Thought for today:
“To make an apple pie from scratch, you must first invent
the universe.”
Carl Sagan, astronomer,
Cornel Universe
Monday, April 22, 2019
Sunday, April 21, 2019
April 21, 2019
LAYERED LOOK
Everything has layers,
upon layers, upon layers.
Every story has back-
stories, and background
Every song has notes and
melodies that trigger memories.
Everything you say, gets
woven into everything you say.
Everything, well, dementia
eventually, has its say.
Wait ….
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
BAPTISMAL
CERTIFICATE
The title of my homily for this Easter Sunday is "Baptismal Certificate".
One of the key themes for Easter Sunday is Baptism.
Last evening thousands and thousands and thousands of
people around the world were baptized -
and became Christians.
How many I don’t know.
I’ll do my homework.
Christians:
meaning the Anointed Ones.
Anointing with sacred oil is part of the ceremony - as
well as for those who were confirmed.
Baptized: meaning the Dipped - dipped into the waters.
Today at all Masses we renew our baptismal vows.
MOM AND DAD’S BAPTISM CERTIFICATES
I’m the youngest of 4 kids.
My sister Mary and I are the last 2.
My sister Mary is sorting out family papers - saving some
- getting rid of others.
Who has and where are your family papers?
When couples bring their babies to St. Mary’s for Baptism
they are handed a baptismal certificate and I always say, “Do you have a
fireproof safety box for your sacred and significant papers?”
Where are your significant family papers?
For the sake of transparency I have stocks in Office
Depot. Just kidding.
Some files are saved somewhere electronically.
Father John Harrison when he was stationed here put all
of St. Mary’s Baptismal, Marriage, Confirmation and other books into our
computers. It took him a few years, but he did it.
The Archdiocese of Baltimore have all our books right now
and are electronically storing them.
I keep wondering when we are going to get them back.
I have heard that records in some Catholic Churches in
Ireland have been lost - through fires.
So when my sister Mary showed me about a month ago two
baptismal records - my dad and my mom’s - handwritten - quite fragile and quite
beaten up - from 1904 - I knew I was holding something sacred in hand.
[SHOW AND TELL]
I XEROXED them and put them on my computer and hope to
get copies to my nieces and nephew - with the secret agenda for all of them to
think and feel the importance of their and their parents and their ancestors
baptismal records and then hopefully they will look within and wonder about
their baptism.
PAPERWORK - DEGREES - DIPLOMAS - CERTIFICATES
From time to time one hears that we are moving towards a
paperless society?
I don’t know. I
still see copies of Doctor’s Degrees and certificates on office walls.
Graduations are coming towards us soon.
What will happen to all those diplomas and degrees that people will walk
up steps to stages to receive in hand? What about Marriage and Birth and
Baptismal certificates?
Do you ever notice inspection papers on elevators? How about clipboards in turnpike rest stops -
that the bathrooms were cleaned 2 hours ago?
Aren’t there FDA rules and regulations on paper about food
and medicines inspection?
What’s in your glove compartment? License and registration please?
I remember reading in a newspaper years ago - during the
horrible wars - in Bosnia and Herzegovina - how in some places, the different sides would invade a small town
and burn the town records - birth, marriage, what have you. I remember thinking, “Now that’s a sin!” I save newspaper clippings that grab me, but
I don’t know if I saved that. Next time I have time, I’ll try to find that on
computer. Google is great - but so too actual paper copies of our records.
CONCLUSION: EASTER HOMILY
Question: but is this the stuff of an Easter Sermon or
Homily?
I wondered about that. A sermon is all words - that
disappear pretty fast after it is given. Hot air …. Cold air …. So so words -
that slide under benches and out of people’s thoughts.
I’m the only one with a copy of my homily - and I find lots
of these old sermons folded in sixes - and then tossed out next week or so.
But I do put them on my blog - along with quotes and
reflections - knowing that papers are tossed - but not all. I showed you two
baptismal records from 1904.
Why not scan or photo your degrees and certificates - and
send them on line to family members?
Maybe someone will save them without knowing it - and then future family
researchers will go to your grave and say,
“Thank you” - facing your name and numbers in stone?
And maybe someone will look at their baptismal
certificate and reflect upon being certified, “Hey I’m a Christian. Hey I was
baptized 33 years ago in Topeka, Kansas.
Hey I got to wake up and really
walk this and really live this way of life. Amen.”
Saturday, April 20, 2019
April 20, 2019
BIRDS
Drones long before drones ….
Birds … drifting high above the waves,
above the waters, above
the woods….
Hunters: hawks,
ospreys, eagles,
spotting what’s below ….
totally focused on prey, food, capture …
somewhat different from backyard
birds - robins, sparrows, cardinals …
different too from blackbirds and crows -
those noisy brats, cawing, screaming.
with ready claws
over garbage dumps ….
