Tuesday, March 12, 2019

WORDS  LAST


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Tuesday in the First Week of Lent  is, “Words Last.”

Well, not all, but some - and we never know - which words and why some words - last.

e.e. cummings once wrote these words, “be of love a little more careful than anything.”

I read those words a long time ago - and for some reason - I remember them for this long time.

As I remember them I think about them.  Of course, life is  about loving one another as Jesus taught us. Moreover, be careful in how we are with and how we treat one another.

Last night because of Jesus and Isaiah’s words for today, I wondered  if we can jump from e.e. cummings words to also saying,  “be of words, a little more careful than anything.”

In fact, I sense that this switch in words has more grab for me than, “be of love a little more careful than anything”.

Words last - so we should be careful of them. Am I talking about positive - complimentary words - or negative words?

Maybe I’m thinking or wondering more about negative comments - hurting words - that rattle around in our brain and our memory and last for 50 - 60 - 70 years.

WORDS LAST

The title of this homily is, “Words  Last.”

The words we hear today from Isaiah 55:10-11 have been around - perhaps for 2500 years and they have a  wonderful shelf life.

Isaiah 55 says that God’s word is like seed  - planted in the field. In time they become flour and food - wheat and bread.

Like bread, we eat our words - and they become us. They educate us. They feed us.

As we say the words of the Our Father - which we hear in today’s gospel, we can also  pray, “Give us  each day our daily words - good - loving - life giving - like good bread - words."

We are what our parents said to us - our teachers said to us - our children’s books said to us.

Isn’t that how we learned our vocabulary. We listen, we hear each other. We read our books and  newspapers and magazines. We have our conversations?

We speak the language of our parents - and others.

My niece Jeannie married a guy named David - from Milan, Italy and I’ve heard that he didn’t speak till he was 4 - and out of his mouth came 4 languages all at once: Italian, English, Spanish and French. His dad was Italian, but taught Spanish. His mom was from England and they had a French Nanny.

Hopefully, we heard lots of, “I love you’s” in all kinds of languages from family and the relationships of our lives.

Hopefully those words like seed sank into us - grew - and they became us - and we became devoted servants.

LAST NIGHT

Last night we heard at our parish mission good words from Father Phil Dabney and Father Jim Wallace.

Some of their words were planted in our minds and hearts.

We heard and then saw poems by Jessica Powers and Mary Oliver - on the screen up here behind our altar.

Words Last.... 

I think about a moment I was walking along and my nephew around 30 says to me how much a letter I wrote to him when he was 16 - became part of his life.

I think of all the people we have talked to in our lives and how those thoughts and sentiments became us.

CONCLUSIONS

Obviously words become flesh.

Obviously, we need to say loving words, to others - who hear our words and they are moved.


Obviously, we need to say forgiving words, to others - who might be talking to themselves about something we did that they did not like or we hurt them.


March 12, 2019


TRANSUBSTANTIATION


Come on now, we’re all priests ….

We can change words - bread,
wine, potatoes, tomatoes,
pasta,  pies, ice cream cones,
rings and things - meals,
moments into sacred meals  -
as we are graced and filled with
a Holy Spirit - with God, filled
with Thanksgiving for each other.

Come on now, we’re all priests ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


March     12, 2019 


“L’enfer, madame, c’est de ne plus almer.” 

“Hell Madam, is to love no more.” 


Journal d’un cure de campagne 
[Diary of a Country priest, 1936]

Monday, March 11, 2019


BE   HOLY,
BUT  BE SPECIFIC

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Monday in the First Week of Lent  is, “Be Holy, But Be Specific.”

In the first paragraph of today’s first reading, the Lord says to Moses. “Speak to the whole assembly of the children of Israel and tell them, “Be Holy, for  I the Lord your God, am holy.” [Cf. Leviticus 19: 1-2, 11-18.]

HIGH SCHOOL - KAIROS RETREATS

In our high school Kairos Retreats there is a talk on holiness. One of the kids gives the talk and I’ve heard 35 of those talks.  Then there is a group discussion on holiness and the small groups are asked, to name someone whom they think is holy.

Names are named.  Grandparents, teachers, priests, Mother Teresa, the Pope, are mentioned.

Once, I even made someone’s list. Surprise. If they only knew. Remember what the radio show - that was before TV, “Who knows what evil lurks in the hearts of men?  The Shadow knows.”

The Catholic Church has specific people who have been officially or traditionally named as holy, named as saints: Augustine, Francis, Thomas, Peter, Paul, Mother Elizabeth Seton, Mary, Monica - often names the kids heard about in confirmation preparation.  Some names come from their confirmation when they have to come up with a name of a saint as a patron.

TODAY’S READINGS

The title of my homily is, “Be Holy, But Be Specific.”

Today’s readings give specifics.

The first reading from the Book of Leviticus  give lots of specifics.  “Don’t steal. Don’t speak falsely. Don’t use God’s name in profanity. Don’t defraud. Don’t hold worker’s wages. Don’t curse the deaf. Don’t put stumbling blocks in front of the blind - as a joke. Don’t be dishonest in making judgments, Don’t judge. Don’t spread slander Don’t stand there silently when someone’s life is at stake. Don’t hate your brother, No revenge. No cherishing grudges. Then comes the Golden Rule:  Love your neighbor as yourself.

How’s that for specifics.

Then the gospel from Matthew 25: 31-46: gives some very specific things to do: Feed the hungry. Give the thirsty something to drink. Visit the sick. Visit those in prison. Welcome the stranger.



Now those are very specific.

CONCLUSION

So a message for today: Be Holy, But Be Specific.

Do specifics.

Do the do’s!

Don’t do the don’ts.


March     11, 2019 

Thought for today:

"A la recherché du temps perdu.” 

“In search of lost time.”  


Marcel Proust,  
Title of a novel (1913-27), 
translated by C. K Scott-Moncrieff 
and S. Hudson, 1922-31. as 
“Remembrance  of things past”.

March 11, 2019




LADDER

Resting or hanging on a wall 
in the garage - rarely noticed 
by people coming in and going 
out of the house through 
the garage - but like most  
people - needed at the right 
moment - in the right need....  
The rest of the time I’m here - 
with wallet or wisdom - or what  
have you - just reach for me. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019



Sunday, March 10, 2019

March 10, 2019


GLISTEN

Cobblestones on a rainy night,
glistening,  thanks to the street lights ….
Eyes in a church on a Saturday morning …
glistening ….  as I listened to the eulogy
for my dad - realizing he was much more
than I realized. He was bread, broken for me -
soft, struggling, baked - but never a cobblestone,
but now I know he’ll be a glistening tombstone
in a rainy cemetery - next to my mom - with sleek
green grass climbing up the edges of the stone.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019