Tuesday, April 9, 2019


April 9, 2019

FAILURE  BRINGS
  
Winning wins us so much.
Winning - like a dart board - is very clear.
Failure can bring us so much more.

Only 1 team can win.
Yet 67 other teams can say they made
it to the Final 68 tournament.

Failure can make us that much hungrier.
Failure can take the air out of our heads.
Failure can be a great teacher.

 © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019





THIS    IS  WHAT’S  KILLING  ME

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “This Is What’s  Killing  Me.”

That one liner gives me a possible reflection point from both readings for today.

Yet - I find this message mysterious and complicated - and I don’t think I can get my hands on exactly what is going on with these 2 readings.  Sorry!

FIRST READING

In the first reading from the Book of Numbers,  we hear that snakes  are  killing people.  Moses says to the crowd in the desert, “Grab a saraph snake after it bites you, put it up on a pole and then take a good look at it.” [Cf. Numbers 21; 4-9.]

“If you do that, you will live.”  

It’s kind of a mysterious message - but that’s a possible message from what the story here is telling us.

To clarify this message, to broadcast this message, he says to make it a bronze snake - and put it up on the pole.

THE MEDICAL PROFESSION



That bronze symbol of snake on the pole should sound familiar. It’s the symbol of the medical profession.  A doctor sees a patient, examines a patient, and tries to name the sickness.

Tests…. Tests …. Tests …. The stuff of being a doctor today…. The first step is to diagnosis what’s wrong - what’s the  sickness.  Hopefully that can lead to healing that person.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

Today’s gospel from John 8: 21-30 refers to that story from the Book of Numbers. Jesus says he’s going to be lifted up and then you will know who I AM.

I assume that the text is referring to Jesus on the cross - and the horror of what happened to him.

I assume that these two texts - are put here - as we move towards the end of Lent.

I assume that Lent is a time of sitting and standing under the cross - and studying Jesus - where made of bronze, wooden, plaster, marble - getting us in touch with the flesh and blood Good Friday Jesus on the cross.

Jesus, the Healer, allows the same thing to happen to him.  He is nailed to a pole after telling us: “This is what kills you.”

If we read the crucifixion story - we can pick up the anger, the suffering, righteousness, the spitting on others,  crucifying others,  yelling at others….

People have been doing these horrible types of downing others -  down through the years - in all kinds of ways and means.

The Christian enters into all this - into the passion - death - and then the resurrection of Christ.

So once more Lent is a time of sitting and standing under the cross - and studying Jesus - bronze, wooden, plaster, marble

WHAT KILLS YOU?

I think the question: “What kills me?” is an important question to ask.

How do we crucify ourselves?

It could be a $20 dollar bill. Jesus was sold for 30 pieces of silver.

It could be food.

It could be over binging by watching television  or the computer into mesmeration. Is that  killing me?

We need to name our self-destroyers - or family destroyers.

CONCLUSION

This theme - this looking at what kills us - what crucifies us - should be in the mix of what we’re going to be reflecting on as we move to the end of Lent and as we move closer and closer to Holy Week  - which is next week. Amen.



April    9, 2019 




Thought for today: 

“Now I can say loudly and openly what I have been saying to myself  on my knees.”  


Bob Dylan, on being asked 
to compose sacred music - 
recalled on his death May 24, 1974

Monday, April 8, 2019



WEAPONS  OF  CHOICE

 INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 5th Monday in Lent is, “Weapons of Choice.”

Today’s two readings feature two stories of women caught in traps set up by men.  Check them out: Daniel 13: 1- 62 and John 8: 1-11

They feature antagonism and violence - rock throwing and accusations.

MARRIAGE PREPARATION TEST

When I meet with couples who are going to get married at St. Mary’s, we  go through this Pre-Marriage Inventory [PMI].

In the communications section I ask the couple, “What is your weapon of choice?”

Most of the time - couples hearing that question - or one of them - looks at me quite strangely.

