INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 6th Tuesday in
the Easter Season is, “Coming and Going!”
These readings after Easter are filled with the human
reality of coming and going.
So what? That was my next thought as I said that. So what?
Paul is coming or going. Jesus is coming or going.
We come to church; we go from church. We come to work; we go
from work. We get into the car; we get out of the car. We go into the house; we
go out of the house. We take the first sip of chicken noodle soup; we take the
last lip of the chicken noodle soup.
Life moves on. Clocks tick forward. Calendars change their pages - month to month, year to year.
It hit me just yesterday: another school year is almost up -
there are graduations again - and then there’s another Summer Bible School coming
and on and on and on.
So what? Once more I
heard myself saying just that. Then a key question: are there any lessons to learn about all these comings and
all these goings?
BE IN THE
NOW
The lesson I came up with is not to become stale - not to
get stuck in feeling that life is the same old, same old, same old.
I was
thinking: here we are at Mass - again this morning - and we’ll do this again
tomorrow morning and we did it yesterday morning. How does one do the same old
same old and make it new - fresh - actual?
I have noticed in many sacristies a sign - right near the
door of the sacristy: “Priest of God celebrate
this Mass as if it is your first Mass, your last Mass, and your only Mass.”
I read somewhere that that sign is in every sacristy of The Missionaries of Charity - Mother Teresa’s
community.
I know when I read that sign I say Mass a bit more attentive
that day.
That tells me that attentiveness, awareness, pausing before doing, can help
someone be more aware of what they are doing - even though they have done what
they are about to do a thousand times.
I learned from listening to a CD talk by the Vietnamese
Buddhist monk, Thich Nhat Hanh, not to eat a bag of potato chips - but to slowly
eat and savor every single potato chip in the bag. It’s the difference between stuffing and enjoying.
It’s the difference between eating with one’s fingers than eating fist full’s of potato chips. This
is easy to forget when the Orioles have based loaded and might be able to beat
the dreaded Yankees. That simple message
from Thich Nhat Hanh taught me to try to
eat all meals and snacks that way. It’s difficult, but it’s worth it. He calls
it mindfulness.
I learned from a Broadway Musical that some people are into the show and some people are just
going through the motions.
We’re not supposed to judge, but I’ve been at Masses
where the priest simply seems to be going through the motions. I can fake it
with the best of them - but I have to warn myself, this isn’t something you fake
or be mechanical at. It’s real.
The Broadway musical where I learned this
lesson was a revival of No, No Nanette.
I went up to New York and Broadway with the
staff we had at our retreat house in New
Jersey. The seats we got were horrible. They were off
to the side looking down into the orchestra pit.
Surprise! What I remembered more than the show was what I began noticing in the pit. One violinist had on his music stand, not the music, but the New York Post or
the New York Daily News. As everyone turned their pages, he kept on reading that paper.
Obviously he knew the score by heart. I've never forgotten that scene. I don't want to do life like that violinist.
CONCLUSION
That scene got me
wondering: how do opera and country western singers do the same song the 500th
time?
Did Jesus tell the Prodigal Son story a second time in the next village? If he did, did he make it better? Did he change the happy ending of the
father welcoming him home and with the twist that the older brother refused to forgive his younger brother?
How about those who flip hamburgers in Wendy’s or those who say “Hello” to
customers in Giant when the 83 person comes to their register?
Does an “I love you” or a “Thank you” ever
become mechanical?
How about the “Our Father” or “This is my body” - “This is
my blood” at Mass - or “Peace!” or coming up the aisle for communion today and
hearing “Body of Christ” and going back down the aisle having said, “Amen.” Will this Passover Meal be any different than
every other Massover Meal?