Sunday, November 24, 2013

CIRCLES



INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Circles.”

When was the last time you drew a circle? 

Was it when you saw steam in a mirror or frost on a window - or you were at Macaroni Grill and there on the paper table cloth - was a box of crayons?

This Sunday we celebrate the Feast of Christ the King.

CIRCLES

The title of my homily is, “Circles.”

Since this feast is trying to get at something - and since the idea of king and kingdom - have sort of slipped away from our political realities  and imaginings - I began wondering where to go with this feast for Christ as King.

I’ve heard people talk about protecting one’s turf - or someone guarding  their territory - so as I began exploring the idea of having one’s territory - space - area - fiefdom - and trying to protect the who and the what within our circles - as well as to keep people out of our space or stuff - or what have you. 

Thinking about all that triggered the idea of reflecting upon circles.

We might not talk about kings and kingdoms - in the year 2013 - except in the UK - the United Kingdom - but we still talk about circles.

Inner circle - outer circle - family circle - political circles.... Do they still have sewing circles? I know they had quilting parties - but are they called “quilting circles” anywhere?

For the sake of a sermon, let me present 3 considerations about circles.

FIRST CONSIDERATION - MAKE A LIST

The first consideration would be to list our circles - our spheres - the circles we spend our time in and life in and with.

In a given week - where are we - where do we spend our time?

Get a piece of paper and draw 5 or 7 circles.

Put a single name in each circle for the 5 or 7 key people in your life. Someone said if you have 5 friends in one’s life, you’re a lucky person.

Get another piece of paper and draw 5 or 7 circles - and list your circles: home, work, organizations, bridge friends or poker buddies, [Is that like the difference between power boat people and sail boat people?] - walking or running or exercise groups - church - book clubs or what have you.

What would happen if someone realized they were the only circle in their life - and they won’t let anyone into their inner circle. Remember the old saying: “A person wrapped up in themselves makes a pretty small package.”

What would happen if someone realized in doing this that we are one big circle - and we're one with everyone on this big round circle called our world?




SECOND CONSIDERATION - POSITIVE OR NEGATIVE?

The second consideration would be to evaluate our circles. 


Which circles give me life? Which circles drain me?

Am a problem or am I a solution in the circles I spin around in.

Some circles are beautiful - life giving - and some circles are vicious circles.

Some of the circles I live and move in give me growth - and some cause me decay and death.

In evaluating our circles we might grab another piece of paper and draw some more circles. We begin thinking outside the box - oops - outside the circles we’ve been focusing on. We realize this image of circle is not flat - just one line - just one dimension like a crayon drawing of a circle  - but we see a ball. We realize the image of a circle - bounces around our brain - and we see that life itself has other types of circles.

There are circles everywhere. We have seen the human cell in drawings. We've seen basketballs and ping pong balls. We see tires and the sun, the moon and the stars. We see necklaces and ear rings with cricles. And we've see those gold circles on fingers - called rings.


We begin thinking about that circle called a wedding ring. If married, how is my marriage going? Are other circles swallowing up my primary relationships? 


When looking up quotes on circles I found the following quote from a 1797 play entitled, The Double Callant  - Act 1, scene ii.- by Colley Cibber [1671-1757]. One of the actors says, “Oh, how many torments lie in the small circle of a wedding ring.” 




One of my favorite singers was Harry Chapin - and I’ve listened to his CD’s while driving many, many a time. I love his song, “All my Life’s A Circle.”  It brings out the over and over and over again we are a circle as we experience in life cycle. “Sunrise and sundown, Moon rolls through the night-time till daybreak comes around.” “Seasons spinning round again, the years keep rolling by.” The song brings out: “Seems like I’ve been here before.” 

Life is déjà vu all over again.

We’re ending this church year this week. We’re heading for one more Family Thanksgiving - and Advent and Christmas - and Christmas shopping - and winter and the return again of snow and cold in the forecast.

Harry Chapin sings that there are no straight lines - “all my roads are bends”.  “There’s no clear-cut beginning and so far no dead ends.”

Harry Chapin died on the road - in a horrible car accident - and his circle ended - yet his songs sing on.

We reflect - that we are continuing the cycle of life of our parents and their parents - and we hope our legacy - our goodness will roll on.

For years I’ve been interested in Native American Spirituality.

Their art work…. their dancing …. their religion …. their lives are very much based on circles.

Black Elk [1863-1950] -  a famous Native American said, “Everything an Indian does is in a circle, and that is because the power of the world always works in circles, and everything tries to be round.  In the old days when we were a strong and happy people, all our power came to us from the sacred hoop of the nation, and so long as the hoop was unbroken the people flourished.”  From Black Elk Speaks, Being the Life Story of a Holy Man of the Oglala.

That quote  has triggered for me the question why they didn’t come up with the wheel - instead of long tent poles being dragged along the ground pulled by horses.

So my second consideration is to evaluate - wonder - ask questions about our circles. Are they giving me life or draining me?

THIRD CONSIDERATION - BREAKING THE CIRCLE

We were taught in Theology and Bible Studies early on - that Judaism and Christianity - broke the circle - and became linear.

Christ came to change the world!

For doing so he was killed - murdered - as we heard in today’s gospel.

A message for us is where do I have to change and grow. Where do I have to die to self - so that I can rise to newness of life.

For example - relevant to what I’m trying to say here is the famous little poem called, “Outwitted” by Edwin Markham 1852-1940]

“He drew a circle that shut me out -
Heretic, rebel, a thing to flout.
But Love and I had the wit to win:
We drew a circle that took him in.”

