WANT EFFICIENT GOVERNMENT?

Quote for Today  - September 28, 2012

"Whenever you have an efficient government you have a dictatorship."

Harry S. Truman [1844-1972]

SEE VAN GOGH, 

SEE GOD

Quote for Today -  September 27, 2012 - Feast of St. Vincent de Paul

"The best way to know God is to love many things."

Vincent van Gogh [1853-1859]

THE LIE

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 25^th Wednesday in Ordinary time is, “The Lie.”

This theme and issue of lying is expressed in both the first reading [Proverbs 30:5-9] as well as today’s Psalm [119:29, 104].

What I like to do for homilies is read the Mass readings of the day and see what questions they trigger - especially questions that I haven’t looked at in the past. I figure this is a good way to grow and to get stretched. So today’s readings triggered the thought: come up with some thoughts about, “The Lie.”

TWO KINDS OF LIES

There are two kinds of lies: the white lie and the bad lie.

In general - and following our conscience - telling a white lie can save time and energy and people. In general, ethics and moral theology allows for so called, “white lies” in some cases.

For example, you’re not going to tell the truth when your sister-in-law asks you how she looks in a certain dress. You know from experience that no matter what you say, that’s the dress she’s going to wear the wedding. And you know it’s going to make her look even fatter. Or someone wants to sit down and talk for 2 hours. You just spent two hours the other day with them. Today you have three important things to do. You know the person is going to feel rejected if you tell the truth. Reality: you just don’t have time for them today. So you lie. You say you have an important appointment at that time - and the important appointment is to just take a needed break - to catch up with some bills or what have you. Or you tell you’re kid to tell someone you’re not at home - when the truth is, you’re not home for them. It’s hard to explain …..

There are various drawbacks to white lies: sometimes they lead to slippage into bad lies by blurring; sometimes people feel they have to confess them - mixing them up with bad lies - or they feel guilty - because it’s not the truth; sometimes you get caught in a white lie. “Uh oh!”

That’s a few comments about white lies. By their nature, they can be slippery, but ….

LET ME TALK ABOUT REAL LIES - THE BAD LIES

Bad lies are bad lies.

There are degrees to bad lies. We can use words like big lies and small lies - and lies that lie in between big and little. We also use the words in Catholic circles, “venial” and “mortal”.

Bad lies have consequences - like white lies at times.

In a courtroom - having put hand on the Bible - we could be guilty of perjury.

In a marriage - lies can end a marriage - when they are part of a big time deception.

Bad lies could be part of our pretending to be someone I’m not - and that can do soul damage.

Bad lies can be planting falsehoods out there about others -for various reasons -  and that can destroy community and relationships and the common good.

Agur - have you ever heard of him before - don’t lie - is the author of today’s first reading here in Chapter 30 of Proverbs. He prays not to be a deceiver. He prays to God that God help him, “[Lord], put falsehood and lying far from me.”

I once read a comment by the poet, Theodore Roethke, “O the lies I tell my energies….” He said that in an article about teaching English to students. He wrote, “I’m beginning to feel the mould creep over the lineaments of the soul. O the lies I’ve told to my own energies trying to convince myself I was teaching you something. Twenty times a day I asked myself: are you really worth it?” [2]

Don’t we all have self doubts at times - about faith and marriage and relationships and work and raising kids, etc. “What am I doing here?”

We can be lazy. Theodore Roethke’s comment about the lies we’ve told our energies often hits me. I say things, “Enough already. Hide. Take a break.”

That line led me to think that the first place to look at lies is in oneself. What are the lies I tell myself?  I do it about work and breaks. I do it about eating and health and exercise.

Is it easy to spot lies in political advertising - by all sides. As a result I can’t wait till November 7^th.

Didn't Hitler say, "The broad mass of a nation ... will more easily fall victim to a big lie than to a small one." [3] 

It’s easier to spot lies people get off about themselves compared to the ones we tell ourselves. What I'm saying here is that the key area is to spot the lies I  tell myself.

Don’t we often lie by repeating comments about others - making suggestions about others that are not true - or hearsay? We judge. We have biases. We have baggage. We often contradict ourselves. We do sloppy reporting.

We spend our lives blaming God and others for our disasters. We repeat our comments or comments we have heard without filtering them - or studying them - or finding out if they are true.

