Thursday, June 27, 2013


PERPETUAL HELP

Could anyone offer us perpetual help?

Moms try - but they have to escape
every once and a while - offering  
a 3 year old a bribe or some logic -
for some time -  but most of the time
these tricks don’t work. Kids cling. 
Kids know. Kids don't like to be alone.
Kids keep knocking on bathroom doors.

They want their mom to be there all the time.

So moms whether they know it or not,
have kids who think their moms
are wearing a label,
“Our Mother of Perpetual Help!”

Ooops. I forgot to say: “Today, June 27
is the Feast of Our Mother of Perpetual Help.”
Check out the picture. It’s any kid running
to his mom for help! - especially when
they see scary crosses and crucifixions
in their future. Mom you better be there!




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2013
MAKING MISTAKES

Quote for Today - June  28, 2013 



“Experience enables us to recognize a mistake every time we repeat it.” 

Anonymous

Wednesday, June 26, 2013

GRATITUDE

Quote for Today - June 26, 2013


"An ungrateful person is like a hog under a tree eating acorns, but never looking up to see where they came from."

Anonymous

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

WHERE DO YOU 
WANT TO LIVE?
 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 12 Tuesday in Ordinary Time is, “Where Do You Want to Live?”

If you could live anywhere in the world - anywhere - where would you choose to live?

Today’s first reading - Genesis 13:2, 5-18 - we’re back to Genesis - triggers that question.

Abram says to Lot, “Your move! Go right. Go left. Your move. Your choice. Whatever you want? You choose first.”

So Lot chooses green pastures! Abram gets the rest - the dust.

WHERE DO YOU WANT TO LIVE?

That’s one of those questions.

It’s not a roll of the dice. It’s not Monopoly - where the smart players want to own Boardwalk and Park Place with a hotel on each - just waiting for visitors.

Nope! Sometimes we have a voice in the choice where we live. However, the choice depends on lots of things: work, money, where spouse wants to live, weather, family, location, location, location, circumstances, circumstances, circumstances.

Would it be Annapolis? Would it be the Amalfi Coast? Would it be San Diego or Hawaii? There was a piece on the evening news a few weeks back about some place, I think it was in Ecuador, where lots of Americans have settled. It has everything. Then  with cell phones, Skype, and a great supermarket and good stores and an airport not that far away - and the cost of living is great - it’s a no brainer for some.

Where do you want to live?

It’s one of those questions that gets people to consider their values.

ATTITUDE: AN OLD STORY

I think it’s also a good question - because it gets folks to look at their attitudes.

The following story I found very helpful. It’s an old story. I’m sure some of you might have heard it somewhere along the line.

A man was raking some grass from his lawn. He sees a stranger with a pack coming up the road towards where he’s working. The stranger stops and asks the man with the rake, “What’s it like around here? What’s this town like?  I just left my last town. I’ve been walking around and I’m planning on resettling - and maybe here.”

The man with the rake asks, “Well what was it like in the town where you came from?”

The man answered, “Well,  the folks there were selfish - greedy - gossipy - mean - and out for themselves.”

Well, the man with the rake said, “Those are the kind of folks you’ll probably find around here.”

And the man with the pack said, “Oh thanks. I’m heading elsewhere.”

About 20 minutes later another man comes down the road - sees the man with the rake and says, “Mister I’m a stranger here - looking for a place to settle. I lost my job in the last place I was. What’s it like around here?”

The man with the rake said, “Well, what was it like in the last place you were.”

“Oh,” the man said, “it was great. People were neighborly - sweet and neat.”

“Okay,” said the man with the rake. “Well, those are the folks you’ll find around here.”

The man said, “Oh great. Thanks. I’ll check it out.”

CONCLUSION

Where do you want to live?

The obvious answer to that question is an earlier question: “What’s it like to live inside your mind?”

Enter that narrow gate and ask yourself serious questions like what’s it like in inside you.

The answer to that effects and affects wherever you live - whatever conversations or coffee breaks you’re at - whatever bench you’re in here in church - whatever waiter or waitress you get in the restaurant - and how you deal with nurses and attendants when you’re in the hospital - and what they’ll say about you at your funeral.


REFLECTIONS

Quote for Today - June 25, 2013



"Life is like a mirror - we get the best results when we smile at it."

Anonymous


Monday, June 24, 2013

I PRAISE YOU, 
FOR I AM WONDERFULLY MADE 




INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is today’s psalm response, “I Praise You, For I Am Wonderfully Made.”

As I read today’s readings for this feast of the Birth of St. John The Baptist - I was wondering what to preach a short homily on. It has lots of threads to pull, themes to look at.

The psalm response from Psalm 139 grabbed me: “I Praise You, For I Am Wonderfully Made.”

BABIES

Babies - seeing a new born baby - brings automatic prayers - prayers of wonder and surprise, awesomeness and wow: “Praise you God!” How many people seeing a baby’s face, smile, eyes, ears, nose, fingers, toes praise God for new life. Awesome.

How many people spontaneously say a prayer when they see a pregnant woman?

I picture a pregnant woman knitting a blanket for her upcoming baby and composing Psalm 139 - especially these words, “Truly you have formed by inmost being. You knit me in my mother’s womb. I give you thanks that I am fearfully, wonderfully, made….”

In the gospel accounts of Mary and Elizabeth in both their pregnancies as well as their bringing forth new babies, we hear two women praying and praising God.

I did two baptisms on the weekend and as I stood there I saw both babies staring into space or somewhere and I thought to myself, “Where are they? What’s going on in their minds?”

They won’t remember their baby years and baptism - but when they have kids or see kids - they will be getting a glimpse of what they experienced as a baby.

Thinking about that, touch your hands and your face and ears and nose and say in prayer, “I Praise You, For I Am Wonderfully made.”

NAME

In today’s first reading from Isaiah we heard that God has a name for us, “… from my mother’s womb he gave me my name.” I’ve been on several retreats when the retreat master asked us to take a ballpoint pen and jot down God’s name for us. Then if we wanted to announce them out loud, with eyes closed, people said names like, “Beloved …. Precious …. Wonderful …. Selected …. Beautiful…. Grace …. Gift …. Sacred …. Unique!”

So we have two names - God’s name for us - and our parents name for us - and many people pick up a third name - a nick name from friends - from life - or the name our beloved gives us. Then there are all those varities of sounds for grandparents. Jot down the ones you have had - recall them - and bring them to  prayer.

Say again today’s Psalm Response: “I Praise You, For I Am Wonderfully made.”

OUR LIFE

Next we can look at our life - and we can answer the question we heard in today’s gospel, “What, then, will this child be?”

At the birth of a baby, at the baptism of a baby, at the first steps of a child, the first words, the first personality expressions, parents and others look at the child and ask that same question, “What, then, will this child be?”

In prayer we can just sit there and look at how our life has unfolded since our first words, our first steps, our first adventures outside our home, then school, dates, marriage, children, life.

In prayer and in time, we can answer for ourselves the lifetime question, “What, then, will this child be?”

And then we can thank God and say for ourselves, today’s psalm response, “I Praise You, For I Am Wonderfully Made.”



INFLATED SELF






Quote for Today - June 24, 2013


"When you are wrapped up in yourself, you are overdressed."

Anonymous