Saturday, June 11, 2016

June 11, 2016


EASY OR COMPLICATED?

And God, I thought it was going
to get easier - this getting older.

“Ha Ha,” I laughed out loud
to God. It became a prayer,
but sometimes it’s a curse….

.... this worrying about kids and 
their kids - and health - diminished
sight and hearing - along with
dizziness and bony arthritis….

So I guess, this getting older is
an all Depends - and sometimes
you have to wear them.

Yes Them - and sometimes they
and the worries wear me out and
sometimes both seem to leak. Oooh!


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Friday, June 10, 2016

June 10, 2016


WHERE ARE YOU?

WHO ARE YOU?

I've heard so many different descriptions
of so many different generations - that
I don't know where I am or just where
to stand or what criteria to use.

Psst! These are some of what I heard.

Silent Generation, Lost Generation,
Beat Generation, MTV Generation,
the Greatest Generation,
Baby Boomers,  Millennials,
Generation X, Generation Y,
Generation Z, Alpha Generation,
and there was the Me Generation, 
who were they and what ever 
happened to them?

Put a circle around where you stand
or think you stand - then look up a
description of who you are? How 
close are you to what they describe?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Thursday, June 9, 2016

June 9, 2016


WANNABE

Before 18, I’ve seen some young people
having WS, Wannabe Syndrome - actually
wanting to be someone else. Or they want
their parents or teachers or coaches to be
other than they are: to be someone else.

By 25 I’ve seen WS, Wannabe Syndrome,
switch a bit. “I have to be myself, but still
I want to be like someone else - richer,
smarter, quicker, less moody, and in better
shape like so and so or what have you.”

By 50 I’ve seen WS, Wannabe Syndrome,
disappear and a person says, “There is
nobody else I want to be - because as the
song goes, ‘I gotta be me…,’ but there are
people I know, whom I don’t want to be.”



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
June 8, 2016


FRAGILE: LAW OF CONSEQUENCES 

We're not born with signs

like, "Fragile"  or "Handle
With Care" - stamped on
our skin. No, it takes time
to learn how relationships
work - and don't work- and
what to do next - when we're
hurt. Oh it's great when things
are going great - but time 
slips away and we get lazy
or tired and we neglect each
other - so we really need to 
talk, really talk to each other.
We need to make covenants - 
because the one law in life
we can't break or dismiss is
the Law of Consequences. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Wednesday, June 8, 2016


ECHO   BLESSING

[At the outdoor Mass this morning in the schoolyard, when Deacon Leroy was preaching,  I could hear the obvious echo of his words off the buildings. I thought it was neat - sort of reinforcing his words - as with a yellow highlighter. I thought to myself, if I ever have to preach at this Elementary School Mass,  I’d preach on the theme of “echoes”.   About 20 minutes after Mass, Leroy asked if was going to the church service for our St. Mary’s Teachers and Staff - and if I was, could I do the final prayer or blessing? Surprise! Here was a chance to pull some thoughts together about the theme of “echoes” as they echoed around my mind this morning. So here comes a reflection and a final blessing entitled, “Echo Blessing.”]

ECHO  BLESSING


The words went into those tiny holes in the microphone.
They sped down wires - lots of carefully placed wires -
at the speed of sound and they bounced around - and
then when came out of the speakers - they were echoes -
bouncing off walls - and into our ears. Words…. Echoes….

The words echo into corners - sit under chairs -
and there they rest for a moment or sometimes
for years - words our mom whispered into our ear
going into our first day of school  - or our 8th grade
teacher told us in a bus on a memorable  class trip.

Some words echo it seems forever - a word with
a hurt in it - as well as an, “I love you” - when we
thought we were all alone. A teacher’s words in
school can white out [what’s white out?] a put
down by a parent  at home or vice versa.

A deacon’s words in a pulpit, a principal’s words
in the opening moments of a new school year or
the closing of a school year - a grandma’s words
at a graduation - a prayer- can remain as an echo
in our heart and mind and memory forever.

And may these words of Jesus continue to echo
in your soul each day: “Love one another as
I have loved you.” “Forgive 70 times 7 times.” “Turn
the other cheek.” “Go the extra mile.” “And I am with
you all days, even to the end of the world.” Amen.



© Andy Costello, June 8, 2016 

Tuesday, June 7, 2016

June 7, 2016

TIGHTENED  FIST

Tightened fist:
every time she yelled at him
as a kid - for not making his
bed - for not eating his veggies -
for not doing his homework
immediately - like right now.

Tightened fist:
every time a teacher punished
him - every time a coach pushed
him - every time a classmate hit
him on the bus - back and forth
to school or in the playground.

