Thursday, February 16, 2012

I’M 
PARTIAL


Today’s first reading [James 2:1-9] - the reading for this 6th Thursday in Ordinary Time - triggers the topic of partiality. [1]

Fill in the blank: I’m partial to _______________.

Starbucks, summers, butter almond ice cream, lacrosse, mornings ….

If I limited the blank to people, who would make our list?

Today’s first reading begins: “Show no partiality!”

James, the writer of today’s letter, spotted something that happens in many churches - many schools - many teams - many places of work: partiality.

In his church James must have seen someone come in with gold rings and things and fancy clothes - and the ushers said - or the leader said, “Come right up here Mr. Bo Jangles. We have a nice seat for you up front.” Then in comes a poor person with shabby clothes and he is told to “Stand back there!” or “Sit at my feet.”

That’s partiality.

You know the saying, “In the land of the blind, the one eyed person is king or queen.”

If we were all living in the land of the blind, how would we show partiality? Would it be by accent? Speech? The sound of our voice?

If we were all deaf, dumb and blind, how would we show partiality?

Would it be scent? Would it be touch? Weight? Height?

If you’ve watched Animal Channel you know about Alpha Males. You know how one animal takes over. So when we talk about animals, we talk about partiality.

If you’ve watched Discovery Channel you know about the dominant female monkey in a cage - the one who is queen - has shoulders thrown back - while the other female monkeys hunch a bit in submission.

If you read the Gospels you know all the sheep are important - even the lost one - the one out of communion with the rest. [2]

The title of my homily is, “I’m partial!”

Humans flaunt their looks, their wealthy, their gold, their marks, their cars, their athleticism, their talents - to show they are in the upper part of humanity.

Jesus didn’t like this separation stuff - this pedestal stuff - this non-communion stuff.

At times I hear people wanting to block communion - block union - in the community of churchgoers.

The follower of Jesus works on being open to all people - saints and sinners - who’s who? - being there for all people - serving all - washing feet - and greeting all - trying not to be partial or to show partiality.

God is not partial.

All are God’s creations.

For some it doesn’t seem to work that way.

Just listen to people. God is not fair. Life is not fair. Why am I so short?

Why does so and so have such and such?

Then there is paradox. The scriptures seem to say the poor are God’s favorites. The Psalm response for today is: “The Lord hears the cries of the poor!” [3]

The poor say, “You’re kidding God. You’re kidding.”

Then there are the paradoxes. Of course we are partial to the members of our own families.

Of course we are partial to our own kind.

Of course we are partial to those we’re comfortable with.

Of course we are partial to those our own age.

Of course we play the game. You scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours.

We know what our teachers want - what answers they want us to give - what behavior they want to see.

People do the same thing to each other all around the world. “Whatever you want boss!”

Hey it’s the Golden Rule isn’t it.

Yet the call - the message - the hope is still there: to be impartial.

The Christian reaches out to all people.

The Christian tries to learn the language and skills of reaching out to all people.

Jesus pushed this and look where it got him.

He says the cross is what’s going to happen in Jerusalem - and Peter takes Jesus aside and says, “Are you crazy?”

And Jesus - who chose Peter - who made Peter his key guy - who gave Peter the keys to the kingdom says to Peter: "Get behind me, Satan. You are thinking not as God does, but as human beings do."

Keep on being part of Jesus - who brings us into communion with the Father and the Spirit. To abide - to travel with Jesus - to our Jerusalem - and we’ll be learning these things. It’s called “discipleship” - not a bad ship to be on.



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[1] This was a homily for our St. Mary's High School young people this morning over at Marian Hall.

[2] Read Luke 15

[3] Read Psalm 34: 2-7
GRAVITAS


February  16, 2012

Quote for Today - Sixteenth Day in Black History Month


"I gravitate towards gravitas."



Morgan Freeman [1937-  ]

Wednesday, February 15, 2012

RACISM



Febuary  15, 2012

Quote for Today - Fifteenth Day of Black History Month

"I detest racialism, because I regard it as a barbaric thing, whether it comes from a black man or a white man."


Nelson Mandela  

Tuesday, February 14, 2012

ST. VALENTINE’S DAY



Happy St Valentine’s Day!


Those who own Greeting Card Stores
or have a Greeting Card section in
a big store - St, Valentine’s Day is
a great day - for sales - for business for
“Come shop with me!”


How about those who sell chocolates?


What about flowers?


What about unmentionables?


Wait! And what about those tiny
big ticket items: jewelry?

What about restaurants and taking
your loved one out for dinner?


Happy St. Valentine’s Day!


