The title of my homily for this 10 Tuesday in Ordinary
Time is, “Yes, No.”
A great principle to work for is the ability to speak
with clear thinking. A good place to start is to work towards being able to
say, “yes” or “no” depending on whether I want to say “yes” or “no.”
This coming Saturday we’ll hear Jesus saying in the
Gospel reading from Matthew 5: 37, “Let your ‘Yes’ mean ‘Yes,’ and your ‘No’
mean ‘No.’ Anything more is from the evil one.”
That’s one of those key teachings we find in the Sermon on the Mount -
which we’re listening to these three weeks.
We have the power of choice.
Pythagoras, remember him from Geometry said, "The oldest, shortest words - 'yes' and 'no' - are those that require the most thought."
Eleanor
Roosevelt said, "Never allow a person to tell you 'no' who doesn't have the power to say 'yes.'" JESUS IS THE
YES
Today’s first reading - from 2nd Corinthians 1: 18-22 - has some comments about Jesus being a “YES” and not a “No.”
A good homily thought would be to stress the importance of
making the “Yes Prayer.” The Yes Prayer is
to come into the presence of God and simply say, “Yes!” We can think deeply about God's urges in our life and say 3, 10 or use a whole rosary beads to say our "YES" to God.
Or we can say “Amen!”
In the scriptures, “Amen” is another word for “Yes”.
ERIC BERN - ON THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS
I have a book I’ve
been working on for years now. I have to say “Yes” I’ll get it done - but I
keep on putting it off. Not a secret of happiness.
Eric Bern once summed
it all up this way: “The secret of happiness is the ability to say 3 words,
“Yes, No and Wow.”
He added, “The secret
of unhappiness is saying these 3 words, “If only and Maybe.”
We don’t have to read
a book to know this wisdom.
Yet, in the meanwhile
I keep saying, “If only I had time to finish that book.” “Maybe some day I get the energy to get it
done.”
CONCLUSION
In the meanwhile I’m
rushing around doing nothing and missing all the “Wow’s” that surround me -
especially in the Spring - especially today.
Amen.
Monday, June 8, 2015
MERCY AND
ENCOURAGEMENT
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 10th Monday in
Ordinary Time is, “Mercy and Encouragement.”
THEME FOR A
YEAR
Our pope, Francis, is off on the theme of Mercy.
He’s proclaiming an upcoming year of mercy. It will begin
this December 8, 2015 and go till
November 20, 2016.
He’s announcing it, pushing it, proclaiming it. He’ll be
calling us to show mercy to each other and accept mercy, forgiveness,
reconciliation with ourselves and others.
MERCY - LETTING
GO OF THE STICK
In a homily on March 17th, 2013, Pope Francis
used the image of a stick.
He preached the following: “I think we too
are the people who, on the one hand, want to listen to Jesus, but on the other
hand, at times, like to find a stick to beat others with, to condemn others.
And Jesus has this message for us: mercy. I think — and I say it with humility
— that this is the Lord's most powerful message: mercy.”
Translation:
“Put down your sticks - we could add ‘stones’ and stop beating on others as
well as ourselves.”
I finished a
Friday 12:10 Mass here at St. John Neumann’s a few years ago and there were
about 20 women in Seelos Hall with about 50 little kids. I noticed there were
about 25 little girls and they were playing together with dolls and little
carriages. There were 25 boys and they were outside on the lawn there - all the
boys had sticks and they were dueling - and fighting each other with sticks.
It reminded me
of something my niece Patty told me about her two boys. Boys will be boys will
be boys all the time. You can try to keep toy guns and tanks and bomber planes
away for them, but they’ll make guns out of peanut butter sandwiches and shoot
at each other.
Mercy is
putting down the guns and the gossip and active and passive aggression we have
towards each other and ourselves.
That’s mercy.
If we put a whole year towards doing that - we will be evangelizing the world.
Will that
work? Time will tell.
PAUL VI ON EVANGELIZATION
Back in 1975 Pope Paul VI
came out with an enclyclical on Evangelization
- Evangelii Nuntianidi. Announcing peace to the world. We were told over and over and over again -
to be evangelizers.
To be honest, I never really
got it.
And I’ve been hearing the
words, “New Evangelization” ever since and I still don’t get it.
Okay, I get it, but I don’t get it.
I don’t think it’s a good marketing of Christianity - using this big word
“evangelization”.
