HOW TO
MAKE
THE ROSARY
MAKE
MORE SENSE

Moving Through the Mysteries
and Moments of Life
We All Go Through


An E-Blog Free Book

By Andy Costello, CSSR

TABLE OF CONTENTS

Introduction

The Five Joyful Mysteries
1) The Annunciation
2) The Visitation
3) The Birth
4) The Presentation.
5) The Finding


The Five Luminous Mysteries

1) The Baptism of Jesus in the Jordan
2) The Wedding Feast at Cana
3) The Proclamation of the Kingdom
4) The Transfiguration
5) Jesus Gives Us the Eucharist


The Five Sorrowful Mysteries
1) The Agony in the Garden
2) The Scourging at the Pillar
3) The Crowning With Thorns
4) The Carrying of the Cross
5) The Death on the Cross


The Five Glorious Mysteries
1) The Resurrection of Jesus from the Dead
2) The Ascension of Jesus into Heaven
3) The Descent of the Holy Spirit on the Church
4) The Assumption of Mary into Heaven
5) The Crowning of Mary Queen of Heaven


INTRODUCTION

Rosary beads sometimes break. They get caught on doorknobs or bed posts or on the turning signal of our car. The links in a chain aren’t always that strong.

When we break a rosary, we pick up the broken pieces, so we can put them back together again – that is, if we have a small pair of pliers. We place the pieces on a table to see if we have all the parts. Then we arrange the decades in order.

A rosary is like the time line of our life.

When we break, when we fall apart, we need time to pick up the broken pieces.

A rosary is a good way to look at and pray about the mysteries of life.

THE CROSS

Obviously, birth comes first.

Yet the rosary begins with the cross.

A person picks up a rosary, takes the cross in hand and makes the sign of the cross on their body saying, “In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit. Amen.”

The cross is the Christian sign and symbol.

The cross stands there tall, hanging over every town, every church, every life.

For the Christian, the cross is central. Obviously, we don’t notice this – especially when we are young or when everything is going well.

However, when suffering cuts across our life – we see that the hill of Calvary and its cross looms high over every house. There are times in everyone’s life when we’ve been crucified.

The sign of the cross signifies so much:

· the cross is basic to everyday life: we wake up planning things to go one way and someone or something cuts across our plans and we have to go another way or stay stuck in our frustration;
· the cross is the tree of the knowledge of good and evil;
· the cross is the tree of life planted in the middle of our garden;
· the cross is a ladder that can help us climb out of the grave of death to resurrection;
· the cross is a STOP sign on the road of life;
· the cross is a sign that points the way to redemption.

If we look at the cross as a tree, it looks very barren. It only has two branches. Yet when we spend time under the cross like Mary, we begin to see it is filled with fruit, filled with life.

Take and eat.

In the first pages of the Bible, in the book of Genesis, Adam and Eve are created and placed in an idyllic garden. They are told they can eat from every tree in the garden – except one tree. Every story has a catch, doesn’t it? The one tree they can’t eat from is “the tree of the knowledge of good and evil planted in the middle of the garden.” And if they eat the forbidden fruit, they will surely die.

That’s the crux of the story.

It’s a great story and great stories always have a catch. They have a snake in the grass. They have a snake in the story that slithers around on the slippery grass of our life whispering temptations into our ears. The serpent tempts Eve to eat the forbidden fruit, “Take and eat!”

On the last pages of the Gospels, Mary, the New Eve, stands under the tree of the cross – the tree of the knowledge of good and evil that was planted at Calvary, and she does what Christ the New Adam tells us to do: “Take and eat.” And on the day you eat of me, you will surely live. (Cf. John 19:25; Luke 22:14-20; John 6:51-58.)

Blessed is the fruit from the tree of the cross.

It doesn’t look as inviting or as enticing as the forbidden fruit on the tree in the Garden of Paradise – but take and eat.

“Blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.”

The cross is certainly the tree that teaches us the knowledge of good and evil. They killed Jesus on the cross as he spoke words of forgiveness and love before he died.

Don’t we crucify each other? Hopefully we also love and forgive each other.

Sit under the tree of the cross and listen. Sit under the cross and learn. Sit under the cross and eat.

FAITH, HOPE, AND CHARITY
Then there are four beads. We pray the Our Father on the separate bead and then three Hail Mary’s on the three beads strung together for the gifts and virtues of faith, hope and charity in our life.

If you don’t have time to say the whole rosary or even just one decade of the rosary, just pray these 4 beads.

Who said we have to say all the beads – to pray all the mysteries?

If we go through the day with faith, hope, and charity – we will certainly make a difference that day.

If we walk with faith, hope, and charity – we walk with a clear mission statement – vision – outlook for that day.

If we are a person of faith, hope, and charity – we are being salt and light.

