Thursday, March 24, 2022

March  24,  2022

 



Thought for Today

 

“I would like to have engraved inside every wedding band, ‘Be kind to one another.’  This the Golden Rule of marriage, and the secret of making love last through the years.”

 

Randolph Ray,
My Little Church Around the Corner,
Simon and Schuster, 1957


Wednesday, March 23, 2022

TAKES ON LAW – UH OH’S!


The title of my homily is, “Takes On Law. Uh Oh’s,”
 
Laws, statutes, decrees, commandments, are the theme of today’s first reading – for this Wednesday in the 3rd Week of Lent. Here in the Book of Deuteronomy – today’s first reading – they are bragging that Israel’s laws are the best of any nation in all the world.
 
Today’s first reading says to brag about our laws. Don’t let them slip from your memory. Teach them to your children and your children’s children.
 
Today’s gospel  from Matthew has Jesus saying, “Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets.” [Cf, Matthew 5: 17-19]
 
It adds that we better not let the smallest letter  - or the smallest part of a letter of the law – pass out of the Law.
 
Now a problem – a pause – something to think about.
 
Whenever we have this gospel reading I feel an, “Uh oh!”   It says, “You better not let anyone break one of the commandments of the law. If you do so, you’ll be called least in the kingdom of heaven.”
 
My “Uh oh!” comes from all those new testament comments from Paul about not letting the law take away our freedom.
 
My “Uh oh!” comes from all those comments from Jesus about using the law as a way of not loving or serving one another.”
 
My “Uh oh!” comes from thinking we can control God by our keeping a law.
 
My “Uh oh!” comes from when we use laws to control things – especially mainly for our own convenience.
 
In the Parable of the Good Samaritan which we heard in a talk here last night, two people – a priest and a Levite – keep the law by not stopping to help the guy who was beaten up. The Samaritan stops to help the injured man.  Samaritans and Jews had laws not to deal with each other.
 
Jesus told that parable to answer the Lawyer’s question on what he had to do to gain eternal life.  The law said, “You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your strength, with all your mind, and your neighbor as yourself.”
 
We need Laws. We need love. We’re seeing on television and the news Putin breaking all kinds of laws – international laws – written and unwritten laws – and he hopefully will be judged and condemned at the Hague – their courts – for war crimes.  We need laws. We need laws for protection – for hedges (a Hebrew metaphor for law) – for markings – for boundaries.
 
We had on television yesterday – the hearings on Judge Ketantji Brown Jackson. It was to look at her skills and expertise on laws and the constitution. People viewing the confirmation hearings can make a judgment – can be a judge - and see through and pick up the nuances of negativity and nastiness and capture the purpose of those who will vote against her or for her.
 
Law is important – but it needs to include the Golden Rule and justice and conscience and honesty – love and concern and care for each other.
 
Law is also complicated – so we need to have hearings and courts and honesty of deliberations – to know and to discover the nuances and as many sides of the question as possible.
 
That’s the stuff we need to hope for and praise when we see it – and hear it – as we get trials underway and when we weigh the law.
  

March  23,  2022 




Thought for Today

 

“A lady of 47 who has been married 27 years and has six children knows what love is and once described it for me like this: ‘Love is what you’ve been through with somebody.’”

James Thurber,
Life, March 14, 1960


 March 23, 2022


PROVERBS 6: 6-11

  
Each Spring, when the moths appear, we all remember to put up or pull down our screens – especially in the night.
 
Moths search for the light.
 
Each Spring, when the moths appear, after I put up my screens, I think of Monkey Monahan.
 
We were teenage boys at the time – around 14 or 15 years of age. Or maybe we were 13.  Well, anyway, it was Spring and this meant we became big game hunters.
 
I’ve gone fishing and crabbing a few times, but that Spring was the only time I did anything like this – hunting and killing.
 
I was no Franciscan. I was no Hindu or Buddhist. Monkey Monahan and I were cold blooded killers.
 
Now, 50 years latler, I don’t remember the exact circumstances or the chain of particulars on how we came up with what we started to do that Spring.
 
The first step was the hunt.
 
Our prey were the moths.  We used bath towels as our weapon of choice. We had a nearby ball field as the best hunting ground.   We would kill about 25 moths and put them in a cardboard shoe box.  One night we killed 100 moths.
 
The second step was to find an ant hole.
 
Yes, ant hole…. We would find an ant hole and sit down on the grass near it. Out of the shoe box would come one dead moth. We would place it next to ant hole.
 
At the entrance of the ant hole would be 2 guard ants.  They would spot the dead moth. They headed down the hole.  Out came hundreds of ants.
 
