WELCOME HOME
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily is, “Welcome Home.”
Those are two wonderful words to hear.
“Welcome home.”
AIRPORT
I’ve heard and I’ve experienced a bunch of times - the
wonderful moment of getting home from a foreign country - getting one’s luggage
- getting on line to go up to the U.S. Customs
Agent Booth. Finally standing there - handing the custom agent my passport and
papers. He or she looks at them - checks the passport. Sometimes they ask a question or two, look at
the computer - hand me back my passport and smiling say, “Welcome home.”
That must be a great job
- saying that - and I think it’s taken on a new life - ever since the
original September 11 - 15 years ago today.
It hit me as I was preparing this homily. What do they
say to a visitor or a new person coming to America. I’ll have to listen next
time I’m at the airport. “Is it, ‘Welcome to America!’” or what?
EVERYONE’S JOB
As I thought about this, I would hope every one of us -
welcomes every one of us - and makes us every one of us feel at home.
I would assume it’s a great job being a parent -
welcoming a brand new baby - into this world. Welcome home.
I would assume it’s a great moment for a mom and a dad
experiencing their kids first day home - after their first day at school.
Welcome home - especially if they were
screaming - unable to let go that morning - their first day away from home -
going to school.
I would assume it’s a great marriage when a wife and a
husband say to each other each evening - all through their marriage, “Welcome
home!”
I would assume it’s a great parish - when someone feels
at home - here in their parish. Welcome home.
DUC
I had a job from 1984 -1993 - being in charge of future
Redemptorists - for a year a day - their novice year as Redemptorists. I did 9
classes. It was a significant time in my life.
Every year, every spring, we would take a car ride to Toronto for 4
days. It started because almost every year we’d have a novice or two from our
Toronto Province.
One year I had a big worry. One of our novices - Duc - didn’t
have papers - so we went in 3 cars. I told Duc - who was from Vietnam - that
before we crossed the border at Niagara Falls - I would go to the custom’s
officials and make sure Duc would be able to get back over the border when we
were heading home. If I couldn’t get a guarantee, I’d send the other novices off to our place in
Toronto and Duc and I would drive home.
Every summer for about 5 years he would go to the
Immigration Services building in Miami and try to get papers. His parents and
his sisters got their papers, but not Duc.
At Niagara Falls - we pulled our 3 cars into the parking lot of the border patrol building - before going through the gates into Canada. An official there - after telling him my request - said we better go down town into Niagara Falls. We did.
Once more I went into a building - just with Duc. The
other guys waited outside in our cars. I talked to an official. He told me to just sit
there and let him take Duc inside to the computers. He added, “Sometimes the person says
something nobody was hearing - like in Miami.”
A half hour later the guy came out with papers - raising them and his hands in the air in
celebration. Duc had a great smile on his face. The guy found out in Niagara
Falls, USA, that when Duc got into the airport in England, someone put down a
wrong number - just one wrong number - and that was the problem - for the next
5 years or so.
We went outside and Duc waved his papers to the guys in our cars.
While driving one of our cars - crossing the border - I looked
in the rear view mirror - and there was Duc looking at his papers - with tears
in his eyes.
Welcome Home.
Welcome Home.
He existed. His name was somewhere - officially - in the books.
TODAY’S GOSPEL
These thoughts hit me as I read today’s gospel.
I read the longer version - because every human being -
every Christian needs to read and know Luke 15: 1-32 - the whole chapter.
Sit in the back of your car and read what’s on the paper
- on the page. Your name is there.
The 3 parables that Jesus told that day - the 3 parables
that Luke preserved for us - need to be read - and heard on a regular basis.
They are the heart and soul of the message that Pope
Francis discovered. He says it took him a while, but he finally got the Christian
message - the heart of Jesus - the core of God.
It’s the message of mercy - forgiveness - acceptance and love.
It’s the message of mercy - forgiveness - acceptance and love.
Close your eyes and feel the neck of Jesus on your
underbelly as he holds you with joy on his shoulders - around his neck - like a
lost sheep coming home.
Close your eyes and feel the warmth of God the Woman - her closed hands - holding you - her lost coin - celebrating you being found.
Close your eyes and feel the hug and the hold of God the
Father holding us - his prodigal son or daughter - holding us with great love.
Welcome home.
TWO DATES
We all have two key days in our lives. They are on every
calendar.
The first is our birthday.
There we were warm and comfy in our mummy’s tummy - just
taking it easy - swimming around in the dark. And we thought this is it - peace
and joy forever - and comfort - home. But all good things come to an end.
It’s moving day. It’s our birth day - and we come out and scream seeing those masked people - feeling all that - pushing - squeezing - or cutting and hurting.
Welcome home.
Oh no! Wait a minute. That light is bright - and who are
all these people making funny sounds and faces at us.
But here we are - a whole new home a coming.
Happy Birthday….
The second day is our death day.
No, no, not now, now yet. I’m not ready.
There are two kinds of people. Those who believe there is
nothing after death and those who believe there is.
I don’t argue with those who don’t believe in an afterlife.
Why argue? We can’t prove it. It’s faith stuff vs. fake
stuff.
We’ll all die and if there is nothing after this. Well,
we’ll never know.
But if there is, welcome home.
I’ve said this before in two homilies - but who remembers
homilies - that I once said to God, “If
you’re not the God of Luke 15, then the hell with you. I’ll go find that God.”
And I put my hand to my mouth and said, “Ooops!” And I took my hand away from my
mouth and said again, “Yes, I believe in the God of Luke 15. I want to come
home to that God - described by Jesus Christ.”
Did you hear the opening words of today’s gospel?
“Tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to
listen to Jesus, but the Pharisees and scribes began to complain, saying, “This
man welcomes sinners and eats with them.”
Jesus wants to eat with us - all of us. He wants to eat
us up and become one with us - to receive communion with us - to go to
communion with us. Everyone.
We’re not there yet - but have you got that message yet?
Don’t we realize there are Catholics who don’t feel
welcome - Catholics who are like Duc,
the guy I mentioned. They don’t feel welcome.
They don’t feel they have the proper papers. They don’t feel at home in
the Catholic Church.
I’ve run into various Catholics who say, “Look who’s
eating with Jesus. Look who is in communion with Jesus.”
Hello.
The Pharisees amongst us say, “Wait a minute, Jesus
didn’t mean that.”
The Scribes - those are the ones who could write, write the letters to those in authority - when this message is repeated - from the pulpit or wherever.
We’re allowed to give the short version of the gospel
today - and end at verse 10 and skip the third parable - that of the Prodigal
Son.
Obviously, I would
never do that, because Jesus in this 3rd parable, tells about the
older brother.
Okay dad, okay God the Father, okay Holy Father, you’re
welcoming home these other people, these sinners, but have you seen all the
good I’ve done in my life - down through the years - and now at this last hour
you welcome home this son of yours - who swallowed up your property with prostitutes,
for him you slaughter the fatted calf.” For him, you say, “Welcome home!”
CONCLUSION
And the Father now has to wait for the older son to come
home - to see his brother back in the house and to come home and welcome his
brother and say to him, “Welcome home.”
And “Ooops!” -
sometimes I’m the older brother to myself. I won’t forgive myself. I can’t be
at home with myself because of my life.
Well, if that’s the case, thank God I’m not God. I build my own walls -
and I make myself pay for them. But God
laughs at such nonsense, comes through walls, and says, “Peace!”