Tightened fist:
every time he fought back -
that is till he learned it's
not smart - others are
sometimes bigger and
quicker than he was.

Tightened fist:
every time his mind tightened
when people talked politics - till
he realized these moments were
causing him spiritual arthritis long
before most people get real arthritis.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
STUFF AND SPIRITUALITY


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 11th Tuesday in Ordinary Time is, “Stuff and Spirituality.”

Stuff and spirit … the visible and the invisible … the concrete and the abstract….

The stuff of spirituality is often mystery, concepts, ideas, ideals, virtues, etc. etc. etc. Notice they are abstract. Notice the stuff of spirituality is invisible.

We can read body language and guess what another is feeling or thinking, but we can never know for sure. 

Motives, judgements, reasons are all invisible and many times we’re just guessing - until the other tells us what they thinking - till they explain their “why” or the “what” they were trying to say or do. 

The stuff of spirituality has the possible trap of being or becoming a Pharisee.

And at times even people explaining themselves  - are not that sure of themselves in the first place.

Honestly, our motives can be tricky - mixed - sneaky - unsure - or even dishonest.

So the stuff of thinking and communication and the stuff of spirituality is often invisible.

This hit me in a reverse way - when I began to notice last night in today’s 2 readings and the Psalm in between - that the stuff of these 3 readings mention lots of stuff we can see and taste and get our hands on.

FOR EXAMPLE

The first reading from  1st Kings 17: 1-6 mentions specific objects: rain, a brook, land, the entrance of a city, sticks, a cupful of water, a bit of bread, a handful of flour in a jar, and some oil in a jug. We can picture each item.

The Psalm, Psalm 4, mentions a face, some shining on that face, beds, grain and wine. It mentions the heart - but I assume the song writer is talking about the heart as the center of a human being - which is invisible.

The gospel - part of the Sermon on the Mount - Matthew 5: 13-16 - mentions salt, a light, a city, a mountain, a lamp, a bushel basket, a lampstand, and a house. We’ve seen them all.

THE STUFF OF SPIRITUALITY

Can we see some spiritual realities in these visible objects?

I can remember hearing someone describe what our Redemptorists in Colombia, South America do when preaching a parish mission. They gather in a church building - and then take a crowd for a tour of the city or the town - like one sees folks in colonial outfits and costumes taking folks around Annapolis for tours.



With a bullhorn in hand, these Colombian Redemptorists speak out. They point to a light on a building or a street light and proclaim that Jesus is the light of the world. They would go by a restaurant and point to the salt on tables inside and out. Then they would say, “Jesus calls us to be the salt of the earth. We're called to season our homes and our conversations with the love of Christ.”  They would point to a door - like our doors of mercy here at St. Mary’s this year, and say Jesus knocks on our door.  Or they would point to an building with a second floor and mention that Jesus goes through the thick walls of our skulls - to our upper room - and proclaims peace to us. They would go by little children and repeat Jesus call for us to be like little children or not to hurt little children and if we give kids bad example, it would be better if a millstone was tied around our neck and we were tossed in the sea to drown.  Serious messages.

I like to write Irish Blessings and I noticed in studying Irish Blessings and Irish prayers how down to earth they can be. They  bring in stuff: rocks, bogs, wind, ankles, roads, canes and crutches - to show us sightings and sensings of God.  

A THOUGHT FOR THE DAY

So my thought for the day is to pause from time to time and look around and see God and messages in what surrounds us - to go from the known to the unknown.

We have lots of alleys and streets - and the water -  all around Annapolis - and lots of restaurants - and ice cream places - and gift shops - trying to get tourist dollars. In my search for God am I on the broad way or the narrow alley? What am I looking for? Am  I a gift? Am I sweet? Am I a treat to be with? Is Christ the living water I am thirsty for? What am I hungry for?



I am sure if the Redemptorist priests of Colombia were preaching here in Annapolis, they would say something about the Alex Haley statue and the kids sculpture at the edge of Ego Alley and talk about slavery’s impact on the United States and our Civil War.  I am sure they would say something about all the Latino and Hispanic workers in so many kitchens of the restaurants of Annapolis - and the value of migrations. For the sake of transparency my mom and dad came to America from poverty and did tough jobs.  My mom cleaned hotel rooms in Boston and was a maid. My dad worked for Nabisco in New York and New Jersey and never made over 100 dollars a week.

Do these specifics - about stuff - a salary - cooking and cleaning - get us to be a better Christian when it comes to concerns for our brothers and our sisters.



Do we see the waiter or waitress at every restaurant doing what the widow does for Elijah in today’s first reading - bringing the customer some water and some bread?  Do we see ourselves as Jesus calls us to be - salt and light for each other? Amen.