Quote for Today - November 20, 2013 "If the church doesn't listen to the world, then the
world will never listen to the church."
Bernard Haring,New York Times, June 14, 1964
Tuesday, November 19, 2013
FROM A DISTANCE
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 33 Tuesday in Ordinary Time
is, “From A Distance….”
This morning I’d like to make a few comments about the
advantage of hindsight - history - distance - Monday morning quarterbacking….
Hindsight should help
foresight!
Review can bring renew.
TODAY’S READINGS
We’ve heard these readings many a time - but what do we hear
this time - this year - this day.
Last night the theme of “From a Distance” hit me.
The old man - Eleazar - in the first reading from 2nd Maccabees 6: 18-31 - makes his decision not to eat forbidden food -
pork - based on the implications and consequences - if he goes against his
religious practices. His decision would
mean death - but for the sake of transparency - he has seen a lot and lived a
lot - and most of his life is behind him.
In the gospel, Zacchaeus goes on ahead of the crowd - till
he found a tree - climbed it - and saw
Jesus and Jesus saw him - from a distance.
HISTORY
And the rest is history and the mystery of history.
What do I see now that I wasn’t seeing 20 years ago?
How many times have we heard and then said ourselves, “If I
knew back then, what I know now ….”?
What do I know now -
that I didn’t know back then?
Around 4 PM in the afternoon I like to take a 45 minute walk
from St. Mary’s front door - down Newman Street - past the playground at the
bottom of our street with all those
little kids playing there - and their moms talking - then move across to Ego
Alley and then go through the Naval Academy - see all those young men and women
running past me - exercising - practicing football, football, football -
lacrosse, lacrosse, lacrosse - and Frisbee, Frisbee, Frisbee, etc. etc. etc.
I’m looking at everything through fences and off to the side
- and from not being in the middle of it all.
At the practice football field they have these big platforms
way up in the air - with people up there with cameras - videoing the football
team as they practice, practice,
practice. What do they see from way up there that folks are not seeing from the
ground?
Zacchaeus climbed the tree and saw Christ and Christ saw him
- and the rest is history and mystery.
I would assume coming to church - helps us see our life -
from the edge - from the outside - from a platform.
I would assume that age gives wisdom - but like experience -
as someone said: We can have 20 years experience or 1 years experience 20
times.
I remember a speaker saying somewhere along the line - a
lady named Pat Livingston - keep asking: What’s the lesson here? What’s the
learning here?
CONCLUSION
The title of my homily is, “From A Distance….”
Today some learnings are: Take walks. Step back. See the big
picture. Talk with others about one’s experiences. Write your autobiography. Distance
yourself from yourself. Let’s go to the videotape. Check things out - and learn
the lessons from all around us.
It’s always been my take that Jesus got his wisdom from not
just going to the mountain but also from his walking around town - especially
listening to people in the marketplace.
Surprise! Check out today’s gospel again and again. See what
Zacchaeus saw when he climbed a tree. Listen to what he says. He saw more. He
saw the poor. He saw his life in a new way - its implications and its
possibilities.
Surprise! Jesus ended up getting a meal out of the deal. I
wonder if he served pork!
KEEP TALKING!
I'M TRYING TO
LISTEN!
Quote for Today - Tuesday - November 19, 2013
"The reverse side also has a reverse side." Japanese Proverb Japanese painting by trinifellah
Monday, November 18, 2013
LEARNING HOW TO PRAY:
TWO GOOD QUESTIONS
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 33 Monday in Ordinary Time is, “Learning How to
Pray: Two Good Questions.”
SURVEYS
In various surveys that ask people what they want us to preach
about from the pulpit, I’ve noticed people want stuff on spirituality and stuff on how to pray.
This homily will give one more lesson on how to pray.
So the title of my homily is, “Learning How to Pray: Two Good Questions.”
THE FIRST QUESTION
The first question is in today’s gospel: And Jesus said, “What can I do for
you?”
The blind man of Jericho
wanted to see, so he called out to Jesus to take pity on him. He had heard
Jesus was walking by. So Jesus heard him yelling and stopped to ask him, “What can I do for you?”
And the blind man answered the obvious, “I want to see.”
So, if you want one more lesson on how to pray, there it is. Find
yourself in your place of prayer - whether its in church or in the Eucharistic
chapel, whether it’s in a Lazy Boy chair or at the kitchen table. Wherever, whenever, you pray, in your good
place of prayer, car, church, chapel or chair - after acknowledging God’s
presence, hear Jesus asking you, “What can I do for you?”