THE DECADES AND THE MYSTERIES
As we continue to look at the pieces of our life, especially when we feel like a broken rosary on a table, we see our life not only has a beginning and an end – it has lots of mysteries in between.

Our life has “decades.” They are there for the remembering and they are there for the praying. We have only glimpses and bits of some of the moments in our first 10 years of life. Our vision improves as we look at the decades that follow: our teens, our twenties, thirties, forties, fifties, and some of us admit to being even older than that.

Life … our life … if the story be told ….

Life … our life … if the secrets be known ….

Life goes fast at times.

Life goes slow at times.

Like saying the Rosary … like praying the rosary … at times.

But life is always interesting – and even more so, if we start looking at and praying the mysteries of our life.

Some people’s story seems to be more joyful and glorious than others. Some people seem to get all the breaks. Some people always seem to be broken. Some people seem to spend more time than others crowned with thorny headaches or carrying a cross.

Unfortunately, we don’t know each other enough. We experience our own rosary. We meditate on our own mysteries. Yet, if we pray and reflect enough, the mysteries of our life can link us with each other. As Cardinal Newman put it, “I am a link in a chain, a bond of connection between persons.”

Obviously, if we pray and reflect about life, we will have more light than if we don’t pray.

Is my life filled with darkness with occasional bursts of light? Or is my life filled with light with occasional blots of darkness?

Time sometimes comes like a flood. But most of the time, it drips, drips, drips, like the ticking of a clock. Life is drops – beads – of sweat, perfume, water and wine. It is a rosary of moments, a rosary of mysteries.

Now, of course, our life is not broken up into nice and neat decades. We don’t automatically change every 10 years. Yet our life has its stages and seasons marked off by decisive and dividing moments: its “decades”.

Life changes and we change with the changes. We learn to walk. We learn to talk. We go to school. We graduate. We find ourselves in relationships. We break off relationships or are broken by relationships. We start again. We marry. We take on a job. There are moves. There are births. There are deaths. There are sicknesses, accidents, and surprises. Life! Isn’t it mostly the unexpected?

Life changes. And sometimes the links in the chain of our life aren’t as strong as we thought they were. We have our breaking points. Hopefully, we pick up the pieces, put them on the table, look at them slowly and carefully, and then with help, we put our life back together again and again and again – like fixing a broken rosary – like saying the rosary again and again and again.

Sometimes we can spot the places where we broke. The repair work wasn’t all that good. But it worked at the time; we were healed and we were linked back together once again.

Once a rosary is fixed, it becomes a circle again. Perhaps we repeat the rosary over and over again because the mysteries of life repeat themselves over and over again and again till we get them – maybe.

“Life”, as Yogi Berra gets credited for saying, “is déjà vu over and over again.”

But down deep, who understands the why’s and wherefore’s of life? We are often repeat performances. Yet hopefully we gradually learn something from each experience along the time line of our life.

Life is a circle – but hopefully, it’s a spiraling circle – ever upward – ever outwards towards an elusive God – our Future – our Father – as we attempt to encircle God.

A spiraling circle is a good image, because we can’t lasso God. We can’t tie God up or down. Yet taking time to pray is taking time to be with God. It’s like getting out onto the dance floor and taking a chance – even when we don’t know the dance. We hold onto each other – stepping this way and that – to the music and the beat. We move around in circles – getting to be with each other – knowing we are so, so different from each other – and at the same time, so, so alike – and surprise: the dance and tunes of life keep changing through the years.

Our life then has its decades and its mysteries.

Our decades – years, months, even our days – have their moods. There are times when we find so much joy along our path – but then a horror happens around the corner like a car accident. Hopefully, there is recovery and resurrection and we are glorious once again. And as we reflect upon all these changes we see the light at times – we experience illumination.

Life is simple.

Yet, life is also complex.

Life repeats itself.

Yet, life is always brand new.

Life has walls, but it also has it doors. It’s a desert, but there are also gardens. It’s a feast, but sometimes it’s a beast. It’s a crowd, but sometimes we feel all alone. It’s has a past, but there’s always the future. Yet, we have to deal with life in the here and now.

Isn’t that what makes it so mysterious, so crazy, so worth living?

Isn’t that what makes it so joyful, sorrowful, glorious and hopefully, enlightening.

Just when we think we understand life – or its situations or ourselves or other people or God, surprise, the unexpected happens. Mystery stares us in the face. Suspense surprises us.

We need friction to get sparks of light. A match needs to rub against something rough to light.

Light! More light!

Life! More life!

Life has its mysteries.

“Ay, there’s the rub,” as Shakespeare put it in Hamlet’s “To be, or not to be…” soliloquy.

The rosary gives us some words and labels to understand life’s decades and some of life’s mysteries.
Last year on this blog I did another series of reflections on these mysteries of the rosary.

