WHEN  FAITH IS GONE, 

WHEN THE FOG ROLLS IN....

August 16, 2010

Quote for the Day

"Have you seen a room from which faith has gone? ... Like a marriage from which love has gone ... And patience, patience everywhere like a fog."

Graham Green [1904-1991] The Potting Shed [1957]

ASSUMPTIONS!
CAN’T LIVE WITHOUT THEM

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Assumptions! Can’t Live Without Them.”

This Sunday – because it’s August 15th – we celebrate the feast of the Assumption of Mary.

What to preach on?

It hit me that life is built on assumptions. It hit me that afterlife is also built on assumptions.

LIFE

Let me start with life.

People get married and have children with the assumption that 2 is better than 1 and 3 or 4 or 5 or 6 or what have you, are better than 2.

They think this when they pinch themselves for the gift that they have received: the gift of life. We do that when we’re at the beach and we see a great sunrise or seagulls soaring or gliding over white tipped crashing waves – or we're at a big family celebration – or we’re out on the bay and the wind is cool and our sails are full. Life – especially in the middle of great moments of life – we pinch ourselves. Thank you mom and dad for having me. Thank you God for the gift of life.

I always love to quote one of my favorite statements by Groucho Marx who said, “If your parents didn’t have children, chances are you won’t have them either.”

Pinch yourself every now and then for the gift of life. I call it the “Pinch Prayer” – and it doesn’t have any words. It just takes a second. I do it here often right above my wrist on either arm. The “Pinch Prayer.”

If you have brought children into the world, pinch yourself again – and make that a second “Pinch Prayer.”

I wonder at times why in the world did I ever get myself into a life of celibacy – not having brought children into the world. That scares me at times. After all my parents gave me the gift of life – and their parents gave them the gift of life – and back and back and back. I assume that Jesus’ words on this are my personal background music and most of the time I see this as a calling. (1) Celibacy is not for everyone. “Thank God” – otherwise we’d have an empty church and an empty world. And the call of celibacy is to use one’s gift of life – just as in parenting – for the life of others – for the increase of the Kingdom of God – the wonderful dream for how to live life here and hereafter – the vision Jesus was often talking about. (2)
“Thy Kingdom come on earth as it is in heaven!”

Faith – it’s filled with assumptions.

Life – it’s filled with assumptions.

We trust the water and the food – but we wonder about the air at times.

We trust that we’ll have a tomorrow when we go to bed and fall asleep at night.

Assumptions.

We trust each other.

If we can’t make these basic assumptions we would go crazy.

And what are the biggest hurts in life? They happen when trust – basic trust – is broken – when a loved one betrays us.

What do we get nervous and antsy and anxious about? It’s when we made an assumption – and it didn’t happen. And then someone reminds us, “You know what they say about ‘assume’. They can make an ass out of ‘u’ and me.”

But that’s only about a small number of assumptions – because we make a hundred of them every day – and by experience we know many of our assumptions work.

The negative proves the positive.

We have all heard the reminder about, “Don’t drink the water” in some foreign countries. If we drank the water and got diarrhea – then we might go through life nervous about water in all foreign countries.

And I assume those who sell bottled water, love it.

Assumptions.

We assume that a college degree for our kids – will give them a better chance at life.

We assume that our job will last – especially if we work hard and give it our best.

We assume that our brakes won’t fail us.

We assume there’s a gas station just ahead when the needle is getting close to E – Empty.

We assume our priests are giving it their best and they are trustworthy – that is till Judas reappears.

Assumptions – they are part of life.

AFTERLIFE

Then comes afterlife – we hope.

We have to die to find out - but I'm not dying to find out yet.

In the meanwhile we Christians believe, assume, that there is life after death – a morning after the big sleep called “death”.

We have the great Easter Message that Christ rose from the dead – after his horrible crucifixion. That’s one reason almost every church has a cross – large or small.

We Catholics believe, assume, that Mary, the Mother of Jesus, was assumed into Heaven after her life here on earth. Not all Christians accept that one – and it wasn’t declared a central belief for us Catholics till 1950. (3)

The Church is long and slow in its development of dogmatic declarations. What will the Church look like in the year 3010? I have a lot of assumptions and hopes – but they are a long way off. They are up the river and around the bend.

I just got back from a great vacation on the Danube River – with a neat group of people from the parish. We went from Vienna to Budapest.

Well, we had on our boat a Jewish woman who was in her late 90’s – who left Vienna – after her father and a group of prominent Jewish men killed themselves rather than be taken by the Nazi’s. If I heard her story correctly, her mom and she escaped by train for Spain. This was her first time back.

If has always intrigued me that of all people who should believe in life after death, it would be the Jews or any people who have been massacred. As in our scriptures, some do and some don’t.

I know faith is a gift – but there are some tricky assumptions in saying that. Faith – the assumptions in faith – that’s a whole other sermon.

We saw in Budapest from a bus window a memorial for some Jews who were killed in 1944. The memorial consisted of 50 pairs of bronzed shoes right on a walkway along the river. It marked the place where Jews were led right to that spot – shot – and let fall into the river. Many others were sent to concentration camps – to work and/or to die. (4)
Jesus – the Jew – believed in an afterlife – big, big, big time - and has given that gift to us – especially in his Resurrection. We hear that at every Mass. We hear that every Easter. We hear that proclaimed loud and clear by Paul in today’s second reading. (5)

Mary – his Jewish mother – from a tiny, tiny little town in northern Israel – not only went with haste to visit her cousin Elizabeth as we heard in today’s gospel – but it’s our Catholic belief – she went with haste into the hill countries of the hereafter – and Christians ever since have said in a zillion Hail Mary’s – the words of Elizabeth, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb.”

