Friday, June 29, 2018

June 29, 2018

WEDDING  RING: 
LOST  AND  FOUND 

We find a wedding ring on a bathroom sink -
taken off for a moment  - someone washing
their hands - and then - perhaps while looking
in the mirror - they get distracted- then leave -
without putting their ring back on.

What now?

How do I somehow get this ring back to its
rightful owner. If it’s a restaurant, I ask
up front if there is a lost and found.

What next?

I take a piece of paper - write  my name and
number on it and hand the note to someone
up front - with the words, “Lost Wedding Ring”
and add, “It’s the Golden Rule. I hope you
get this. I’d want someone to do this for me.”

What would you do?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018





June 28, 2018

DIVINE  SNEAK

You know God is sneaky.
Right? You know God likes to sneak
into kisses and pats on the back,
a dad having a catch with his son,
a mom buying her daughter a straw hat,
both bringing kids out for ice cream
or a Super Shake on a summer’s night.
God loves visiting old folks and flying
kites and being with the kid who is
the first one to hit the waves at the beach.
You know God is in prisons and cancer
treatments and conversations with three
women walking at 7:45 each morning.
You know that right? Come on now
don’t give me the line, “I’ve given up
on all this religious stuff years and years
ago. Pffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffftttttt.”


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018



June 28, 2018 



Thought for today: 

“The Sufis advise us to speak only after our words have passed through three gates. At the first gate, we must ask ourselves, ‘Are these words true?’ If so, we let them pass on; if not, back they go.  At the second gate, we must ask ourselves, ‘Are these words necessary?  If so, we let them pass on; if not, back they go. At the third gate, we must ask, ‘Are these words kind?’”  

Eknath Easwaran

Wednesday, June 27, 2018



PERPETUAL  HELP

What a great job description:
“Perpetual Help!”

911 fails at times.
But it tries.
So too good friends.

Lord, help all of us
to try to be of help
to all of us - to fill
in for others when
they run out of time -
like the time Mary
and you helped
that couple when
they ran out of wine.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


June 27, 2018 

Thought for today: 


“Television has  proved  that people will look at anything but each other.”  


Ann Landers

Tuesday, June 26, 2018



PATH, GATE, DOOR

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 12th Tuesday  in  Ordinary Time is, “Path, Gate, Door.” 

We’re moving along through the Sermon on the Mount - here in the Gospel of Matthew - these days. Are any sayings of Jesus grabbing you? 

I see that Father Joe  Krastel is going to offer a Bible Study program in the fall on Hebrews - one of the books of the Bible. He’s done a series of talks on Hebrews in the past. Now he wants to do a follow up. The Archbishop of Baltimore sent all the priests of this diocese a neat Bible commentary on Hebrews. Using that, Father Joe is going to do Hebrews II for us. The best way of learning has always been teaching.

I would add that if anyone offers a series of talks on the Sermon on the Mount.  go for it. Such programs and offerings can help one’s spirituality.

WHEN IT COMES TO SPIRITUALITY

Surveys on parish life - indicate that people are looking for two themes: Spirituality and the Bible.

When it comes to spirituality, people indicate that they want to grow spiritually. 

When it comes to a desire for a deeper inner life, a better religious life, folks use the word spirituality.

I spent 9 years of my life teaching spirituality to future Redemptorists.

Having taught spirituality I found out that a key teaching is that the spiritual teacher says there are choices.

This is what Jesus did: he taught about the choice to build your house on rock or on sand. He taught about being a good tree - producing good fruit - compared to being a rotten tree producing rotten fruit. Be good seed. Produce 30, 60 100fold.

Yesterday’s gospel talked about choosing a wide ruler when measuring people compared to how I see myself.  Jesus said to stop seeing specks in your brother or sister’s eye - and missing the big bad beams in our own eye.

Today Jesus - here in the Sermon on the Mount - talks about the choice of two gates and two roads.

I like this approach - using images that we can see - when it comes to choosing a healthy spirituality.

The title of my homily is 3 images: path, gate, and door.


Picture yourself standing at  a fork in the road. You take the narrow path - as Robert Frost said he did. You don’t take the wide road - that everyone takes - and that choice has made all the differences in our life.

The path, the TAO that is narrow leads to life not death.

The choice is ours: life or death - niceness or nastiness.

Following Jesus images, we then come to a gate or door.

CONCLUSION

Once more, enter the gate or knock on the door called Jesus and enter into life.




EVERY  CALENDAR

Every calendar has every box
filled with a million names.

Today, this day, my dad died,
or my parents were married or
my sister was born or so and so
cried and walked away from us.

Every calendar has every box
filled with a million memories.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018
June 26, 1970 the day my dad died.