That’s the first question.
It’s like the salesperson at Nordstrom’s or a waitress or
waiter at Macaroni Grill coming up to us and asking, “What can I do for you?”
Or “What can I get you?” Or “What do you want?” Or "What are you looking for?"
So picture yourself praying. Picture Jesus asking us, “What can
I do for you?” What would you answer?
Would it be, “I want more patience.” Or “I want to be more
understanding.” Or “I want a better attitude towards my son-in-law.” Or “I want
to love more.” Or, “I want to laugh
more.” Or, “I want to pray better.”
THE SECOND
QUESTION
The second question is not in the Scriptures as is, but here
it is, Ask God: “What can I do for You?”
and then listen. Then pause. Then be quiet as you sit there in prayer.
Then hear what Jesus says to you. It might be words like the following:
“Did you ever thinking of visiting that old lady two doors
down. Nobody seems to visit her.”
“Did you ever think of really listening to so and so and not
just being silent with her and then running?”
“Did you ever think you might be much happier if you stopped
whining and complaining and you started celebrating each day of life as it
comes - with a joyful spirit?”
"Did you eve take me serious when I said, ‘Stop to see the birds of the air and the lilies of
the field. Okay it’s November. Well see the squirrels and hear the crunch of
crisp brown leaves on the ground when kids love to pounce through the leaves or
kick them up in the air or fall into them.’?”
CONCLUSION
So today’s homily provides a lesson plan on how to pray and
I gave two good questions;
1) Hearing God or Jesus saying to us, “What can I do for
you?”
2) Hearing ourselves asking God, “Hey God, what can I do for
you?”
MORE OR LESS?
Quote for Today - Monday - November 18, 2013
"Less is more." Ludwig Mies Van Der Rohe, On restraint in design, New York Herald Tribune, June 28, 1959 COMMENT AND QUESTIONS: To which Robert Venturi said in 1969, "Less is a bore." Time Magazine March 3, 1986. Which would be your comment? More or less, what's your take on an egg?
Sunday, November 17, 2013
YOU CAN’T DO THAT!
INTRODUCTION
The title of my for this homily - for the 33 Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year C - is, “You Can’t Do That!”
How many times has that been the bottom line? We experience frustration
or hurt or disappointment - and we say of God or others, “Hey you can’t do that
to me!”
We’re moving along and someone does something that we don’t
want them to do. We don’t expect them to do what they are doing or have done. And we scream inwardly or mutter outwardly,
“Oh no!”
Or we think: “Oh no - not again!” Or, “You can’t do that!” Or “Dang it!” Or much
worse!
TODAY’S READINGS
Today’s readings are these end of the year readings and
every year when we come to them, I think
inwardly: “Oh no! Not again!”
Give me a parable or a healing story or a good moment about
Jesus helping someone.
Nope. Once more - when I spot these readings I hear my moan:
“Oh no! More bombastic apocalyptic language!”
Once more we have these end of the year - these near the end
of gospel - passages - before we get to
the Palm Sunday and Holy Week and Easter readings.
We have them every year for about 3 weekends. “Ugh!”
They talk about earthquakes and fires. They talk about wars
and upheavals. They talk about pestilence and persecution. They talk about end
times. “Oh no! Not again!" And I can’t change the channel.
I inwardly think, “Hurry up Advent!” But then I discover
that those Advent readings repeat some of these end of the world themes as well.
They use them as we prepare for Christmas the first coming of Christ - to
prepare us for the final coming of Jesus Christ.
Today’s first reading from Malachi is vintage apocalyptic
language: “Lo, the day is coming, blazing like an oven, when all the proud and
all evildoers will be stubble, and the day that is coming will set them on
fire, leaving them neither root nor branch, says the Lord of hosts.”
Today’s gospel talks about wars and insurrections, terror
and horror. Then Luke talks about the followers of Jesus being arrested and put on
trial - being handed over by even one’s own family.
Sometimes converts to Catholism tell us: “This is what
happened in my family when I converted.”
That’s an underlying theme in the New Testament writings. Expect difficulties when you become a follower of Jesus.
Scholars think Luke was written after the year 70 - because
it is talking about Jerusalem
being destroyed. And we know from non-biblical sources that there was a destruction
of Jerusalem
around the year 70 A.D. The historian Josephus says that one million, one
hundred thousand people died, in a long siege and 97,000 were carried away as
captives.
YOU CAN’T DO THAT!