There are lessons to be learned -
bird watching all birds - as Jesus told us
to see - to be
like kids at the shore -
to be like sandpipers dancing on the beach,
to be like hummingbirds - dart throwers
at the local pub. To open our eyes, to see,
to watch, to listen, to catch: a lot is present.
© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019
Friday, April 19, 2019
THE BROKEN CRUCIFIX
She could hear them tell each other - that she - this lady - their mom - their
sister - in this deathbed - had only a
short time to live.
She was happy they were there - at her bedside - her
three kids - 2 sons and a daughter - as well as 2 brothers and a sister - whom
she had not connected enough through the second half of their lives.
The priest had been there. At least a half-dozen of her
closest friends - had been there. The priest had anointed her forehead and the
palms of her hands with the sacred oil and the sacred prayers. The friends had anointed her with their
sacred stories - a few funny things that happened on a few bus rides - as well as
when they worked together in the Altar Rosary Society - 2 terms - 6 years.
But what she really saw was the broken crucifix on the
bare light tan wall above her bureau on the other side of the room from her
bed. It had fallen three times. It was
broken three times. It was glued back together three times - each time by her.
The first time it fell was when she was 11 years old. Her
father was dying and the emergency rescue squad was called to their house and
in moving him out on a gurney - one firefighter got squeezed in the maneuvering
- into the wall - his helmet hitting the crucifix. It fell. And the small 18
inch plaster statue of Christ on the wooden cross broke into 4 pieces when it hit the wooden bedroom floor.
The rescue squad kept moving - down the tight staircase - to
the front door - with dad strapped onto the gurney - oxygen mask over his mouth
- out to the ambulance - and off to the local hospital. The live body was more
important than the broken body of Christ
Upstairs she picked up the broken crucifix - the broken
Christ.
She kept it in her and her sister’s room.
That summer - after her father’s death - she put the
pieces of Christ’s broken body - back together - with white paste glue - that
she used in art class - at school. It
worked. She was meticulous and made the 4 broken pieces of the broken Christ fit
exactly back together.
After two days - after it had dried - after she got it firmly back together - the wooden cross with the
plaster Christ - she put it back again on her parent’s bedroom wall.
Down through high school years, she would
semi-consciously spot that crucifix many times when she got home from school or
sports or work and walked up the stairs to her and her sister’s bedroom on the
second floor.
When her mom died - when they were asking who wanted what
from the house, she said, “Number 1: I’ll take the crucifix in mom and dad’s
bedroom.”
She got it and put it in her bedroom - in her house - on
the wall - that she was facing when she was sleeping.
It fell two more times in the years to come. Each time
she repaired the broken Christ - each time with better and better glue: Crazy
Glue - then Monster Glue.
And now it was her time to die …. In a bed room - facing
that crucifix.
She was happy she was dying at home - unlike dad and mom.
Dad died in the hospital that night - the night
the rescue crew came to their house and the crucifix fell for the first
time. Mom died in a nursing home - but only two weeks after she went
there. The plan was to bring the cross
to the nursing home - but death was arriving too soon.
“Good thing,” she realized. “Maybe it would have got lost in the events
of mom’s death.”
Now - those around here bed were nervous quiet - making nervous comments - as
she lay there dying in her own bed.
She felt joy and sorrow - not enough glory - some light -
looking back at these series of mysteries called life.
They figured she was in a semi-conscious space and place
- figuring the morphine had pretty much knocked her out.
She was talking to Christ - her broken and her mended
Christ - on her wooden cross - on her bedroom wall.
She was saying and praying for her kids, “Father forgive
them because they don’t know yet what they are doing.”
She figured only her youngest would want that cross like she
did - when her mom died. This last one - was still going to church - along with her 6
kids - sometimes reluctantly.
She knew her other 3 kids were not broken enough yet to
know how Christ shows up in the pages and rosary beads of our lives.
“When we need him.”
She prayed for all 4 of her kids - hoping they will find
the right glue - called redeeming healing
- when they realize their broken spaces.
She prayed for her ex - long gone - far away and she
thanked our Lord for teaching her forgiveness. It took her at 10 years to move
from Jesus words on the cross, “My God, my God, why have you abandoned
me?” to her favorite prayer and words
from the cross, “Father forgive them for they don’t know what they are doing.”
She opened her eyes one last time - before she died that
Friday afternoon - she looked at the
broken Christ - her broken crucifix - and smiled - and every one of those
around the bed told the following story for years to come.
“Mom opened her eyes one last time before she died. She smiled
as she looked at me. Then she closed her eyes and died. She had such a peace
filled look. Amen.”
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