Father Jack Kingsbury
- former pastor of St. Mary's Annapolis, Maryland
put together this video on Redemptorists in North America.

5  SIGNIFICANT  MOMENTS 

IN  MY  LIFE. 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this feast of St. Alphonsus is 5 Significant Moments in My Life.

If I handed you a pen and paper and asked you to jot down 5 significant moments in your life, what moments, what experiences, would you come up with?

Would it be - becoming a parent, the changes that happen in the womb of the mind when there is a  pregnancy, birth, seeing your baby for the first time, raising him or her, putting her or him through school, seeing a kid go off to college, then marriage, then the experience of a grandchild?

Would it be falling in love, marriage, changing, the struggles of marriage, even a divorce, and remarriage, what have you?  Only you know your experiences and how they made you, broke you, helped you recover or what have you?

Would it be a death or a parent, a child or a spouse?  Death can be a powerful teacher. So too sickness, being cared for or caring for another. Then there is aging….

Would it a job, becoming what you did/do in life? Or a job change, or a loss of a job, or retiring?

Would it be moving, a dramatic out of state move, going off to college, the military, moving to Tennessee, or Utah, or Arizona, or where have you.

So that’s my homily thought and question for you today?

SAINT ALPHONSUS

It’s August 1^st, the feast of St. Alphonsus.  As I sat there last night working on these thoughts,  I asked my mind and my memory, “What were the 5 most important moments in the life of Alphonsus Liguori?

First would be his father. His father was strict. Boy do I have plans for you. He had started arrangements for Alphonsus to get married when he was a kid. It was to be a moving upwards. His father was often on his case. Nothing was good enough. His father would be the type to challenge his kid to do better, to have more, etc. etc. etc. His father was angry when his son quit being a lawyer to became a priest. Then one day his father was walking by a church. He heard a familiar voice coming out the window. He walked in, sat down, listened to his son and said, “Not bad!” Then “Good!”

A key moment was the loss of a law case.  We heard that he missed a minor detail and that was why he lost.  Then we heard it might have been a bribe from the other side in a land case - and he was on the wrong side. He hit bottom with that. Depression and locked doors resulted - till he came out of his room and became a priest.

He became well known as a preacher in the Naples area - but he broke down - health wise. His friends told him he need to take a vacation. They sent him own to the Amalfi Coast to rest. Great choice. Then someone -hearing there was a priest there - asked him to go up into the hills - and reach out to the goat herders - whom nobody cared about. Then he found lots of neglected people - up there in those small towns - far from the big city, Naples.  Then he founded  a Religious Community to serve the neglected.  We came to the United States for that reason.  We came to Annapolis for that reason. I became a Redemptorist to go to Brazil. Didn’t luck out.

Then there was his move from being strict  and severe - to becoming compassionate and kind.  Growing up he was scrupulous - and strict on himself, till he discovered that his perception and understanding of who and what God was like changed. His met  Jesus Christ - the Good Shepard.  He later said, “In 61 years of hearing confessions, I never refused anyone absolution.” Of course not….

He began to write - writing around 111 published books - and the Jesus one meets there is Jesus the Jesus of the gospels.  I believe Pope Francis discovered all this as well. Alphonsus discovered that Jesus was warm, a lover, a friend, a Redeemer. His key book, I was always told, was The Practice of the Love of Jesus Christ.  Get into a warm relationship with Christ.  Meet him in the stable, a baby, then grow in your relationship with him, meet him in the bread, the Blessed Sacrament, and sit under the cross and let his blood drip on your head.  Crib, Cross, Sacrament as we always heard. 

CONCLUSION

Enough already….

Those are 5 significant moments in the life of St. Alphonsus.  I hope you met him here in the Redemptorists at St. Mary’s.  What are your 5?

August 1, 2017

TANTRUMS

At 2 or 3 we make them rather openly,

At 66 we make them rather sneakily.

At 86 we’re back to wearing a bib and

banging our fists and forks and the

spaghetti and the meat balls slide to the

floor  - as we tell all in the nursing home:

“I want what I want when I want it.”

How about God? Does God want

his will to be done on earth as it

is in heaven? Are earthquakes and

tornados and tropical storms and

forest fires God’s tantrums? Or

is God’s will - really our will - to be

done on earth and it is in heaven?

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

REMEMBERING 

WHAT  WE  READ 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this July 31, Feast of St. Ignatius of Loyola,  is, “Remembering What We Read.”

It could also be “What We Heard.”

Answer, “Very little.”

