The title of my homily for this Mass on the morning of
your graduation from St. Mary’s High School is, “Salt and Light.”
If Father John Tizio were preaching this morning, he
would obviously have in one hand a salt shaker and in the other hand a flash
light.
If Father Bob Wojtek were here, he would have this gospel memorized with ease
and read it without looking at the book.
“You are the salt of the earth…. You are the light of the
world.”
LISTEN TO THIS
GOSPEL: MATTHEW 5: 13-16
“You are the salt of the earth. But if salt loses its
taste, there is no way to make it salty again. It has become worthless, so it
is thrown out and people trample it under foot.
“You are the light of the
world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid. No one lights a lamp and puts it under a
bowl; instead they put it on a
lampstand, where it gives light for everyone in the house. In the same way your light must shine before
all, so that they will see the good things you do and praise your Father in
heaven.”
METAPHORS AND
IMAGES
The other night at the Awards ceremony in Marian Hall,
Mr. Paul Ahern - one of our teachers - described 2 of you with images. One of
you was described as a redwood tree. The other of you was described as a shark.
What would be a good image - that describes the real you? … the best
you?
Today - in this gospel Jesus is calling us to be salt and
light.
Salt and light: both make a difference.
Making a difference is the theme our parish and our
school have chosen for last year and again this year - with a slight variation
of the wording. Whatever words are used, the hope is that you will go forth
from St. Mary’s and make a difference in
this world - better that you make a better world.
I was impressed with this year’s distinguished alumni -
whom we celebrated, honored and toasted last month. They certainly have made a
difference in our world.
JEREMIAH
Our first reading is from Jeremiah 29: 11-14 - a preacher
and prophet - who certainly has made a difference in our world. Our first
reading by James Cardillo began by God
saying to Jeremiah I have plans for you.
I don’t know about you, but whenever I hear that, I ask, “Okay, God, but how specific are these plans You have for
me?”
In the next 5 years you’ll be asked the same question you
heard when you were a little kid, “What do you want to be when you grow up?”
“What do you want to do with your life?”
And at 100 graduation commencement addresses around our
nation, this week, this month, speakers will quote Mary Oliver’s question. I
know I did a few years ago when I spoke at this Mass - and then our
valedictorian did the same. Mary Oliver in her poem, The Summer Day, asked, “What is it you plan to do with your one
wild and precious life?”
Let me read her poem. It is autobiographical for you as
graduates - except today - this rainy today - is certainly not a summer’s day.
THE
SUMMER DAY
Who
made the world?
Who
made the swan, and the black bear?
Who
made the grasshopper?
This
grasshopper, I mean-
the
one who has flung herself out of the grass,
the
one who is eating sugar out of my hand,
who
is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down-
who
is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.
Now
she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.
Now
she snaps her wings open, and floats away.
I
don't know exactly what a prayer is.
I
do know how to pay attention, how to fall down
into
the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,
how
to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,
which
is what I have been doing all day.
Tell
me, what else should I have done?
Doesn't
everything die at last, and too soon?
Tell
me, what is it you plan to do
with
your one wild and precious life?
In time, in time I hope, you’ll slowly come up with some
basic life choices: mom, dad, husband, wife, accountant, lawyer, research
assistant, engineer, doctor, teacher, environmental advocate or scientist, military, diplomats, government employee, etc.
etc. etc. I say, “etc., etc., etc.,”
because there are jobs out there that you’ll have that don’t even exist yet.
Obviously we priests - and St. Mary’s being a Catholic
School - we hope some of you think of becoming religious leaders.
When Pope Francis spoke to a Joint Session of our U.S.
Congress on September 24, 2015, year he mentioned 4 United States leaders who
made a difference: Abraham Lincoln, Doctor Martin Luther King, Jr., Dorothy Day
and Thomas Merton.
If there is anything I keep hearing about Pope Francis,
it’s the saying, “He makes me want to go to church.”
He has certainly made a difference.
So what are your plans, your hopes, for our world? How
and where are you going to make a difference?
Your parents want you to be happy, do what you want to do, with the talents you
have, get your own place when your finish college, and what have you.
God called Jeremiah - as the Book of the Prophet Jeremiah
begins - from the womb - to be his speaker, his mouth piece, his prophet, his
voice - to speak words of peace - not disaster as today’s first reading puts
it.
I challenge all of you to find your voice - find your
passion - find your life message - and proclaim it.
