not something - judging another – thinking we know their intention - thinking our perception of another is another – if we only paused – if we really knew why another is another – so, so different from whom we think they really are.
“In
big cities, beneath the roar of traffic, beneath ‘the rapid pace of change,’ so
many faces pass by unnoticed because they have no ‘right’ to be there, no right
to be part of the city.They are the
foreigners, the children who go without schooling, those deprived of medical
insurance, the homeless, the forgotten elderly.These people stand at the edges of our great avenues, in our streets, in
deafening anonymity. They become part of an urban landscape that is more and
more taken for granted, in our eyes, and especially in our hearts.”
Pope Francis,
Homily, September
25, 2015
Friday, July 9, 2021
July 9, 2021
AMBULANCE SCREAMING
The scream of an ambulance: “Get out of my way!” as it keeps rushing down Main Street. Is someone dying – injured – or hurt? They had a stroke – a heart attack – a fall – and they got to get to the hospital. Who’s who here? What happened? Life: we certainly need others. We were taught to say a “Hail Mary” when we hear an ambulance screaming. I do that. But I also say a prayer of thanks for that rescue squad – and the hospital staff they are rushing to – and I quietly wonder, “What do they do in the middle of Kansas – when this happens miles and miles away for everyone?”
“You
don’t get to choose how you’re going to die. Or when.You can only decide how you’re going to
live.”
Joan Baez
Thursday, July 8, 2021
July 8, 2021
INFIDELITY:
YOUR STRANGE HEART
We got to talk. We have to learn. We have to understand fire and desire. We have come up with better questions. We have to face the unravel of love. We seek the gaze and grace of another. We have to learn what death does to each other. We need jolts – from mistakes and betrayals. We need re-do’s. We need to dig into the legacy of affairs. We hurt others - as well as ourselves. We need to become honest and loving. We need to discover the real and the romantic. We change – but hopefully for the better.
“Men
can starve from a lack of self-realization as much as they can from a lack of
bread.”
Richard Wright
Wednesday, July 7, 2021
July 7, 2020
A GIFT AT
TIMES
Isn’t it nice … Isn’t it neat … when someone gives you a gift - when you least expect one? A small white thin cardboard box of specialty cookies – a bottle of never heard of before wine – a book of Mary Oliver’s poems – and a compliment? And you sit there sipping the wine, eating two chocolate chip cookies – reading a poem – but the sort of sideways compliment – ends up being the greatest gift you’ve tasted in a long, long time. Thank you.