

It’s always nice to actually  know, 
to believe, to sense that God is in 
the background - in the underneath - 
that is totally underneath the under- 
neath of our lives. Presence. Support. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



BEING  SAVED

INTRODUCTION

What to preach on….

I’m sitting in the doctor’s office this morning with a small missalette. I read the readings - said my regular  prayer, “Lord, help me to come up with something helpful for someone today.” Then I asked my regular next question: “What to preach on?”

I stopped at the words, “Being saved….” in today’s first reading from  1 Corinthians 15: 1-8 - today’s first reading for the Feast of Philip and James - May 3rd.

QUESTIONS

Then I asked a question, “What does that feel like?”

Then I asked, “What are some situations when I have been saved?  What are some situations, when people feel saved?”

Then I sat there in the doctor’s office and pondered saved situations.  They were a bit behind schedule ….

BLUE LIGHT SPECIAL

Two  nights ago I went into our common room or living room and Father William is standing there with the TV remote.  The TV screen is loaded with a big written message. Basically it’s broken. I look down at the Comcast Box or some other box there and I notice the blue light is not on.  I go over and push one button and the blue light goes on and the TV goes on - and it’s fixed.

William might have said, “You’re a savior.” I was.  There is another TV in what we call the African Room. That’s where the TV that Father Pat Flynn used to use is. That TV is broken. I tried to fix it. No luck.  There’s another TV up on the third floor in a guest room, but we have a guest priest from Arizona this week - so I fixed our regular TV by pushing one button.

That’s one small example of being a savior.

MORE

Last fall, I get a flat tire on Route 301 Eastern Shore coming back from my sister Mary . I don’t have my Triple A card in my wallet. I am on the shoulder of the road.  I don’t have a cell phone. A state trooper almost immediately stops and asks what my problem is.

I say, “Flat tire?” 

He asks, “Do you have a spare?”

He has my tire changed in 10 minutes.

I say, “Thank you.”

He says, “The way I think of it, I see everyone on the road as a member of my family, and if they are stuck, I’m ready to help.”

He was a savior.

I think of when I  was a kid.  We’d go to Rye Beach and one of us or a few of us would run out of tickets for the rides. 

Then one kid takes out an Andrew Jackson and says, “Let’s get more tickets.” 

Then the kid says, “I have this uncle - who always slips us some money sneakily whenever he sees us going somewhere. My uncle would always say, ‘I always hated it as a kid to run out of money.’”

Down through the years I have seen lots of Uncles and Aunts - who were just like that.   I have tried to be that kind of a person, but not enough.

BEING SAVED

So part of being saved brings up that other S word. No not that one - but it could be that one.

Stuck - being stuck.

Let me look at the big stuck.

Down deep - every human being - consciously - and semi-consciously - or unconsciously - worries about dying - and being in some deep dark ditch or grave - in the underworld of the hereafter - lost - scared - unknowing what’s next - or if there is a next - 4 flat tires in the soul - no ticket to nowhere - and filled with “uh oh” tears along with fear predominating.

Stuck….

That’s stuck.

If there is any message in the gospels from Jesus  - it’s right here - Jesus says, “I’ll come looking for you when you feel stuck.”

I love Luke 15!

Just scream out from your depths,  “Baa - Baa - Baa!” as a lost sheep and the Good Shepherd will appear.

Just “Hmm, Hmn - I’m like a lost coin over here under the bed - or in the corner or in a crack in the floor.”

Or just crawl back home and I’m be waiting with open arms.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

Isn’t that what Jesus says in today’s gospel from John 14: 6-14,  “I am the way,  the truth and the life.”

Jesus will show us the way to the light.

CONCLUSION

P.S. Matthew 25: 31-6 gives us the password, the secret way to sneak in the back door.

When you see someone hungry, hurting,  stuck, or whatever form they have taken,  help them.


May    3, 2019 - 


Thought for today: 

“’I know of no joy,’ she airily began. ‘greater  than a cool white dress after the sweetness of confession.’”


Ronald Firbank [1886-1932],  
Valmouth, (1919) Chapter 4

Thursday, May 2, 2019




VISE

Sometimes I feel like I’m in a vise - 
being squeezed by time and the phone …. 
“Can you?”  “Will  you?”  “Please?” 
Then the advice from inner voices: 
“Stop your whining!” “You have to ….” 
“This is what love is all about.” 
“Service!” “Service!” “Service!” 
Then comes the ooze of guilt, 
when I want to “Run!” and  “Hide.” 
Ever feel this way? 
  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


May    2, 2019 



Thought for today: 


“Unhurt people are not much good in the world.” 



Enid Starkie [1897-1970],  
in a letter to Joanna Richardson,  
June 18, 1943, in Joanna Richardson 
Enid Starkie (1973), pt. 6, ch. 18