Answer, “But we don’t know what we’re going to remember - till long afterwards.  And that's the catch....”

QUESTION

Have you ever read something that you find yourself thinking about 3 days later, but you don’t know where you read it, so you can’t go back to find it - and reread it?

I read parts of  two newspapers -  most days - The New York Times and the Washington Post.

I don’t read every section. I never read the cartoons in the Washington Post or any paper. I never read the obituaries - except for an upcoming funeral. I never read the business or real estate stuff. But I do read the sports section and the op ed pages.

How about you?  

Do your read papers or magazines or books and then find yourself thinking about something a week later.

FOR EXAMPLE

Like last week, I read an interesting article in The New York Times.  It was in the Sports Section.  It began, I think, about how pro football coaches work hard on their opening practice day speech. Then it mentioned that the New York Giants football coach, Ben McAdoo read a poem and a story for his speech - on this the beginning of his second year as a head coach.

He recited a poem by Rudyard Kipling, “If”.  I remember hearing it quoted but not lately - about being honest with yourself and being able to look oneself in the mirror. Things to ask oneself, “If I’m doing  this, this, this,”  then I’m doing well.  

Next, he read the story about an old lion who was in a Mexican Zoo.  He was basically finished - but the zoo sold him to a zoo in California.   The lion got there and basically was retired - finished - but the zoo staff fed him a lot of vitamins and shots. Surprise, the Lady Lions didn’t like the other male lions - but loved this lion and had some 33 cubs by him in 16 months. The story went something like that.

The players loved it: the poem was for the young guys and the old lion was a story for the old guys. Hopefully they have a  lot more game in them.

I’ve been thinking about that method of public speaking. Maybe instead of homilies, tell a poem and tell a story.

FOR EXAMPLE

Last night I was reading an excerpt from Give Us This Day missalette. It’s an alternative to the Magnificat.  And in one page commentary on St. Ignatius of Loyola,  I read the following sentence and I’ve been thinking about it ever since, “Within fifteen years the order increased from ten members to a thousand.”

Woo.

Wow that would solve the need for priests in the Catholic Church big time and big fast - if that could happen around the world.

I guess we need more priests who are saints.

LIKE

I once took a mini-course in Jesuit Spiritually, One of the presenters said, “This course can be summed up this way. If you want to understand Jesuit Spirituality and Discernment, here it is in one short principle: “If it’s good, more; if it’s bad, less.” 

I’ve been thinking about that for 25 years now.

Think about that. Exercise, prayer, forgiveness, eating right, reading good stuff, listening, well, have more of those practices; the bad stuff, gossip, talking behind people’s back, getting back, not forgiving, eating too much sugar, couch potatoing, eating small bags of potato chips in one gulp - with all that salt, junk  TV, etc. etc. etc. make sure one does less.

CONCLUSION

The title of this homily is, "Remembering What We Read"  or heard - as well forgetting where we read it.

It’s the same with preaching. I had a job of novice master for 9 years and at the end of every year, I’d ask the novices, “Did you remember any homily from this year.”

I preached to them over 300 homilies each year and it was rare when anyone remembered even one. Bummer.

But I keep reading and I keep preaching hoping something sinks in. Hey you never know.

I sense it's like going to a concert. You have to hear all the songs, because you don't know which song is going to stick with you, long after the show.

I heard our last governor - O'Malley's Marching Band do his concert at Rams Head three times and I didn't know his song, "Yes, Sister, No Sister," would stick with me from then on. Maybe because it's catchy, maybe because my sister Peggy was a nun - as well as my dad's three sisters. I don't know ....

ATTENTION ALL FUTURE
FARMERS OF AMERICA!

BE A WINNER!

DODGE BEING A LOSER! 

BECOME A DODGER FAN TODAY!

ALL ARE WELCOME!

July 31, 2017

EVOLUTION

Do penguins ever have an identity crisis?

Do birds envy planes or vice versa?

Do old fish ever feel washed up?

Do guppies group?

Do monkeys say, “Hey, I think that’s my uncle?”

Do butterflies look down on caterpillars?

Do horseflies think they’re the elephant in the room?

Do cows jump when they see the moon?

Do giraffes ever stick their neck out?

Do fat zebras wish their stripes went the other way?

Do thin cats make comments about fat cats?

Do redwood trees have problems aging?

Do apples and oranges appreciate compliments?

Do pigs get angry when people call people pigs?

Do wolves wolf down their food?

Do some horses wish they were a different color?

Do some frogs ever hear, “You’re a prince”?

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

KEEP IT SIMPLE TODAY