Thursday, December 31, 2015

December 31, 2015

OLD CALENDAR

Save that old calendar - that is,
if you use them to ballpoint pen
or magic marker appointments
or reminders in those boxes. Hey,
you might find a few of those past
calendars when you’re moving
from here to there 10 or 20 years
from now and you pause to see
where you were in 2015.
Where were you? What was
the most important moment?
Did you have a Happy Old Year?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2015

Wednesday, December 30, 2015

December 30, 2015


THE RED IN POINTSETTIAS

Did you ever notice the red in pointsettias?
How did they come up with that richness,
that brightness, that special tint of redness?
Kids with red crayons in hand, painters
with tubes of red paint in their boxes,
have to be envious. Okay atheists, loosen
up, hear the scream and the shout, “Artist!”


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015




St. Mary's Annapolis,
Old altar, 2015

Tuesday, December 29, 2015

December 29, 2015

STILL

What an interesting word: “still”.

A place to make liquor.
A photograph that is without motion.
A painting of bread and wine and a 
flower on a table....
A silence…. when time stands still ....
A state in which hunters and snipers wait….
A pond of water - frozen without being frozen.
A sitting there at the bedside of a loved one
nearing their last breath....
A waiting for something to happen…. and
there’s more, there is still more to come.

What an interesting word: “still”.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2015
WALK  THE  TALK


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this December 29th  is, “Walk The Talk.”

I could tackle two themes in today’s gospel: Is there anything we’re waiting for - something or someone we have unfinished business with?; swords that pierce the heart can reveal various thoughts and learnings. [Cf. Luke 2: 22-35]

Instead however, last night I decided to go with the simpler theme: walk the talk. It’s a basic message - a cliché to be honest.

I think that spells out what John is saying in his First Letter 2: 3-11.

Talking the talk is important - especially to oneself - but if it doesn’t flow into action, then we can be labeled, “All talk.”

Or we ourselves  - or others - will say, “Talk is cheap.”

LISTEN TO JOHN AGAIN

John says, “Whoever says, ‘I know him,’ but does not keep his commandments is a liar….”

John says that those who say they are in the light, yet hates their brother or sister, is still in the dark….”

In other words, “Walk the Talk.”

In other words, “Action speaks louder than words.”

That’s something we have been hearing all our lives.

TO BE HONEST: START WITH OURSELVES

But to be honest, I don’t know about you, but I make many self promises in the morning - about what I am going to do that day - but by evening, I have to admit, I never got to them.

So I would assume that a key thing is pause more - realize more - that if we keep on giving our word and then we don’t keep it - we are lying to ourselves, we are kidding ourselves, we are weakening the sacredness of words - those personal decisions we spell and verbalize to ourselves.

That’s words to oneself. Giving our word to others is another issue.

I have not done my homework - that is - I haven’t done enough thinking to make the following statement: “If we keep on breaking our word to ourselves - we’ll be doing that a lot more to our neighbor.
Based on all the sayings, there must be a lot of people who experienced the realithy that some people are all talk.

There is the Chinese proverb: “Talk doesn’t cook rice.”

We’ve all heard the same message in the English proverb,  “Wishes don’t wash dishes.”

Or as Anonymous put it, “After all is said and done, a lot more will have been said than done.”

CONCLUSION

But some people do - and we learn a lot more about people from their hands  - their actions - that we learn from their mouth and their words.

Robert Brault, in his poem entitled, “A Poem Missing the Word Woulda” goes like this,


“A nod,
a bow,
and a tip of the lid
to the person
who coulda
and shoulda
and did.”


Monday, December 28, 2015

December 28, 2015

SORRY

I didn’t realize I hurt you till after
I hurt you. I was numb, dumb too.
So will my saying,  “I’m sorry” help?
P.S. And by the way now I get
those words Jesus said from the
cross, “Father forgive them,
because they don’t know what
they are doing.” Neither did I?



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2015

MURDERING, MAIMING, AND MINIMIZING THE INNOCENT

The title of my homily is, “Murdering, Maiming, and Minimizing the Innocent.

Today - December 28, has the feast of the slaughter of the Holy Innocents. It has many possible messages. Bastin, Pinckers and Teheux in their God Day By Day Spiritual Reflections on the Readings of the Day,  Volume Four, write, about this text, Matthew 2:13-18, “Are they symbolic, those children who were massacred in Bethlehem? Or course they are, but we should not forget that symbols are always rooted in human realities, and the reality here is that of human suffering - people dying of hunger, the bitter complaints of exiles and the silence of frightened prisoners.” [Page 84]

With that in mind I put together this reflection for today.

In our lifetime we’ve seen the slaughter of the unborn - the Holy Innocents.

In our lifetime we have seen the slaughter of millions of children, women, men in the Holocaust.



In our lifetime we have seen the murder of all kinds of babies, children because of race and religion issues in Serbia, Macedonia, and the former Yugoslavian countries.

In our lifetime we have seen the same thing happen with the slaughter of so many in Somalia, Sudan, Syria, Iraq, in so many other African and Middle East countries.



In our lifetime we seen the Killing Fields in Cambodia and so many other places on the planet.

In our lifetime we have heard about various many priests and bishops who were not protective of young people in the sexual abuse stories in the Catholic Church.

In our lifetime we have heard how kids can get shortchanged in education - which can be a ladder out of poverty.

In our lifetime we have seen some rich get richer because of scams and skim offs and manipulation in the markets.

In our lifetime we have heard lies and “claimed innocence” when it comes to public people - in sports, the arts, politics - who try to explain ways out of living a life of lies, cheating, and misbehaving -  giving bad example to the young.

In our lifetime we’ve seen and heard people whose ethics and truth telling seems to have disappeared and they have walked in the dark and not in the light as we heard in today’s first reading from 1 John 1: 5-2:2.

In our lifetime we have heard people show little concern for the many migrants and their children who are “pitchforked” - as one preacher put it - from one place to the next.

In our lifetime we have heard politicians - and dictators - and elected officials -  concerned more about the polls and their numbers than the number of people who are suffering, starving and homeless.

In our lifetime we have heard people criticize prophets, priests, preachers, writers, world leaders, who have preached the Catholic Church’s Social Justice and Human Charity teachings - or have only been selective when it comes to these issues - with no concern for the hurting and the humbled - but only for their agenda.

In our lifetime we have seen and heard people who claim innocence when it comes to caring for our earth - not being aware of the health of all - for example poor children in West Virginia, Kentucky, China - whose lungs are damaged because of earth dumping and disregard of the reality of carbon emissions.

In our lifetime we have heard people screaming at children - hitting children - hurting children - with no concern for what they see with their eyes and hear with their ears.

Sunday, December 27, 2015

December 27, 2015

FAMILY

The place where we know each other’s cough,
step, moods, laugh, idiosyncrasies, stories, hurts, favorite cream flavor, cereal, fears, friends, gripes, TV programs,  buttons, and yes, oh yes, what we hate, broccoli, cauliflower and talking about __________________________.


© Andy Costello Reflections, 2015