Saturday, July 18, 2015

July 18, 2015


7 BILLION PORTRAITS

How would I be portrayed -
if a painting of me is hung
in a grand art museum 100
years from now? Would it
be a picture of me at the
check-out counter in a
supermarket or sitting in a
church in the late afternoon
with red vigil lights burning
in my face? Would it be a
picture of me at the opera,
with pearls and beautiful skin
or would it be a picture of me
as an old wrinkled beggar
lady with a shopping cart on
the corner of 6th and Main -
not seeing the world go by?


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015

Friday, July 17, 2015

July 17, 2015



WHAT HAPPENED?

How could I have been so stupid,
so unthinking, so unaware, not to
have said “Yes”? Instead I said
“We’ll see!” - which has always
been for me a definite, “No!” But,
we’ll see if this time will be different.
I guess I'll have to listen to myself
more as I move into our future. I
guess I might have to finally change.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2015

Thursday, July 16, 2015

July 16, 2015



SUNSET

Well, it’s over…. Finally.
The clock did its job.
The sun did its job.
We did our job.
Time's up. Pull in the
tables and the chairs.
Hang up the aprons.
Check the ovens.
Lock the restaurant doors.
Walk the cobbled streets
till one is finally home.

“It’s over!”

Sometimes those are the
most beautiful words one
hears at the end of a long day - 
a long life - that is, 
unless one is a pessimist.


© Andrew Costello, Reflections 2015

Panting on top: Cafe la Nuit, Arles, Van Gogh 

Wednesday, July 15, 2015

July 15, 2015


CLAWS

Some claws are obvious,
like those on lobsters
and crabs. The ones you
gotta really watch out for
are the ones that can grab
your soul, heart, and spirt.
You gotta watch out for those
babies. They grab onto you
and they can drain your soul.


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015

Tuesday, July 14, 2015

WHO’S IN  YOUR  AUDIENCE?



INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 15th Tuesday in Ordinary Time  is, “Who’s In Your Audience?”

Sub-title: “Who’s Watching to Find Out What Would Happen to You?”

BOOK OF EXODUS

We’re in the Book of Exodus now. Jewish baby boys were to be killed - as a way of stopping the Israelite presence and influence in Egypt. This is before the Exodus. In fact it will be part of the reason for the Exodus.

So this little boy is born. He’s hid for 3 months. His mom puts him in a papyrus basket - made it water proof - and then put it in the water and pushed it towards where the pharaoh’s daughter would bathe. Good story.

Then notice the sentence. The baby’s aunt “stationed herself at a distance to find out what would happen to him.”

That triggered my wondering comment for today’s sermon: “Who has wondered what was going to happen to us?”

I assume that’s the background of Shakespeare’s famous line: “All the world’s a stage.”

I assume we all had someone at our birth and our baptism sitting there like an audience in a theater watching us - up there on the stage of life - and wondering what’s going to happen to this baby - called “me”?

Our parents certainly did. Is it less watching and wondering for the 4th child than for the 1st child?  There’s always the comment: the camera didn’t come out as much for the last child compared to the first child.

Growing up in the 40’s and 50’s - I never saw parents in the stands at Little League games.  I don’t remember my parents being there for the first Mass I served as an altar boy. Yes for my first communion and confirmation and graduation from Grammar School.

Come to think of it - on a contrary note - once I did go with my brother-in-law to see my niece Monica play in a basketball game. She was this high [make gesture] so it had to be around the 4th grade. The score was 0 to 0 at half time.

GOD SETS US SAILING

Using our imagination what would it be like to picture God sending every one of us down the stream towards our parents and they pick us up? What would it be like to picture God cherishing us - marveling at us - amazed at us - like all people - hopefully.

PS! What would it be like to hear, “PSSSSST! God is in the audience?”

RADIO

While driving along the other day I heard on the radio that a Jazz Musician had died. He had been left on a porch - I think I heard it was Pittsburgh - when he was born and someone picked him up.

Like Moses did anyone watch and wait to see if someone found him?  Did anyone wonder what ever became of her baby?

I tried to find out who it was on Google and couldn’t determine who this musician was?  But I did find the names of about 5 jazz musicians this happened to.  I also found out that someone put a baby with a note on her and left it at Dolly Parton’s doorstep.  So too a priest. So too a lot of people.

I also found out that this story of Moses - they knew his parents - is a story in many literatures of the world - Oedipus for starters.

CONCLUSION: HOW ABOUT US?