So with Jesus and Mary – we have not just a verbal belief in a hereafter – but we can begin to have people to picture in the hereafter – Jesus and Mary - and besides them – we have patriarchs and prophets, wise men and wise women, saints and family members who have gone before us.

I assume that it’s very smart to believe in an afterlife – and once more I also assume it’s a gift. I got it from my parents. Thank you mom and dad.

I assume that those who don’t believe in afterlife – don’t see life the same way as those of us who do.

I assume that a belief in an afterlife gives hope and meaning to this great gift called life.

I assume that for those who have lost a loved one – early or late – belief in an afterlife – makes life more bearable.

I assume that those who have gone through an abortion or lost a child – belief in an afterlife – where there is God – a loving God who welcomes all those who have died and forgives those who accept forgiveness and fresh starts.

Let the little children come to me.

Let those who loved – come to me.

Let those who have been crucified – come to me.

CONCLUSION
How do I finish this homily?

The title of my homily is, “Assumptions. Can’t Live Without Them.”

I assume that Mary – like her Son – is not just a statue or a past historical character.

I assume that Jesus’ words that we will be judged on love – mean just that. I assume that Mary’s words in today’s gospel are very powerful and serious stuff – especially when Luke has her saying in her Magnificat:

“He has mercy on those who fear him
in every generation.
He has shown the strength of his arm,
and has scattered the proud in their conceit.
He has cast down the mighty from their thrones,
and has lifted up the lowly.
He has filled the hungry with good things,
and the rich he has sent away empty.” (6)

How far does God scatter the proud? How far down does God cast the mighty from their thrones? How empty does he send the rich away who have left the poor hungry and empty?

I assume that’s "Uh oh!" stuff – to shake us up and out of our complacency or laziness.

I assume that a God who creates a person – whose existence was just in the womb – or who lived only for a few hours or a few years of life – or a person who is abused and killed by tyrants – this Creator created them for more than that. That can’t just be it. It better not be just that. That can’t be that person’s whole life and existence – and then there is nothing more. That’s not the God Christians believe in.

I assume that this great gift of life is not just in the here – but that there is a hereafter – an eternity – a forever – and that we have to die to find out.

I assume that’s why God sent his Son Jesus – and that’s why God was in on our creation and the creation of Mary – the Mother of Jesus. Amen.




NOTES:



(1) Matthew 19: 10-30; 1 Corinthians 7; Isaiah 56: 3; Luke 14: 25-27; Mark 8:34-38


(2) Matthew 4:17; 4:23; Luke 8;1; Luke 9:60; Luke 16:16


(3) Pius XII, Munificentissimus Deus (1950)


(4) I've seen the number of shoes to be 50 pairs - as well as 60 pairs. The photo on top is by Doctor Arnold Plotnick. The shoes were sculpted by Gyula Pauer .


(5) 1 Corinthians 15: 20-27


(6) Luke 1; 49-53

PRAYER TO MARY -

FEAST OF THE ASSUMPTION

Prayer for a Loved One on the Feast of the Assumption - Aug. 15, 2010

"Save those who hope in you,

O Mother of the Sun

which knows no setting.

O Mother of God.

by your prayers

ask your divine Son,

we beg you,

to grant rest to _____

who has departed

to where the souls

of the just rest.

Make _____ an heir

of the divine benefits

in the halls of the just

including everlasting memory,

O Immaculate One."

Attributed to St. John of Damascus - 8th Century

PATIENCE

Quote for the Day - August 14, 2010


"The secret of patience ... to do something else in the meanwhile."


Anonymous

WALTER

I watched an old man today
watching a large crucifix of Christ
hanging on the wall in front of him.

I sat there wondering
what this old man in his eighties
was thinking about.

He leaned back, stared at the ceiling light,
and scratched his head. I could tell from his
tightening jaw he was not thinking of himself.

© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2010

TWO TYPES OF PEOPLE

There are two kinds of people:
those who are aware of what time it is
and those who aren’t.

Some people are always late.

Some people suddenly stand up and announce,
“Well, I gotta get going!”
They don’t seem to check what time it is
on their phone or watch – or wall clock –
yet they always seem to know
just what time it is?

How do they do that?

Were they born
with an internal clock or calendar
or were they programmed?
Tick. Tick. Tick. Gotta run. Run. Run.

There are two kinds of people:
those who prefer to slouch in couches
and those who sit up straight in hard chairs.

There are two types of drivers:
the driver who drives with tension
and those who always give
the car ahead of them
plenty of space – simply riding
and sliding down the road of
of life unaware of speedometers
or odometers, clocks and watches –
driving clock watchers crazy.

Ooops, am I'm giving myself away?

© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2010

THE LITTLE BOY 

AND THE OLD MAN

Quote for this Friday  - August 13, 2010


The Little Boy and the Old Man

Said the little boy, “Sometimes I drop my spoon.”
Said the old man, “I do that, too.”
The little boy whispered, “I wet my pants.”
“I do that too,” laughed the little old man.
Said the little boy, “I often cry.”
The old man nodded, “So do I.”
“But worst of all,” said the boy, “it seems
Grown-ups don't pay attention to me.”
And he felt the warmth of a wrinkled old hand.
“I know what you mean,” said the little old man.



Shel Silverstein [1930-1999]