That is basic Christ. Here he is in today’s gospel with two men - one shutting him out and the other bringing Christ in - and Christ brings him into paradise.

Jesus formed his small circle - and he broke the cycle Judaism was going in -  and his small circle now includes well over a billion people called Christian.

We have the choice to close in on ourselves - or to expand.

I have always understood the word Catholic to mean “All” or “Universal” “the whole catalogue of people” Kata Holos in Greek.



I don’t know about you - but so far I am enthused - celebrating - that our new Pope seems to be opening up the edges of some of the closed circles in Catholicism - and I hear about people wanting back into the circle called the Body of Christ. Amen.
HAVE WE FORGOTTEN 
ABOUT HUBERT HORATIO 
HUMPHREY? 


Quote for Today - Sunday - November 24, 2013



"Compassion is not weakness, and concern for the unfortunate is not socialism."

Remark by Hubert Horatio Humphrey [1911-1978]


Saturday, November 23, 2013

DEATH




Quote for Today - Saturday - November 23, 2013 

"A painting on a canvas of infinite size, worked on eternally, would be without focus, meaning and probably without beauty.  A painting, as life, needs limits.  While I have an almost insatiable craving for knowledge, I believe death to be the final and perhaps greatest teacher - the one who provides the key to the ultimate questions life has never answered.  In my darkest hours I have been consoled by the thought that death at least is a payment for the answer of life's haunting secrets."

Morris B. Abram, in The Wall Street Journal, November 28, 1988

Painting: "Death and the Miser" by Frans Francken II [1581-1642]

QUESTION: Besides the hour glass under the skeleton's right foot, what do you see in this painting?

Friday, November 22, 2013

CHANGE

Quote for Today - Friday - November 22, 2013



"People change and forget to tell each other."

Lillian Hellman, Toys in the Attic, Random House, 1960

Questions:

What happens if the person who changes doesn't know it herself or himself?

What happens if everyone sees specific changes except the person who has changed?

Are we talking about negative or positive changes here?

Isn't change gradual?

How have I changed in the past year, 2 years, 10, years, in my life? Please explain a change to oneself first? Be specific. Then ask others if they have seen any changes in me. Ask them to be specific. Thank you!


Thursday, November 21, 2013

SCARS



Quote for Today - November 21, 2013

"You know what happens to scar tissue. It's the strongest part of your skin."

Michael R. Mantell, San Diego police psychologist, On psychological recovery of disaster victims, New York Daily News, December 14, 1986

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

LISTENING 
TO THE WORLD






Quote for Today - November 20, 2013

"If the church doesn't listen to the world, then the world will never listen to the church."

Bernard Haring,
 New York Times, June 14, 1964

Tuesday, November 19, 2013

FROM A DISTANCE


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 33 Tuesday in Ordinary Time is, “From A Distance….”

This morning I’d like to make a few comments about the advantage of hindsight - history -  distance - Monday morning quarterbacking….

Hindsight  should help foresight!

Review can bring renew.

TODAY’S READINGS

We’ve heard these readings many a time - but what do we hear this time - this year - this day.

Last night the theme of “From a Distance” hit me.

The old man - Eleazar -  in the first reading from 2nd  Maccabees 6: 18-31 -  makes his decision not to eat forbidden food - pork - based on the implications and consequences - if he goes against his religious practices.  His decision would mean death - but for the sake of transparency - he has seen a lot and lived a lot - and most of his life is behind him.

In the gospel, Zacchaeus goes on ahead of the crowd - till he found a tree - climbed it  - and saw Jesus and Jesus saw him - from a distance.


 HISTORY

And the rest is history and the mystery of history.

What do I see now that I wasn’t seeing 20 years ago?

How many times have we heard and then said ourselves, “If I knew back then, what I know now ….”?

 What do I know now - that I didn’t know back then?

Around 4 PM in the afternoon I like to take a 45 minute walk from St. Mary’s front door - down Newman Street - past the playground at the bottom of  our street with all those little kids playing there - and their moms talking - then move across to Ego Alley and then go through the Naval Academy - see all those young men and women running past me - exercising - practicing football, football, football - lacrosse, lacrosse, lacrosse - and Frisbee, Frisbee, Frisbee, etc. etc. etc.

I’m looking at everything through fences and off to the side - and from not being in the middle of it all.

At the practice football field they have these big platforms way up in the air - with people up there with cameras - videoing the football team  as they practice, practice, practice. What do they see from way up there that folks are not seeing from the ground?

Zacchaeus climbed the tree and saw Christ and Christ saw him - and the rest is history and mystery.

I would assume coming to church - helps us see our life - from the edge - from the outside - from a platform.

I would assume that age gives wisdom - but like experience - as someone said: We can have 20 years experience or 1 years experience 20 times.

I remember a speaker saying somewhere along the line - a lady named Pat Livingston - keep asking: What’s the lesson here? What’s the learning here?

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily is, “From A Distance….”

Today some learnings are: Take walks. Step back. See the big picture. Talk with others about one’s experiences. Write your autobiography. Distance yourself from yourself. Let’s go to the videotape. Check things out - and learn the lessons from all around us.

It’s always been my take that Jesus got his wisdom from not just going to the mountain but also from his walking around town - especially listening to people in the marketplace. 

Surprise! Check out today’s gospel again and again. See what Zacchaeus saw when he climbed a tree. Listen to what he says. He saw more. He saw the poor. He saw his life in a new way - its implications and its possibilities.


Surprise! Jesus ended up getting a meal out of the deal. I wonder if he served pork!