The following is an attempt to spell some of this out further.

FIVE NEW MYSTERIES
Up until recently, the rosary presented 15 mysteries: the Joyful, Sorrowful and Glorious Mysteries of life – the ones Catholics have been familiar with all their lives. In the year 2,002, Pope John Paul II, added to the rosary 5 more mysteries from the life of Jesus and Mary and hopefully every person’s life.

These 5 new mysteries, added to the 15 other mysteries, help round out life’s picture even more – and who knows, perhaps more mysteries will be presented at some future date?

Right now, let’s look at 20 mysteries of life – knowing there are always more and more and more mysteries to life.

As the old song goes, “Ah, sweet mystery of life ….”

THE
JOYFUL MYSTERIES

First of all, life has its joyful mysteries and joyful moments:

Here are five we all go through:

1) Annunciation Moments: those moments in life when we hear calls, hopes, dreams, possibilities, challenges, angels, deep inner voices, when we hear God calling us to new life – new steps – new visions.

2) Visitation Moments: those small moments and sometimes life changing moments, when another or others enter into our life – or we enter theirs – and we are changed forever.

3) Births: those moments when we or a new baby or Christ arrives on the planet – comes into our view – or is born in our stable. We or they are born and we are re-born and we experience the meaning of Christmas and Bethlehem in our midst – and not just on December 25th.

4) Presentation Moments: those moments when we or others step up to the altar, or the podium, or the desk, or walk onto the stage and we present ourselves or others. Down deep what we are hopefully trying to do is the will of God.

5) Finding Moments: those moments in life, those turning points, when we are surprised to discover God, others, ourselves and the so many gifts God has given and surrounded us with.

Joy to the world, the Lord is here – especially in all the joyful mysteries and moments of life.

1) THE ANNUNCIATION

Life is filled with annunciation moments.

What have been your ten top annunciation moments?

The phone rings and a voice announces one of these messages:
“Are you sitting down? I have some great news to tell you. ‘We’re expecting a baby in December.’”
“Mom and dad, I got the job I was trying to get!”
“Patrick got a full scholarship to college for academics!”

The letter arrives. We open it and read one of these messages:
“You’re invited to the wedding of …. RSVP.”
“I love you.”
“I got the promotion.”
“The Sunday School staff met and your name came up as a possible teacher for next year. Would you be interested?”

We meet a friend in the supermarket and the conversation is filled with news:
“He asked me if I wanted to marry him.”
“My son got all A’s.”
“My daughter is doing hospice ministry.”
“Any chance you can help us with Meals-on-Wheels?”

Life has many annunciation moments.

Someone says, “Can you do me a favor?” We say, “Yes” and looking back 30 years later we say with joy, “That moment changed my life.”

Annunciation moments happen all the time. We pick up news at the coffee break, by e-mail, text messaging, by cell phone or old fashioned phones, chatting before and after church, while waiting in the parking lot, all over the place and all the time. Annunciation moments are Key News moments. Since we’re talking about the Joyful Mysteries here, these are mainly Good News moments.

Annunciation moments are often moments of invitation – calls for our time and our energies – calls for us to use skills others see in us that we might not see in us.

Annunciation moments don’t always come by phone or mail. If we just open up our eyes, we’ll see people who can use our time, our help, our love, a good word, in the everyday moments of life.

God makes announcements all the time – through all kinds of people and all kinds of situations.

Angels appear in all sizes, shapes and colors. Sometimes they can’t be seen.

We sometimes hear God speaking to us down deep in prayer.

We all can become pregnant with God.

“Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you.”

Mary heard the word of God through an angel. She asked some key questions. She pondered.

Then she said, “Yes! Be it done to me, according to your word.”

And the rest is history. The rest is mystery.

Jesus is near.

Jesus is here.

Listen! You might be in an Annunciation moment.

2) THE VISITATION

Life is filled with visits – people connecting with people – people reaching out to each other.

What have been the 10 top or most prominent visits in your life?

What are your regular visitation moments each week?

A neighbor drops in for a cup of tea every Monday afternoon around three – and one cup of tea is never enough.

Co-workers chat and connect at a coffee break.

Friends sit down in the back yard to have a beer on a hot day.

Families get together when a kid celebrates her first communion.

Families come from far and near when a son or daughter plays in a big game or in a school musical.

Thanksgiving is a great time for families to connect and reconnect.

The pope travels to another country.

We go to the 25th anniversary and reunion of our high school class.

We drop into church to pray.

We drop into a nursing home every Thursday to see our aunt or the person we always sat behind at morning Mass.

We go to the funeral parlor to pay our respects to our next-door neighbor’s mom who died.

We bring communion to five people who are “shut in”.

We baby sit for our two grandkids every Tuesday.