Hey they are going to give each other a ring. They are not going into a boxing ring.

But sometimes a couple get the question and they say, “Silence!”

That seems to be the weapon of choice of many people around the world.  I know it’s mine. And it works - at least for me - because when I simply become silent - I don’t fall into a verbal trap I don’t like.

ROCKS

Back when we were cavemen and women, we threw rocks.

The dirty old men in today’s first reading wanted to execute Susanna - but when they are caught in a lie - they are executed.  It doesn’t say how they were killed.  Rocks were very much a standard way of killing folks.
The men in today’s gospel - yesterday’s gospel as well - wanted to throw rocks at the woman.  Was it to silence her - lest she tell their wives where they were.

Rock throwing is still going on around the world.

I remember seeing a bronze statue from the Iron Curtain - Soviet Union days.  It has a guy reaching for a rock and the title of the statue was, “Rocks the Arms of the Common Person - or Proletariat.”

TWO QUESTIONS

Why do people reach for weapons?

What is your weapon of choice?

MOTIVE

As to motive - and the need to reach for a weapon - is it anger or jealousy or fear?  Is it because we didn’t get our way?

CONCLUSION: ROCK, PAPER, SCISSORS

If we use words as rocks to throw at people, behind their back or to their face,   write them down on paper - see what we’re saying - and then cut that paper up.

Or maybe we should sit down with a person whom we want to throw rocks at and say instead,  “Do you want to talk?”  Better: “Do we want to listen to each other?”




YOU  NEVER KNOW

You never know whether the person in the 
picture next to you at your graduation is the 
person next to you at a movie 25 years later. 

Or the nurse who brought you to your mom for 
the first time at the hospital is the person you 
just checked out at the grocery 35 years later. 

Or the person you just let out into traffic ahead 
of you - did the same thing to you - 14 years ago  - different street - different car - same persons. 


  © Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 



April    8, 2019 


Thought for today: 

“If it sounds like writing, I rewrite it.”  


Elmore Leonard, 
Newsweek,
April 22, 1985

Sunday, April 7, 2019


ONE OF YOUR 10


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “One of Your 10!”

When I lived in Pennsylvania I used to go see a Jesuit Priest, Frank Miles, a neat guy, for spiritual direction. I also saw him for a few 8 day directed retreats - which were silent retreats as well.

In a directed retreat, one method is to give the retreatant a single Biblical Text for the day or two days or for a short period of time - and the retreatant would spend a couple of hours of prayer, chewing on and digesting that text.

Well, Frank Miles gave me some wonderful texts - that fit my needs - and what was hitting me on that time of retreat - things I wanted to talk about.

It hit me that he really knew Bible texts in a special way. He owned them. So I asked him, “How many Bible texts do you own?”

He asked what I meant.

I explained.

“Oh,” then he said, “I get what you’re asking.”

Then he said, “I don’t know. Let me think about it.”

The next day he said, “About 75.”

The Bible is this portable library of some 73 different  books or scrolls - and this Jesuit priest said, “75 were his. He owned them.”

TODAY’S GOSPEL

Today’s gospel has a Bible text - that all of us should own.

It should be part of our spiritual  repertoire and value system.  The text is this. You already know it. I’ve heard you say it at various times in your life. Here it is: “Let the one among you who is without sin  be the first to throw a stone at her.”

That’s John 8:7

Use your rosary and say that text on your beads, 59 times.  Think about it. Pray with it. Make it even more your own.

That’s one text you own.

The title of my homily for today is, “One of Your 10.”

I’m not saying to come up with 75.  I’m suggesting 10.

You  have a couple of texts that you already own and you’ve said those words - that text - that saying from time to time in your life.

I like Galatians 6:2. I own it, “Bear one another’s burdens and in this way you will fulfill the Law of Christ.”  Come up with the best translation of the text that you like,   Galatians 6:2  is also  put this way in English,  “Help one another to carry these heavy loads, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ.”

