A THORN IN THE FLESH
WAS GIVEN TO ME
INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily is from today’s second reading, “A Thorn in the Flesh Was Given to Me.”
We all know the text. It’s like a thorn. It sticks us from time to time. It can also help us to be a rose – helping us to blossom and be more beautiful as a human being.
Past readers and preachers have planted this text in the soil of our soul. We know the reality of the garden: roses come with thorns.
CONTEXT
Today’s second reading from Second Corinthians has Paul saying, “Brothers and sisters: That I, Paul, might not become too elated, because of the abundance of the revelations, a thorn in the flesh was given to me, an angel of Satan, to beat me, to keep me from being too elated.” “Elated” meaning too filled with myself.
He says he prayed to God three times – begging the Lord to get rid of this thorn, but the Lord said, “My grace is sufficient for you, for power is made perfect in weakness.”
Paul was very smart in not telling us exactly what his problem was.
Down through the years there have been all kinds of guesses to what the thorn was: a hearing problem, epilepsy, stuttering, malaria, sex, someone or some faction in the Corinthian community that bothered him.
In one sense, it doesn’t make any difference. The key is to know our thorns – our issues – our problems.
I’ve heard married couples give presentations to those getting married and saying, “The 3 big problems in marriage are: money, sex, and in-laws.”
What would your list be? Name your problems. Name your discoveries.
Theologians would say, “Beware of the 7 Deadly Sins”. One of them is your nemesis.
What’s your problem? Besides chocolate, what’s your downfall? What’s your Achilles’ heel? What’s your fatal flaw? What do you confess to yourself in the confessional of your mind all the time – and over and over again?
PEOPLE AS THORNS
I remember listening to a mother talking to her daughter who was having trouble with someone at work.
Mom said, “Listen! Every work place, every team, every classroom, every group, every street, has someone who bothers someone – but it’s not always the same person – and it could be you.”
People can cut us in various ways.
So sometimes, it’s others; sometimes it’s ourselves.
And I have a theory – that the main thorn is within us – but if we can make the enemy someone out there, we can avoid facing our inner thorn – and we do this all the time.
If only he or she was gone – disappeared, everything will be all right. And surprise, if they go, disappear, move, graduate, die, their twin brother or sister moves in to take their place on our list of who and why we have a problem.
Surprise. We are repeat offenders – and it’s us.
Déjà vu is not only in our morning paper; it's also in our morning mirror.
Others would add – it’s one thorn after the other. We uproot one and another appears. So better get used to the reality: I never promised you a thornless rose garden.
THORNSWriters – poets and song makers – from the beginning of time spotted those thorns on those roses – and made their comments – and sang their love songs about roses and thorns.
There is a German saying, “The rose hides the thorn.”
There is an Italian saying, “To water the rose, I have to water the thorn with it.”
John Keats, the poet, wrote that we spend our time with “the burrs and thorns of life.” [
Sleep and Poetry, l. 239]
George Herbert, looking at his life, wonders as he bangs a table with his hand, “Have I no harvest but a thorn?” [
The Collar]
Listen to the tone of these words from James Joyce from Dubliners – words where he mentions barren thorns, “Snow was general all over Ireland. It was falling on every part of the dark central plain, on the treeless hills, falling softly upon the Bog of Allen and, farther westward, softly falling into the dark mutinous Shannon waves. It was falling, too, upon every part of the lonely churchyard on the hill where Michael Furey lay buried. It lay thickly drifted on the crooked crosses and headstones, on the spears of the little gate, on the barren thorns. His soul swooned slowly as he heard the snow falling faintly through the universe and faintly falling, like the descent of their last end, upon all the living and the dead.” [“The Dead,” from
Dubliners 1916].
THORNS AS PROTECTIONJust as the thorns are there to protect fragile roses, so too thorns protect us.
It’s smart to have healthy defense mechanisms.
It’s smart to know if we want to be better at tennis or ping pong or pool or bridge, we better be playing someone better than us, otherwise we won’t improve.
Hopefully, we all have or had teachers that challenged us.
Hopefully, there are people at work whom we keep learning from because we know they know a lot more than we know.
Recently I noticed in a Catholic magazine that Mikhail Gorbachev said he was willing to speak up in favor of Pope John Paul II in his canonization process. Mikhail Gorbachev said that John Paul II got him to be aware of the Holy Spirit – and God’s presence in strategic planning – still saying he himself was an Atheist. [
The Tablet, June 6, 2009, p. 31]
After reading this, I did a tiny bit of research on Gorbachev and I found an interesting comment about the value of thorns. He once said to someone, “We have no opposition. How can we check on ourselves?”
Today’s gospel and today’s first reading both talk about the need for opposition - for prophets – people who will speak up to the powers that be – people who will be thorns – and sometimes they draw blood.
Gorbachev said that he pushed for Boris Yeltsin to speak up more, to present opposing views. However, when Yeltsin did this, Gorbachev said, “I should have listened to those who begged me to send Yeltsin as an ambassador to some country in Africa.”
Popes, presidents, pastors, preachers, parents, newspapers need voices of opposition – to make sure we do some second thinking about our life choices and life views.
It seems that Pope Benedict XVI slowed down the Beatification and Sanctification process for coming up with saints in the Catholic Church – a process that John Paul II had sped up. They used to have what was called, “The Devil’s Advocate” – but someone erased that office or function.
Every group – every marriage – every council – needs people who play the part of The Devil’s Advocate.
Notice in today’s second reading, Paul calls the thorn in the flesh, an angel of Satan.
Popes and presidents - any one in charge – needs to have thorns.
Too many “Yes People” – not enough of “No People” – can bankrupt a country – a family – a church.
Every person who is tempted to sneak off to Argentina or enter seedy Internet sites or journey into Sin, needs a thorny conscience to scream, “WAYNT?” What are you not thinking?
Notice the roses – but don’t forget to notice they all have thorns.
I don’t have a green thumb – but I read up on roses and thorns a bit for this homily and found out, you can dethorn roses – but they don’t last as long – in fact, thorns help with the water getting into the plant.
Paul found out in the midst of his thorny struggles - Grace - the gift of Christ - was flowing water - and it was sufficient.
CONCLUSION
This country is celebrating our 233rd birthday this weekend – our Independence Day.
Declaring Independence is easy – compared to the battles that follow.
Of course, the first step is to nail it down on paper what we want, but like a Wedding Day, it’s just an “I Do” or a “We Believe.” There is that second day when we have to work hard and long to achieve and continue Independence – and realize there are always going to be those bloody thorns – civil wars and civil rights’ battles – this and the wisdom found in a rose bush tells us, expect those sharp bloody thorns for a lifetime. Amen.