I can still picture the scene some 50 years later.
 
They would drag the moth down the hole.  What a scene. To them it must have been like dragging a 747 into a hanger or an elephant down into a cellar.
 
Then we would proceed to put moth 2,3, 4, 5 to 25 at the hole.  They never gave up.  They took all we could give them.
 
There’s a story here – but I’ve never mentioned this in a sermon. Hey, I wouldn’t want to be thought to be that strange. Then again, it might make a good sermon on Proverbs 6: 6-11.
 

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2022


Tuesday, March 22, 2022

 March 22, 2022

GIVERS AND TAKERS

 
Their kids were draining them – emptying them – of time, money and energy.
 
“Some people just bring your life. You love these people when they come in the door.  They are alive, refreshing -  and then there’s our kids.”
 
After a pause they added, “And they are draining us.”
 
She then added: “And we just don’t know what to do.”
 
I joking said, “Move!”
 
His face, his head,  jumped back at  that – as if I had punched him in the stomach.
 
“Yeah,” I added, “I read somewhere about a couple with 3 kids who were in their late 20’s and early 30’s – who were not moving out."

I paused and continued, "They then decided to move out.  They retired. They bought a mobile home.  Off they went to have the best year of their life.”
 
She asked, “Did they sell their home.”
 
I said, “I don’t know.”  

I then added that I didn’t remember the other details of the story. But once more,  I said: “All I remember was they thought it was a great move.”
 
“We can’t do that,” he said.
 
She countered, “Why not?”
 
“We wouldn’t have enough money to buy a good truck and a good mobile home.”
 
“Well,” she responded, “Let’s tell our kids we’re selling our house and then get moving.”
 
Silence. 
 
People are thinking.
 
She continued, “You always say, ‘There are givers and there are takers.’”
 
Silence.
 
People still thinking
 
She said, “And we’ve been taken and we keep giving.”
 
More silence ….
 
He said, “Okay. Let’s give them a chance to become what we are about to become: movers.”
 
I sat there. I saw two people converted before my very eyes.

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2022


March  22,  2022 


Thought for Today

 

“Our masters taught: Who is wealthy? He who is content with his wealth – so said Rabbi Meir.  But Rabbi  Tarfon said: He who has one hundred vineyards, one hundred fields, and one hundred  slaves working in then. Rabbi  Akiva said: He who has a wife comely in deeds, Rabbi Yose said: He who has a privy not far from his table.” 11

Footnote 11: “At that time, privies were out in the fields. B. Shah 25b.

From page 602 in The Book of Legends  Sefer Ha – Aggadah, legends from the Talmud and Midrash, edited by Hayim Nahman Bialik and Yehoshua Hana Ravnitzky, translated by Willim G, Braude

 

 


Monday, March 21, 2022

 March  21,  2022


 
BLESSED ARE THEY
WHO DO NOT SEE,
YET THEY STILL BELIEVE
 
 
Saw a Zen saying, “The seed never sees the flower.”
 
Wow!
 
I added in my own thought, “The writer does not see the reader – most of the time – 99,999 times out of a 100,000 times.”
 
Most books over 10,000 sales are a good deal.
 
Yet, the author,  he or she writes on.
 
Who am I writing for: me or she or he?
 
Me!
 
Yet it does help to have an audience – better,  a reader in mind.
 
Words are seeds….
 
Planted in hearts ….
 
Earth….
 
Formed by God’s hands – sculpted into me and you.
 
The parents who slave 2 jobs at times – and sometimes more – while working  -  don’t see their kids in college having a great time – feeling free – enjoying a great basketball game – screaming – happy – running onto the court – pizza afterwards – a beer – fun – joy – yet if they saw all that would they still see all their work and slavery – that it was all worth it?
 
Of course ….
 
Okay, better they see graduations.
 
So the Zen writer was saying something significant when she or he wrote, “The seed never sees the flower.”
 
That’s life 101.
 
We don’t see where our money in the special collection in church goes – but we still take out our wallet and make that extra donation.
 
We pray – we sing at church – we reflect there Sunday after Sunday -  knowing – faith sinks down deep into the soil of our hearts – like a seed.
 
Yet we pray seeds – knowing faith increases without our knowing or seeing it happening.  Didn’t Jesus say something like that a long time ago?
 
We write words – seeds of black ink on white pages or screens – knowing some of them will sink into the unconscious of others.
 
We know that. We just know that.

 

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2022

 




Thought for Today

 

“What can I say?  It’s Spring.”


Line in the movie,
Escape From Stalin’s
Death Camp, 2017