I think a shorter more
common word works much better. For example this year we are going to stress
“Mercy”. Be merciful to each other for this year.
It would be like having a
year of faith or hope or charity.
I think one short common
word works better.
So come next December 8th, 2015, have mercy towards folks you live with and
deal with till November 20, 2016.
Try it.
IN THE MEANWHILE
In the meanwhile, the title
of this homily is “Encouragement.”
Ooops! I’m contradicting
myself. Encouragement.
Today we begin the It’s
not me….
Thought: this week show
encouragement towards the people in your life.
See if it works for a week.
I say this because in
today’s first reading the word, “Encouragment” is used 8 times in 7 verses. In
Greek the word is “PARAKLESIS”
I was at Genesis yesterday
at Milkshake Lane - off Forest Drive. I signed in my name at the desk at 12:45
- and saw 4 people from the parish.
All 4 thanked me for the
visit.
I get back to the sign in
book at 3:12 and I couldn’t find my name to mark when I was leaving. Surprise
there were 3 pages after my name. All kinds of others were visiting others.
That’s encouragement - so
too a phone call, so too an e-mail, so too a Get Well Card.
So too going to a kids game.
So too playing cards with kids. So too encouraging a person who is having a
tough time with a marriage and on and on and on.
Sir Winston Churchill was
off on Courage - saying, “Without courage, all other virtues lose their
meaning.”
Wasn’t that his job all through World War II when England and London were being
bombed all night long?
CONCLUSION
It takes courage to be an encourager.
Try it
for a week - and then try another virtue for another week, That will give you a
hint, whether you can hold a stress for
a week. You - building strength for a whole year of mercy.
June 8, 2015
IT’S NOT ME
It’s not me….
It’s quite a relief
to find out it’s not me
when I thought it was me.
Luckily I asked someone
what I was doing wrong
when it came to him.
And this person said,
“It’s not you.
That’s the way
he is with everyone.”
“Wow! Phew!”
That’s a wonderful,
“Wow!” and “Phew!” "Oooopps! I realized how sad it must be to be this guy."
The title of my homily is, “Body of Christ - Amen. Blood
of Christ - Amen.”
Today we’re celebrating the great feast of the Most Holy
Body and Blood of Christ.
Obviously, we should be doing some deep thinking and
reflecting upon this great reality and mystery in our faith.
We can be in Holy Communion with Christ - someone who
lived some 2000 years ago. Moreover, we believe Christ is God - in the Trinity. Our God is one God - 3
persons. These are amazing beliefs.
DRIVING DOWN
THE ROAD IN PALMYRA NEW YORK
Years and years ago - maybe in the early 1980’s - I’m
driving down a road in Palmyra, New York and I spot a Mormon Museum or Visitors
center off to my right. I stop. I go in. I’m wearing a T-shirt and while walking about
someone offers me a guided tour.
I say, “Yes” and all kinds of things are shown me and
told me about the Mormon Religion.
After the tour - I’m on the road again - heading for
Webster, New York where I was going to preach a Parish Mission for a week.
Boom! It hits me. I say, “Holy Cow, people believe what I just heard.”
Boom! On top of that, it hits me, “If I told people who never believed in Christianity and Catholicism, what we believe in, would they have the same thoughts and reaction I had about Mormonism - or many religions?”
If I told them about Jesus Christ being both human and divine, about the miracles of Jesus - the virgin birth, that we believe that Jesus Christ is God and we can eat him in the bread, drink him in the wine - and that bread and wine become the body and blood of Christ - in our Mass - what would be their reaction?
Yes that’s a central belief in Catholicism - in our understanding of what it means to be a Christian.
In preparing this homily, I looked up Mormonism
on line and found some amazing beliefs.
I don’t believe there are people living on the moon and
they are tall - many of them 7 feet tall or more. I don’t believe there are
people living on the sun. [Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, p.
217]
I don't believe that "The Garden of Eden was
in Missouri when Adam and Eve were kicked out.” I don't want to make fun of other's beliefs -especially from the pulpit. What I'm talking about is my experience on the road from Palmyra, New York to Webster, New York. I'm talking about my experience of wondering what others might think in hearing about Catholic teachings - especially our belief in what happens in our Mass - with the changing of bread and wine into the body and blood of Jesus Christ. SO TODAY’S
READINGS
Today we're celebrating the feast of "The Most Holy Body and Blood of Christ." So we have appropriate readings for this feast.
