July   3,    2020

PAST

My past haunts my future ….

Can’t shake it off. It’s like

a sliver  of old scotch tape –

stuck to my left hand –

which my right hand doesn’t

know what it’s doing.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July  3,  2020

Thought   for   Today

 “Old age is … a lot of crossed off names in an address book.”

Ronald Blyth in

The View of Winter  1980

July  2,   2020

 SPONGE

The pale blue sponge

on the sink still held half

of its grey dish water

till the next morning.

Its smell as well –

mushroom and meat fat ….

“Oooh!” Then and there,

I realized this is me.

Then and there I resolved,

“Never again!” And I’m

the one who hated the sink

rag face wipe as a kid.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July  2,  2020

Thought   for   Today  

“To   my  mind the most poignant mystical  exhortation ever written  is ‘Be still and know that I am God.’” 

Arnold Bennett  Journals,

December 1929

Cf. Psalm 46:10

July  1,   2020

OUTLOOK 

To understand another’s outlook, 

we must take an inlook at where we 

got our outlook on the same situation. 

Check it out with our parents if they 

are still alive  - or with our brothers 

and sisters if we have them – or others. 

Then see options – different opinions – 

and last – but not least – if possible – 

talk to the other person – and listen. 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

July 1, 2020

Thought   for  Today

“In  Japan  we have the phrase,  SHOSHIN,  which means ‘beginner’s mind.’  This does not mean a closed mind, but actually an empty mind and a ready mind.  If your mind is empty,  it is always ready for anything.  It is open to everything.  In the beginner’s mind there are many possibilities;  in the expert’s mind there are few.”

Shunryu Suzuki, in

Zen Mind, Beginner’s Mind.

PIERRE  TOUSSAINT: 

PATRON  SAINT  OF  HAIR DRESSERS 

The title of my thoughts for today is, “Pierre Toussaint: Patron Saint of Hair Dressers.”

I noticed in Give Us This Day for today - a piece on Pierre Toussaint whose anniversary of death is today, June 30^th,  1853 – at the age of 87.

He was born June 27, 1766 in Haiti.

I noticed  a bit on current stuff that could trigger reflections  for today.  For example here’s three:  1) Black lives matter; 2) while in New York City Pierre moved around town helping a lot of people dealing with a cholera pandemic and a quarantine; and 3) a lot of folks have been crying for hair dressers and barbers because of their establishments being closed with the corona virus.

So instead of the First Martyrs of Rome, I decided to do  some homiletic thoughts about Pierre Toussaint and end with a short prayer for Hair Dressers [or barbers]  that I also wrote last night.

I noticed in the literature a push for Pierre’s canonization – around 1990 - when John Paul II and John J. O’Connor and Rome and others showed interest.  Since 1996 he’s a Venerable. However,   It seems that interest has slowed down. I say that noticing the last dates and articles about him being a few years ago right now.

Kevin might be interested to hear that Rome has 15 volumes of letters by and to him.

His life is interesting.  He was born a slave in Haiti – to the John Berard Family – rich plantation folks. When the natives got restless – the Blacks in Haiti were some of the first to revolt – John Berard took Pierre and his family and a few slaves to New York City.  Pierre was about 21 at the time.

John Berard keeps Pierre as a slave till he’s about 45 and Berard is dying.

He apprenticed him to a hair dresser and Pierre became one of the top hairdressers of women in New York City – making about $1,000 per customer per year. With that money he supported the Berard family.  He was a specialist – the best – in those big high hair pieces for high class women in New York City. One of his rich customer’s husband supplied the pistols for the famous Alexander Hamilton vs. Aaron Burr duel in Weehawken, New Jersey.  Conjecture is that Hamilton didn't aim directly at Burr - because his son was killed in a duel  a few years earlier [1801].

Pierre's wife Juliette

When he got his freedom he married a younger Haitian woman buying her freedom. They adopted a girl – but I didn’t spot if they had children of their own.

Details to add: he was Catholic and went to daily mass for 66 years.

He had orphan black  kids in his home and started an orphanage for white kids.

He helped the poor – blacks and whites.

He helped raise money for the old St. Patrick’s on Mott street.

He started credit unions – an employment agency – and helped emigrants.

He was buried in the cemetery there at old St. Patrick's – but in 1990 his body was moved to St. Patrick’s Cathedral – where he is buried - a lay men buried with bishops.

HAIR   DRESSER’S  PRAYER

Lord,  may this person bring You joy today.

May I help make her look her best today.

May her brain under this hair be a sanctuary

May her ears hope only for good news, no gossip.

May her eyes see only the nice in others.

May her mouth be kind or be silent.

May her thoughts be of You, O God as well as

the best for all those she meets today.  Amen.