Last Sunday I preached on that wondering about how we’re doing as a theme to think about in the summer. Once more that same theme - wondering about our lives - in the context of:  Who’s in our audience? Do we see God in our audience?


July 14, 2015




JOY

Joy, not an itch, nor a flood, 
not the ocean running towards
the shore - but maybe the sun
rising or slipping into the ocean.
Joy, it’s the key turning in the lock,
the garage door opening - the
knowing another is content in being
home. It’s seeing a daughter on her
graduation day or her wedding or a
child taking her first step or playing his
first varsity game and he made the
key play and the coach congratulates
our son. We won! And the feeling
leaning back into a chair: "It was 
all worth it. It was all worth while."


© Andy Costello Reflections, 2015


Monday, July 13, 2015


ADJUSTING

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 15th Monday in Ordinary Time is, “Adjusting.”

One of life’s great skills is the ability to adjust.

If someone asks us a question, “How’s it going?”, what would it be like to answer, “Adjusting.”

Adjusting is the ability to compromise, to settle, to  rectify,  rearrange, reconcile, balance, change, conform, see which way the wind is blowing, adapt, accommodate, sort, plea-bargain, give and take, make concessions, harmonize, weave, patch up, make peace…..

Adjusting….  How good are you in adjusting?

That’s the value of playing cards: to learn how to play different hands.

If you were buying a boat, would you want a power boat to just go directly through the water to your destination? Is that your personality? Or would you prefer a sail boat - that calls for a lot more adjusting - of sails - reading the wind and the waters?  Is that more you?

TODAY’S FIRST READING

Today’s first reading triggered the thought to say something about adjusting skills.

Today we move into the book of Exodus - for our first reading.

Many people can identify with the opening words of today’s first reading, “A new king, who knew nothing of Joseph, came to power in Egypt.”

Today we start a new story - a new problem. There is a new king, a new pharaoh, and the Israelites have to adjust - from being liked, welcomed, appreciated, to being persecuted.

Reality therapy….

Mom died. Dad is dating someone. Step kids have to adjust. We have a new governor - a new coach - a new boss - a new next door neighbor - a new principal in the school - a new pastor.

How well do  I do when it calls for adjusting.
It was raining two weeks ago. It’s evening. I’m driving back home and the black rubber windshield wiper on my car - came off - and the metal is scraping the windshield - and the rubber is flapping. I put off to the side and try to fix it. I try to fit it back into the holder. No luck. I find a pair of sunglasses someone gave me and I pull off the sunglass strap and wrap the stretching material onto the wiper and the black rubber and it’s fixed temporarily. I drive another 25 miles and it’s off again. This time I take my shoe lace off one shoe - and that works till I get home.

Adjusting.

The Israelites had to adjust 

THE RAILWAY MAN

Last week I saw the 2013 British-Australian movie, “The Railway Man”. Strong movie. One guy told me he saw the beginning of it - but had to walk out. Another guy told me, “You have to see the last 20 minutes.”

Without ruining the movie it’s all about being able to adjust. Could I survive as a prisoner of war - being beaten, being starved. Would I break? Could I adjust?  

Answer: I don’t know.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel we hear about some of the struggles in the early church - where families are split up because a son or a daughter-in-law switches their religion. Oh my God, my son has become a Christian?

Today it might be a son or a daughter not  having their children baptized, or they are getting divorced, or what have you.  Every day calls for new adjustments.

CONCLUSION

What to do?

Sometimes we can’t do nothing other than to say, “I don’t know what to do. I don’t know what to say.” As M. Scott Peck begins his book, The Road Less  Travelled, “Life is difficult.”

Secondly, sometimes all we can do is pray.

Thirdly, we can adjust  - so adjust.

Fourth, sometimes we need to look up to Jesus on the cross and say, “Can I join you?”

Or fifth and last, and this is not gospel, we can sit down and listen to the old Zen story. A man is up high on a cliff and surrounding him - facing him - is the cliff and 3 hungry tigers.

He has no way out in front of him. He turns and looks down off the cliff and it looks like is 300 miles to the bottom.

Surprise! Looking down the cliff he spots a branch shooting out from the rocks - not that far from the top. He gets down on his knees and lowers himself to that branch.

He looks down again - and sees the bottom of that mountain cliff is 300 miles below. He’s hanging from that branch and he looks up and sees the three hungry tigers salivating - drooling and flaying at him.

Just then he spots 3 berries on that same branch and he takes one carefully and puts it in his mouth. Then the second berry. Then the third.

And with a smile on his face, he thinks to himself, “These are the most delicious berries he ever had in his whole life.”