Sunday, February 14, 2021

February  14,  2021

 


Thought for the Day

 

“Celibacy goes deeper than the flesh.”

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald


Saturday, February 13, 2021

February  13,  2021



A  JOB
 

Every kid needs to get that first job –
then the second and third and so forth –
making pennies, nickels, dimes and quarters –
learning how to be and how to deal with others –
delivering papers, washing dishes, waiting 
on tables, cutting grass - doing this and that.

Like learning how to sing - how to play
the guitar, violin, drums or piano. You
have to find your skills, your interests,
your song, but above all - you have to
practice practice, practice if you want as
they say to find your way to Carnegie Hall. 

Like learning how to box, how to fight,
getting in the ring – lasting ten rounds –
learning to get up when knocked down –
gaining skills, doing the footwork, dancing,
jumping rope, practice, practice, practice,
till I can hold my own with my own. Amen.

 

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2021


February 13,  2021 


Thought for the Day

   

"Experience is the name so many people give to their mistakes."

 




F. Scott Fitzgerald

Friday, February 12, 2021

 February 12,  2021


 


NO!
 
Your opinion?
Do kids learn to say, “NO!”
long before they learn to say, “Yes!”
 
They know what they want
and don’t want – when it comes
to food and awful smelling wash cloths.
 
They learn to hide and put off
what they don’t like or don’t want
to do with homework and home chores.
 
The enemy:  parents, teachers,
bullies, older kids, older people
bark out orders and they resist.
 
Folded arms …. Passive aggression ….
Hiding  …. or learning to say, “NO!” –
that simple two letter tiny word.
 
Your opinion? Would this world be
a better place if we could all say,
“Yes” or “No” when want to say, “Yes” or “No”?

 

 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2021

 

 


 February  12,  2021



Thought for the Day

 

“I never blame failure – there are too many complicated situations in life – but I am absolutely merciless toward lack of effort.”

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald


Thursday, February 11, 2021

February 11,  2021


THERE  IS  A  MOVIE 


There is a movie being made,
a documentary, a drama,
a comedy, with tragedies,
stories, surprises, twists and turns.
It's me. 
It's you.
It's all of us.
It's filled with lots and lots of people.
It’s  being put together – cut and paste - 
slowly - - -
being gathered from the scattered
scenes and stories of our lives.
We are figuring  out our life....
Slowly.
It’s playing up there on a tiny screen
in the right hand corner of our mind.
It’s like a tiny TV in a diner. We watch it
while eating - especially when the others
go into the kitchen for a moment. We watch
it while waiting in a waiting room in a hospital. 
We stop to watch in from time to time 
in church or at the beach, or in bed at night. 
Yes.
Yes we do.
- - - -
Years later 
we see so much more when we re-visit the places
we’ve been to or when we look at pictures 
from way back when - 
where we’ve been -
what we've done.
We do.
We are in the stories  of our life
and the lives of so many people in our lives –
and on the planet. We have regrets
in the desk drawers of our lives.
Secrets....
Yes we have secrets
and sorrows....
We are holding "bags of sand and shells". 
We are "injured sea gulls at times".
We are the people we go by every day. 
So it’s good to stop and look at.
It's good to put and pull together 
the movie of our lives.
It is
and it's good to talk to each other.
It is.
It's good to show each other - each other.
It is.
It has been.
It is - - - - - good.

 

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2021


February  11,  2021

Thought for the Day

 



“No matter how low you go, there’s always an unexplored basement.”

 

 

F. Scott Fitzgerald