MAKE A FIST
Let me be very specific for a short moment - with a very
basic suggestion - that you can use for the rest of your life.
I heard someone say the following in a talk a long time
ago and I have been aware of it ever since.
Along with the ending of Mary Oliver’s poem, this might
be the only thing you’ll remember from this homily: where to put your mouth
when you are face to face with a microphone.
Could everyone make a fist. Could you hold your fist
up? Now thumbs up? Next move your thumb
finger nail to your lips or your mouth. Thank you. Now holding your fist in the
same place - about 2 or 3 fingers from your mouth - lower your thumb - but your
fist is in the same place.
For the rest of your life - when you come to a pulpit or
a podium to read at Mass - at a wedding or a funeral - that’s how close you are
to be to the microphone. When you have
to toast your brother or best friend as best man or maid of honor at a wedding
and you have a microphone in hand, that’s how close you are to be to the
microphone.
For the rest of your life, a lot of people will thank you
for letting them here what you are saying.
For the rest of your life, it’s going to bother -
like ugggghhhh! - you at weddings and
funerals or wherever, when someone is 15 inches or more from the microphone and
nobody hears them.
Sorry, but now you know how to use a microphone - use it well.
PHILIPPIANS
In today’s second reading - from Paul’s letter to the
Philippians 4: 13-19- Rebecca Osborn read Paul saying what we heard in today’s
Psalm response - from Psalm 139 - we don’t have to go it alone. We can have God
with us - at our side. We can have good
people with us.
As Ginny tells young people on every retreat, hang with
good people. Find good people for your life.
MOVING TOWARDS
A CONCLUSION: HAVING A PLAN
I noticed that two of the biggest world leaders pushed
plans on the other yesterday. President Trump gave the Pope a first edition set
of the works of Doctor Martin Luther King Jr. - 5 books. The Pope gave our President 3 of his books, Amoris Laetitia, Evangeliium Gaudium and
Laudato, Si.
Will all these words make a difference? They are longer than the tweet limit of 140
characters. They can, they could, if the words become flesh - and dwell amongst
us.
A person can read one book - be challenged by it - and make big differences
in our world. Another person can go into
a library or Barnes and Noble - take out or buy 5 books - and do nothing as a
result - if they don’t read them - and be challenged by them.
So too our education - Words, Advice, Questions, a homily
or a talk on a graduation day. - unless
they become us - it’s all water off a ducks back on a rainy day.
So too salt and light - if we don’t use them - we remain
tasteless and in the dark.
May 25, 2017
ASCENSION
It’s difficult to see over the wall,
without a ladder - or a gate out of -
from behind all these stones …
that is, if I want to graduate and
start taking new steps on the other
side of this here and now. I put on
my cap and gown, accept my diploma or degree - and say good-bye to classmates and friends. I’m ready. I’m willing. I’m able. Hey I got a good education here. Next… the only way to
is Caitrinona Ni Churraoin - [Catherine Curran in English]
my cousin Kathleen's daughter -
and still some people think
Costello is an Italian Name. The Crane Bar/ Pub is on Sea Road, Galway, Ireland a couple of stone throws from Ballynahown - where my mom and dad are from.
DO NO HARM TO YOURSELF!
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 6th Tuesday after Easter is, “Do No Harm To Yourself.”
In today’s first reading Paul and Silas are stripped and beaten and
thrown into prison.
The magistrates told the jailer to guard them securely. Hearing that - the jailer put them in the innermost cell
and secured their feet to a stake.
Around midnight Paul and Silas were singing and praying to God as the
other prisoners listened.
Suddenly there was a severe earthquake and the doors opened and the
chains of all were pulled free.
The noise and uproar that came next woke up the jailer.
Seeing the doors wide open drew his sword to kill himself. He thought
everyone escaped.
Paul shouted to him, “Do no harm to yourself; we are all here.”
ONE PHRASE
I look for something practical to preach about - and that phrase “Do no
harm to yourself - hit me. It’s just the first half of that text in Acts 16:
28. “Do no harm to yourself.”
It’s something I need to hear.
When my skin gets raised, I scratch it. Sometimes that means a cut and
then a scab and then I pick it.
I have to hear my mind say, “Do no harm to yourself.”
People who drink or smoke - when nervous - or down - when they feel the
need to sedate themselves or nicotine themselves a bit - they need to remember
the words of Paul, “Do no harm to yourself.”