In this first reading we have Moses sending young men of
the Israelites to sacrifice young bulls as peace offerings to the Lord. Then
Moses takes the blood from these sacrifices and puts half of the blood into
large bowls and the other half of the blood was splashed on the altar. Then he
sprinkled blood on people saying, “This is the blood of the covenant that the
Lord has made with you in accordance with all these words of his.”
What would it be like experiencing that? What would that feel like? We
know what it’s like to be sprinkled with Holy Water. What would blood be like?
Oooh!.
And today’s gospel brings us into the upper room where
Jesus takes bread - unleavened bread - and blesses it, breaks it, and says,
“Take it; this is my body.” Then he took
a cup with wine in it, gave thanks and says, “This is my blood of the
covenant, which will be shed for many.”
Every once and a while that should be hitting us - and
hitting us big time.
When was the last time that overwhelmed us?
Today when you are coming up the aisle for communion -
walk mindfully. Receive with reverence and amazement.
Pause when you’re handed the bread and the wine - and say
appropriately, “Amen.”
LEN THE PLUMBER
As I was working on this homily last night and paused and tried to come up with experiences I had with the Bread and the Wine. Back in the 1970’s I was stationed in a retreat house in
Tobyhanna, Pennsylvania. On Saturday night, based on the number of men making
the weekend retreat, each man would get around 20 minutes of time alone in our
retreat chapel, kneeling in front of Christ in the Blessed Sacrament in the
gold monstrance - all through the night.
Right after that evening Mass - everyone would clear out
of chapel - and one man at a time would kneel there in prayer - up front - in
the dark - by himself in prayer. Candles on the altar would be the only light.
I’m in the sacristy after that Saturday night Mass and I
forgot where I was and was figuring out a few things in the sacristy. I
finished up and walked out of the sacristy. I headed across the sanctuary. I stepped down
into the main aisle - to walk quietly towards
the back door of the chapel.
Boom, I stepped off the first step and right onto the
back of a man lying on the floor - worshipping Christ the Lord. I crashed into
the benches - said “I’m sorry!” I wasn’t hurt and quickly got up and walked out
of the chapel.
The next morning I went up to the man. I saw who he was
the night before. He was a big powerful 6 foot 5 or so man - named, “Len the
Plumber”. He was not the Len the Plumber - the one whose name is on billboards here in Maryland. This was up in the Scranton - Wilkes
Barre - Wyoming Valley part of Pennsylvania. I said, “What were you doing on
the floor last night.”
He said, “That’s the way I pray when I come here on
retreat before Christ - in the Holy Eucharist.”
I said, “Ooooooh.”
He added, “That’s my God and my savior.”
Then - he must have seen my face - said, “7 years ago we
were digging this deep hole in the ground next to a building. It was a big plumbing job. Well, my
son was down at the bottom of the hole and the whole thing caved in onto my
son. We should have used a caisson. I grabbed a shove and jumped into the hole
and started digging and praying furiously. I prayed, ‘Jesus save my son.’ Then my shovel hit his
head - under the dirt. I screamed to my other son, ‘He’s here! I got him.’ I
pulled the dirt away from his mouth with my hands and he was still breathing. Jesus saved my son.
That’s why I was on the floor last night - still praying and still thanking my Lord
and my God for saving my son.”
Many, many, many, times when I’m receiving communion I
remember that story.
WHAT ARE YOUR
COMMUNION STORIES?
What are your communion stories?
One Holy Thursday evening I was preaching in Upstate New
York and as I was giving out Communion I started noticing the hands that
reached out to receive Communion that night.
The 10th
person was an old lady with very arthritic hands. “Body of Christ! Amen.”
The 15th person was a teenager with a boy’s
name in ballpoint pen written on the palm of her hand. “Body of Christ! Amen.”
The 20th person was a big burly man - with
lots of black oil or tar or grime on his hands. “Body of Christ! Amen.”
Near the end of the Receiving communion line was a teen
age girl with just the palm of her hand - and her fingers were just tiny beads
of flesh.
“Body of Christ! Amen.”
Well, after Mass on that Holy Thursday night I had some
time to just sit there in communion with Christ - and pray and reflect - and
those moments with all those people hit me big time. “Body of Christ! Amen.”
CONCLUSION
Those are a few thoughts and memories and moments of Holy
Communion. I have many more. What are yours?