And I like John 10:10.  Actually John 10:10 B. “I have come that you might have life and that you live it to the full.”

If one of your deepest and best texts is an old translation, take that as a possible sign that this text has been in you for a long time.

So  I’m asking in this homily, “Come up with 10.”

NOW BACK TO THIS NOT THROWING STONES TEXT

The men who dragged this woman to Jesus - actually  were hoping to use his response as an excuse to throw stones at Jesus.

We hear in these Lenten texts especially - Pharisees and other groups wanting to kill Jesus.

Once we catch the power, the lightning, the wisdom, the depth of meaning in a text, it’s then that it can become our own.

SUGGESTION: NATHANIEL HAWTHORNE

If you want to get at this text in John about sin and stone throwing, I suggest reading Nathaniel Hawthorne.

He has two main novels and lots of short stories.

He lived in Massachusetts between 1804 to 1864.

However,  he wrote a lot about the mindset of the Puritans in New England from a much earlier time.  The Scarlett Letter takes place between 1642 and 1649.  Students of Hawthorne thought he wrote best about this earlier period of New England life compared to his time: the 1850’s and 1860.

The Puritans came to New England with the hope of purifying the Church of England.

The Puritans were purists. They were sometimes called, “Precisionists.”

They were stern - strict - and very off on sin.

They were not too happy about having fun.  They didn’t think well about young people dancing - for example around the so called “May Pole.”

Maturity meant sadness and sobriety - strictness and sternness.

You can find this type of person in all religious groups.

The key is to catch ourselves when we are being this type of person.

The woman dragged to Jesus in today’s gospel is caught in Adultery.

Hester Prynne - in The Scarlett Letter - has a child out of wedlock. It’s assumed that her husband was dead: Roger Chillingsworth.  She is tried - condemned - made to wear the scarlet letter A - for adultery - on the front of her robe.

Where is Jesus when he is needed?

Hawthorne was a Christian - but didn’t go to church. His house was his church on Sundays.

He sided with the Puritans a bit - but more with the transcendentalists - for a while.

The Puritans saw sin - the transcendentalists saw light and wisdom.

Hawthorne is complex - and he changed in time discovering more darkness and duplicity in people’s insides than when he was younger. 

Every one of us has to ask that question: as I age am seeing more emptiness and sin or more more love and joy in others?  Am I mellowing and laughing more or am I becoming, “The Scream” painting as I cross the bridges of life.


As I just said, “Hawthorne is complex.”  He also saw that Hester didn’t commit the worse sin in life.  Sexual sins are never that.  Food too. The real sins are the deeper sins.  C.S. Lewis also said that loud and clear. Dante too with his levels of hell.

Hawthorne saw that Hester sinned. But the worst sin, the deeper sin - was the sin of pride in the Puritans who didn’t want to see their own sins - but only others sin.

There are 3 main Characters in Hawthorne’s novel:  The Scarlet Letter, Hester, Arthur Dimmesdale, and Hester’s husband Roger Chillingsworth, Hester Prynne is the least sinful.  Dimmsdale is next. He’s the minister who is the father of Hester’s baby, The minister changes - grows - especially in understanding human beings - but Roger Chillingsworth doesn’t and commits the worst sin: revenge and can’t forgive Dimmsdale - and basically destroys himself in his fury.

As I read up on Hawthorne I heard various specialists say that Hawthorne learned a lot in his writing and studying all of this: that the human heart can be depraved - weak.

Hawthorne is trying to figure out how much we suffer from the attitudes and ways of our great grandparents etc.  His great grandparents were Puritans - and one might have been very much a part of the Salem Witch trials.

Hawthorne had very negative understandings of Catholicism and he thought we Catholics were fluff without depth because of confession and how easy we can sense  forgiveness and receive absolution.


The funny story is that his daughter Rose becomes a Catholic and a famous Dominican nun.

CONCLUSION

Enough.....