As I reflected on all this, the big message that hit me is that we all have to push our own “mute” button. We need to push our own “pause” button. We need quiet to “mind” and “mint” our words.

CONCLUSION

In pondering this, we might even ask, “Can I ever speak?”

In pondering this, we might end up saying what is said in the Talmud: “Teach they tongue to say, I do not know.”

In pondering this, we hopefully end up realizing that the key motive and simple goal is to love one another as Christ loved us - and he gave us a call to be in communion with one another.

OOOOOOOO

NOTES

Painting on top: "The Lie" by Johan Lowie, Oil on woodboard,32"H x 44"W.

[1] Cf. Sissela Bok, Lying: Moral Choice in Public and Private Life, Pantheon, 1978; Cf. Dan Ariely, The [Honest] truth about Dishonesty: How We Lie to Everyone - Especially Ourselves, HarperCollins, 2012

[2] Cf. p, 242 in Allan Seager, The Glass House, The Life of Theodore Roethke, N.Y. McGraw-Hill Book Company, 1968. This appeared in the May issue of College English, in a piece by Ted entitled, “Last Class”. He is writing about Bennington. (This appeared in Botteghe Oscure, 1950 - Roma - an anthology of new italian writers/ Edited by Marguerite Caetani and selected from the pages of the review Botteghe Oscure.

[3] Adolf Hitler, Die breite Masse eines Volkes ... einer grossen Luge leichter zum Opfer fallt als einer kleine." Mein Kamf (My Struggle, 1925) Volumn 1, chapter 10.

WHO'S  WHO?

Quote for Today - September 26,  2012

"A nice person lives here with a mean old buzzard."

Sign on a door in a home I visited in Ohio. As I walked away, I wondered, "Who's who?"

PROVERBS

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 25^th Tuesday in Ordinary Time is, “Proverbs”.

The first reading for yesterday, today and tomorrow are all from the Book of Proverbs - which is part of the Kethuvim or “Writings” in the Jewish Scriptures - which some Christians call the Old Testament. Now some don’t because it could be not EC - that is, Ecumenically correct. Sometimes “old” implies value; sometimes it might be seen as implying “less” or what have you.

Christians divide the Old Testament into 4 sections. The Bible is a library, so Christians divide the library into 4 sections: The Pentateuch, the Historical Books, the Wisdom Books, and the Prophets.

The Jewish Scriptures are divided into 3 sections in the library: the Torah - which we call the Pentateuch; the second part or division is the Nevi’im or the Prophets - which includes some historical books as well; and the 3^rd part is the Kithuvim - which has historical writings - along with some wisdom literature.

It’s in this third part - the Kethuvim we find the Book of Proverbs. Today’s proverbs are part of a collection of 376 proverbs attributed to Solomon. In the Middle East - dare we say many cultures - the king is seen as a source of wisdom.

Dare we also say every culture has proverbs - usually short statements that give practical advice or insight. Here are 3 proverbs about money not in the Bible - from different cultures: 

·        Portuguese proverb: “Give me money, not advice.”

·        Russian proverb: “When money speaks, truth keeps silent.”

·        Italian proverb: “Public money is like holy water - everyone dips their hand into it.”

SOME HOMEWORK FOR YOU

To be practical here is some homework.

I mentioned in my homily for Sunday: if you want to read the Bible and don’t know where to start, one good place would be the Letter of James.

I added: in general, “Don’t start with book one: Genesis.”

The Book of Proverbs might be a second smart place to start after James. You can just skim through this book and pick out 3 to 5 proverbs that grab you. This could be like going through the Old Reader’s Digest when they had the “Points to Ponder” and “Quotable Quotes” sections.

Doing that would keep on building up interest  and use of the Bible as one finds some down deep practical wisdom sayings.

Further homework could be what I would call, “Proverb Therapy.”

I already have pushed what I call “Story Therapy”.  I hold that everyone has 5 to 10 stories they use to deal with life’s issues - and self healing - and healthy ways to look at life.

I am also thinking that everyone uses “Proverb Therapy.”

For example, how many people in the midst of suffering say, “I thought I had it bad - but it could be worse - because I met a really sick person.” You’ve heard the saying, “My big toe was killing me till I met someone without any feet.”