I’ve been in a few car accidents. I’ve seen some heavy
storms, but I’ve never experienced
massive destruction like that mentioned in today’s readings - destruction
by violence or fire or earthquake or armies.
I’ve seen on TV a tiny bit of what’s happening now in Syria - and still in Afghanistan
- as well as still in Iraq
- and in the various troubled places on the planet. I’m sure folks experiencing horror say, “You
can’t do that!”
Yet, I assume violence, horror, wars and rumors of war, natural
and human destruction will continue till the end of time.
And I expect most people utter to God and others in times of
disaster those down deep words, “You can’t do that!”
IT MAKES THE NEWS
Horror stories are the stuff of the local as well as the
evening news.
There was a shooting last night on X street and a fire on Y
street and a water main break on Z street.
Horror stories hit our families - as well as our iddy biddy
everyday experiences. They make our inner news desk. Daily irritations appear on our inner monitor.
The person in front of us in the middle lane on Route 50 or 97 switches lanes
and didn’t put on their blinker. We’re a blinker putter oner. So we say in the privacy of our car, “Dang
it! You can’t do that!”
Someone in the family gets sick - or dies - or leaves a marriage - or does something
harmful - especially something that hits kids - and we say, “You can’t do that!”
In today’s second reading from the Second Letter of St. Paul to the Thessalonians we hear Paul saying
he tried to give good example to the Christian community there. But - but -
but…. There are people there who are out of order - people who are not minding
their own business - people who are interfering in the lives of others. Then Paul
basically says, “Don’t do that! Work quietly and eat your own food.” In other
words: Stay at your own plate!
SOLUTIONS AND HAPPY ENDINGS
We all want solutions and happy endings.
We want to control what’s happening in front of us - and
behind us.
We want people to do what we expect people to do: be nice, be good, do no harm.
We want the weather and the world to happen the way we would
like it to happen.
We want our kids and our neighbors and our spouse to have
our assumptions and ways to do things - and make things happen.
SURPRISE!
Surprise! They don’t.
So what I get out of these end of the year readings is not
what happened 2000 or so years ago - but a question: "How do I deal with today - when things
don’t go my way?"
I assume we all have our tricks - our ways - our patterns
for doing life - when life doesn’t go our way.
We have our little sayings like: “That’s the way the cookie
crumbles.” Or, “Hey, you never know.” Or, “Bummer!” Or, “I guess this is my way of the cross.”
We have our songs like, “The Gambler” - sung by Kenny
Rogers. You got to know when to play them - and when to walk away. You got to
know when to speak up and when to shut up.
Or we have that song by Mary Chapin Carpenter, "The Bug". Sometimes
we’re the bat and sometimes we’re the ball; sometimes we’re the bug, and
sometimes we’re the windshield.
Sometimes we’re the dog and sometimes we’re the
grass. And you know what dogs do on the grass - and sometimes people don’t clean
up and we step in it - and we scream to that unknown person, “Hey, you can’t do
that.”
We have our philosophies: “KISS: Keep It Simple Stupid.” Or
“I choose to be an optimist when these things happen.” Or “This brings out the
best in people, so I’m not going to let it bring out the worst in me.” The
Stoics say: “Be stoical about it!”
We have our religions - which deal with this issue - big
time.
The Buddhists say: desire is what kills us every time. So
kill desire - wanting our way or scenario. Let it go!
The Christian says: “This is the cross!” And “Lord, give me the strength to carry it.”
Or, “Thy will be done.” Or, “Lord, make me an instrument of your peace here!” Or “God you are the Great Quiet - the Great
Powerless One - hanging on a cross, nailed down by others, and you simply said,
‘Father forgive them for they don’t know what they are doing.’" Or we say, "Into your
hands O God, I hand over my spirit.”
CONCLUSION
So we pray. We philosophize. We think. We walk on. We cry. We say, “Others have it
worse.” We trust. We persevere. We try to help others. We try to let it go.
Instead of saying to God, “Hey you can’t do that,” we say,
“Lord, help me to do what you do - give it time - and experience. Move me to work
towards resurrection on the other side of death and destruction.”
Or we smile and say, “I wonder how many people say of me - when
dealing with how I drive, how I handle things, how I do life: ‘Hey! You can’t
do that!’”
ART
AN ACTION
AGAINST DEATH
Quote for Today - Sunday - November 17, 2013 "All my life as an artist I have asked myself: What pushes me continually to make sculpture? I have found the answer .... art is action against death. It is a denial of death." Jacques Lipchitz, in Chicago Tribune, June 4, 1967 Sculpture by Jacques Lipchitz