We call up an old friend on the phone 2,000 miles away the first Sunday of the every month and we’ve been doing this for years.

A college kid sends an e-mail to a close high school friend every day – because right now they are different colleges – one in California the other in Virginia.

A parish has a team of folks who visit a local prison on a weekly basis.

Three brothers completely surprise their younger sister on her 50th birthday with a spectacular picnic birthday party.

Five farmers chat outside of church in Leipsic, Ohio every Sunday after Mass and their wives and their kids joyfully let them do it – without sitting in the car or van with their arms folded – looking at their watches every 30 seconds. It’s not just ladies who talk after church in Leipsic, Ohio.

In the gospel of Luke we read about Mary visiting her cousin Elizabeth down near Jerusalem after she hears Elizabeth is pregnant.

And Elizabeth greets her with words repeated over and over and over again ever since, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus.”

Jesus is near.

Jesus is here.

Be aware! This might be a Visitation moment.

3) THE BIRTH

Everybody has a birthday.

What was the most significant birth in your life?

We were once waited for in the dark; and when we were born into the light, we were celebrated!

“It’s a girl!”

“It’s a boy!”

Oh what a beautiful baby!

And our mom and dad knew their story was in for a change.

Babies keep changing, need to be changed often, and they keep changing those who change them – especially when they cry in the middle of the night.

The magic of babies…. We were once a baby. Have we kept our magic?

Are we still a beautiful baby?

“Unless you change and become like little children you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Matthew 18:1).

The baby screams in church. Some people scream inwardly, “Take that kid out of here!” Others smile, wondering, “What was I like when I was a baby?” Some babies’ cries in church are heard as prayers in church and they trigger adult prayers: “Thank you mom and dad for the gift of life.”

Our niece has twins.

Our sister-in-law can’t have kids, so they adopted 3 kids: one from Korea, one from Russia, one from Guatemala.

The girls in the eight grade class in a local Catholic school, baby sit for free every Sunday morning during the 9:00 AM mass. They also baby sat last Thursday evening, so parents could attend a talk in the parish hall on “5 Key Steps for Improving Your Marriage”.

The nurses in the local hospital spread the word, “Pray for a preemie baby that was born this morning. She is only 1 pound 9 ounces and needs all the prayers she can get.”

Each of us knows every year the day that is our birthday.

Even those who can’t sing, and never sing, and don’t like to sing, sing “Happy Birthday”, when they are at a birthday celebration – especially if it’s the birthday of their three year old grandkid.

And Mary gave birth to Jesus in a stable in Bethlehem and celebrated the first Christmas with Joseph and shepherds and then kings.

The last shall be first.

It’s time to journey to Jesus.

Jesus is here.

Come let us adore him.

4) THE PRESENTATION

What were the ten top moments you were present to in your life?

Life is filled with moments when we have to present ourselves: trying to get into a certain college; writing a resume in hopes of getting a job; giving a talk; going out on the first date with someone; coming into a church.

It’s 4 PM. The church is quiet and 3 people are sitting there in the semi-darkness praying. One person is praying for peace in the world. A second is praying for a daughter who is all “messed up”. The third is sitting there praising God for a lifetime of blessings.

The baptistry in the vestibule of the church is very noisy. Praise God. 6 kids are being baptized.

The church is packed. 114 kids are making their first communion.

The church is packed. 98 kids are making their confirmation.

It’s Holy Saturday night and the Easter Vigil is about to begin. 23 people are coming into the Church after months and months of attending the R.C.I.A. program every Wednesday evening, 7:00 to 8:30.

It’s a kids’ Mass and this little third grader slowly climbs the steps into the sanctuary, heads for the podium, adjusts some portable wooden steps, then grabs and grapples with the microphone, which makes a neck wrenching sound, and then this little third grader announces to the church full of schoolmates and teachers, “A Reading from the Acts of the Apostles” and her mother and father are off to the side crying as if their kid just won an Olympic Gold Medal.

It’s 13 years later and that same kid and that same mother and father are once more in the presence of a big crowd and this time their daughter is graduating from college, summa cum laude – and once more her parents are crying tears of joy.

It’s 2 years later and that same daughter is marching down the aisle of her childhood church, arm and arm with her dad, who lifts her veil, gives her a big hug and kiss and presents his daughter to his future son-in-law. Bride and groom then proceed up the steps into that same church sanctuary of her childhood to make their wedding vows. And “Yes”, once more her parents are crying.

Each morning God the teacher calls out our name. “Is my answer, “Present!”

And Joseph and Mary took their son Jesus and presented him to the Lord in the temple – and yes, they too, like all parents, cried their tears of joy.

Jesus is present.

Jesus is here.

Am I where I am?

Am I present?

Am I aware of the presents in life’s presentation moments?