How many 12 Step Folks in AA or other 12 Step programs say over and over again, “A step at a time.” or “Easy does it.” or “A day at a time.” Then there is my favorite saying in AA -  the first half of which is a saying from Jesus, “The truth will set you free, but first it will hurt.”

CONCLUSION

Life is a classroom. Stop complaining about  teachers - because you’re the teacher and you're the student and everyday has it lessons. Learn them. Do your homework. Then you can go out and play - because all work and no play - makes one a pretty dull person.  Let's add, "... because all work and all play and no prayer- means a dull person as well."

BECOMING WISE

Quote for Today - September 25,  2012

"Solomon made a book of proverbs, but a book of proverbs never made a Solomon."

Anonymous

The statue is of Solomon. It's by Andrea Pisano from 1343. I don't know if the picture above is of the copy of this statue on the second level of the Bell Tower or Campanile in Florence - or is it the original statue which was brought inside the Duomo Museum in Florence Italy - so that it will be preserved and seen better. 

THE LIGHT IN THE NIGHT

INTRODUCTION

The title of my thoughts for this 25th Monday in Ordinary Time is, “The Light  In The Night.”

I overheard two people on a bus the other day talking about the night. One person said she leaves the TV on all night. It gives light to get up during the night without stubbing her toes. The other lady said, “I could never do that. It would keep me awake all night. I need the dark.”

Evidently different people do different things. People have different patterns.

That conversation came back to me as I read today’s gospel.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel from Luke 8:16 we have a saying of Jesus that appears in Mark 4:21-22 and Matthew 5:15. Luke refers to it again in 11:33 - when he’ll then jump to the image of the human eye. Jesus says there that we can tell a person by looking them in the eye. Where did Jesus get his lights and insights? Jesus must have done a lot of eye searching and eye looking into.  We find the image of light again in John 11:12,  when Jesus announces that he is the light of the world. We know in Matthew 5:14 right before this image of the light on the light stand, that we’re called to be light to the world as well.

Today’s gospel text and image is also found in the Egyptian Coptic Gnostic Gospel of Thomas. Here is Logia or Saying 33: 

            “Jesus said: 

             What you shall hear 

             in your ear 

             and in the other ear, 

             preach that from your housetops; 

             for no one lights a lamp 

             and puts it under a  bushel, 

             nor does one put it in a hidden place, 

             but one sets it on a lamp stand,

             so that all who come in and go out 

             may see its light.” 

[The "bushel" is a small bushel measuring cup that can be used to snuff out an oil lamp - without causing sparks and lots of smoke or too much smell into a tiny room of a house.] [1]

So this image of the light on the lamp stand in the dark is very Jesus.

Gospel commentaries explain this image very well. A regular home in Palestine for the average person - a peasant - had one room. And the lamp stand would have an oil lamp. When you came into a home the light from the outside would light up the tiny home. If you came into the house in the dark, if the oil lamp on the lamp stand was lit, you could see who and what was in the home. There was very little privacy - and animals might be in the back of the house.

Having heard that, we can grasp what Jesus is saying.

     "No one who lights a lamp 
      conceals it with a vessel 
      or sets it under a bed;

rather, one places it on a lamp stand
so that those who enter may see the light.
For there is nothing hidden 

that will not become visible,
and nothing secret that will not be known 

and come to light.”

In a small house, in a small village, everything is found out.

CONCLUSION

So what’s a lesson or a message from all this? Here are a few:

Honesty is the best policy.

“So live,” as the old saying goes, “that you wouldn’t be scared to sell your pet parrot to the town gossip.”

Remember the 3 monkeys: See No Evil; Hear No Evil; Speak No Evil.

Be grateful for walls - and privacy - and the space you have.

Go family camping in one tent every once and a while. It gets you to be grateful for back home a lot more.

When it comes to people, realize people are different. Some like to sleep in the dark; some people like some night light on.


NOTES:

[1] Joachim Jeremias, The Parables of Jesus, Charles Scribner's Sons, New York, Revised Edition,1963, page 120; Bruce Malina and Richard L. Rohrbaugh, Social Science Commentary on the Synoptic Gospels, Fortress Press, Minneapolis, pages 51, 335, 205.