Question: why in the world did
the Catholic Church back in 1969
“sort of drop” St. Valentine from
their roster of Saints - Saints with a
Capital “S”? The word on the street was
there was too much of “The Stuff of Legends”
when it came to saints like St. Valentine
and St. Christopher. If that was true,
what about the St. Patrick - whose life has
many wonderful legends and stories as well?


Smile! Just as March has St. Patrick’s Day,
so too February has St. Valentine’s Day
and people still have St. Christopher medals
in their cars and around their necks.
Isn't it wonderful that some things
can't be controled by those
who think they are in control? Smile.
Grab a piece of chocolate, say
a prayer to St. Christopher when you travel
and next month pick a shamrock
and wish your neighbor a field full
of God's blessings and a bit of blarney. 




© Andy Costello, Reflections 2012
FATHERHOOD





February  14,  2012


Quote for Today - Fourteenth Day of Black History Month

“I felt something impossible for me to explain in words. Then when they took her away, it hit me. I got scared all over again and began to feel giddy. Then it came to me -- I was a father.”

Nat King Cole

Monday, February 13, 2012

SIGNS


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 6th Monday in Ordinary time is, “Signs.”

We know about signs.

We use signs. We need signs. We give signs. We understand signs. We misunderstand signs.

Confusing signs get us angry. Misinterpreted signs get us angry. Lack of signs get us angry. We want signs. We get lost without signs.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

We hear about signs in today’s gospel.

Let me read the whole of today’s gospel once more - Mark  8: 11-13 - because if you’re like me, sometimes we don’t hear. We’re somewhere else, or we’ve been here before - or all this is déjà vu - and we're watching another movie.

            The Pharisees came forward
            and began to argue with Jesus,
            seeking from him a sign from heaven to test him.
            He sighed from the depth of his spirit and said,
           "Why does this generation seek a sign?
           Amen, I say to you,
           no sign will be given to this generation."
           Then he left them, got into the boat again,
            and went off to the other shore.

To mix or mess up a metaphor or image, many people feel they are in the same boat as the Pharisees in today’s Gospel. They feel unsure because Jesus headed in another boat for another shore - leaving those on this sure or unsure or shore without any sign where he was going.

Huh!?

Having heard that I’m talking about signs in this homily,  do you hear this gospel in a different light - this second time around?

TOMORROW IS ST. VALENTINE’S DAY

Tomorrow is St. Valentine’s Day - and people will be receiving signs of love. Many will be looking for signs of love and appreciation and recognition - and acknowledgement - wanting to hear from significant others, “I know you’re here in my life and I love and appreciate you.”

Say it with flowers, jewelry, a card, a word, a dinner, chocolates - preferably in the shape of a heart.

"Don't talk about love. Show me!"

So tomorrow is sign in day! However, on the other 364 days of the year - 365 this year - we the people will still be looking for signs of love.

THIS MORNING

This morning I’m heading out to the doctor’s office at 6:40 AM and a lady in the parking lot is coming towards St. Mary’s Church. I figure she’s heading for the 6:45 AM Mass. Nope. She says she’s from Mobile, Alabama and is looking for the kindergarten to meet some teachers. I’m not sure which building she’s really looking for. I bring her to the school and I meet Chuck Jr. and I say, “Which way to the Kindergarten?” He says, “Which one. They are in 4 different places.”

She was looking for a sign at 6:40 in the morning.

Aren't we all?

SIGNS FROM GOD

If you read the scriptures one discovers people want signs from God.

Is this is why people read the horoscopes?

Is this why we have various books of revelations - that keep appearing?

Is this why various people have left organized religion?

They aren't getting answers. Or the answers they get, they don't like. They want something else.

People want signs.

If you listen to the Gospel of Mark carefully, you’ll discover that Mark features this problem.

You'll hear about people wanting signs or they never get past the signs they are getting.

When signs don’t come - or the answer they want doesn't come - they go, “So long, God.”

CONCLUSION

If you know anything about Christ and Christianity, you know it's a religion of faith. It’s a religion of trust. It's a relationship - and a walking with others - sometimes in the dark.

If you know anything about other people, relationships are all about faith and trust.

Okay sometimes there are flowers from another - and sometimes one is overwhelmed by a field of flowers - or the birds of the air, and we know, "There is a God!"

Okay sometimes there are words - and sometimes one is overwhelmed with Jesus - the Word made flesh.

But most of the time it’s faith time. Most of the time it’s about trust - acts of trust that the Other is with us and loves us.
DREAMS


February  13,  2012

Quote for Today - Thirteenth Day in Black History Month
   
                              "Hold fast to dreams
                        For if dreams die
                        Life is a broken-winged bird
                        That cannot fly."

Langston Hughes [1902-1967]