So too overeating…. So too not exercising …. So too taking too much
sugar - at least that’s when I have to hear. “Do no harm to yourself.”
ANCIENT DOCTOR’S
CODE
It’s not in the Hippocratic Oath, but it is ancient medical books for
educating doctors - down through the years. “Primum non nocere.” First, do no harm.
Doctors have to realize the implications of each and every pill and
operation they recommend to people.
People having abortions and those who do them - have to think about the consequences these actions have - not
just killing a human being - but also harming the parents and decisions makers
for death. Do no harm.
CONSEQUENCES
Those who live by the sword, die by the sword.
Those who tear down people - with their descriptions - better realize
the consequences of their comments.
Looking up stuff about this last night, a lot of things hit me.
I noticed an article by Monica Lewinski in today’s New York Times - talking about Roger Ailes after his recent death.
She said he had his TV people hammer her 24/7 - and as a result of her
affair the people were calling her words you don’t want anyone to hear.
She said she basically became 1 dimensional and Roger Ailes’ TV station
became a the # 1 TV news station making 2.3 Billion Dollars - last year. She
survived. She didn’t go to jail as threatened. She didn’t commit suicide.
She doesn’t quote Jesus about stone throwing, but she does tell anyone
who wants to read her article her take on what happened to her - the harm that
was done to her because of her mistake. She said that there was harm done to
the nation because of that whole approach to news that other stations as well
had to follow suit. I don’t know what your take on all this would be, but I’m
sure your reaction is in the 1009 comments to her article as of this morning.
CONCLUSIONS
What we say, what we do, what we watch, how we treat one another, all
has consequences: good or bad - depending on whether it is good or bad -
harmful or helpful.
Notes:
Painting on top: St. Paul in Prison. This is by Rembrandt Harmensz, van Rijn. This scene is based on Philemon 1:0. Today's first reading is from Acts 16: 22-34.
Monday, May 22, 2017
ADVOCATE
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 6th Monday after Easter is, "Advocate."
The Holy Spirit is referred to as an "Advocate"
in today's gospel.
The Greek word in John 15:26 is PARAKLETOS - and it's
translated into English as "Paraclete," or "Comforter," or
"Helper" or "Advocate".
Advocate is the word used in our Gospel in English for
today. That word literally it means "calling to our side".
That should give us comfort - to know someone is at our
side - has our back - will support us.
!n Christian teaching - that means that the Holy Spirit is with us - on our side and at our side.
Did you notice that today’s Gospel mentions all 3 persons
in the Trinity.
PAUSE AND LOOK
AT OUR LIFE
If we pause and look at our life, who have been the
people who stood up for us? Who are the people that had our back? Who have been
the people who spoke up for us?
We have all known mothers - usually - who headed up to
school - to defend their son or daughter - when unfairness happens.
We all have known fathers who went to coaches and stood
up for their son or daughter to get into the game.
When someone needs a good lawyer, we don't use the word
"advocate" too often - but that's what we want.
We do know about patient advocates when it comes to
hospitals.
FEAST OF ST.
RITA
Today is the feast of St. Rita of Cascia - [1377-1457.]
She could be listed as the Patron Saint of Women Abused
by their husbands. She certainly was by him. Her 2 sons died. They had health
problems. How did advocates help in her day - both about her kids and her husband? Her husband was a violent man - abusive to her - as well as unfaithful to her.
I don’t know the story -but he was killed as the result of a vendetta.
Rita tried to become a nun - but was rejected at first
because she had been married. Eventually, the Augustinian Convent, that
rejected her - accepted her - and she becomes a Saint.
I don't know if she had an advocate.
I don't know if someone put in a good word for her.
AS PRIEST
As priest we are called to be advocates in family fights
and all kinds of situations.
I remember a 23 year old gal - whose father wouldn’t let
her date. She had to work 7 days a week in their restaurant. I saw her dad. He
disagreed with me - but I was a bulldog and he gave in. Three years later I did her wedding.
I remember an old lady telling me about a baby girl who
was kept in a dry bathtub. She was often beaten and yelled at. I went to the
apartment - got in - and headed for the bathroom - and sure enough there was a
little girl with severe belt marks on her body.
I called social services and a social worker showed up
and the baby was eventually taken in by foster parents and then adopted.
As Church we did horrible in the sex abuse stories - and
it was only money that saved so many kids from further abuse - that is law
suits and compensation.
