Saturday, August 16, 2008


ASSUMPTIONS


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Assumptions.”

MUCH OF LIFE IS BASED ON ASSUMPTIONS

Much of life is based on assumptions.

We assume that the car will start when we turn the key.

We assume we’ll get to work in 35 minutes or whatever time it usually takes us each day.

We assume that Route 50 leading to the Bay Bridge will be backed up big time on Friday afternoons in the summer.

Depending on the priest, we assume this Mass will take 35 to 45 minutes. I assume today's homily will be shorter than a Sunday homily.

Assumptions.

CHECK THEM OUT

We assume it’s smart to check out some assumptions. We’ve all heard the break down of the word “assume” – ASS U ME. They can make an ass out of u and me – unless we communicate – unless we check out our assumptions with each other.

FOR EXAMPLE: READINGS FOR A FUNERAL OR A WEDDING

When someone dies and they contact the office here at St. Mary’s for a funeral, one of the things a family is given is a booklet. It has prayers and readings. The family goes through the scripture readings in the booklet and say, “This fits.” “This doesn’t fit.” “This is mom!” “This isn’t mom.”

The choice is based on assumptions. When none fits, they sometimes ask if they can pick some other reading from the Bible. No problem.

Some people even pick out the readings and music they want for their funeral, long before they die. It’s a good assumption that we will die.

I just received an e-mail on this issue of assumptions. A family went through the funeral preparation process here a few years ago for a loved one. They moved to another state. Someone else dies. They assumed they could pick the readings etc. in that parish. Surprise! Someone there says, “No! We don’t do that here.”

Assumptions.

There is a booklet for weddings. A couple go through readings, prayers, how they want to do their vows, etc. I assume a couple does this homework. Most do. A few don’t. I discover how good my assumptions were at the Friday evening rehearsal.

Assumptions

THE READINGS AT MASS

The readings at ordinary Masses follow a pattern of going through the different books of the Bible on an ongoing schedule. When it comes to a feast like today, I assume some committee sat down years and years ago and had a yellow pad on one hand and a Bible on the other hand and picked readings they thought would match the feast.

THIS FEAST’S READINGS

So I assume the readings for today’s feast of Mary’s Assumption touch on this feast and try to help us with our faith.

The first reading for this feast of the Assumption is from The Book of Revelation. I assume they picked this New Testament reading – even though the first reading is usually from the Old Testament – because of this mysterious mythic image of the woman in the skies – whom many have applied to Mary. Mary models the Church – who brings the Christ, the Anointed One, the Savior to the nations.

The second reading is from First Corinthians. I assume it uses one of Resurrection texts in this letter from St. Paul because the feast of the Assumption is a Resurrection feast. This is Mary’s Easter.

With faith, hope, and love, we assume we will have our Easter. We assume this because of and through Christ. With, in, and through Christ, we too can make it past death and assume a new life after death.

Resurrection, life after death, is one great assumption. Many people don’t make this assumption. They assume life ends at death. We don’t agree. We base our assumption that Christ rose from the dead – that Christ is the one who reaches for us and saves us from death – and brings us into eternal life.

So the Assumption of Mary is one great assumption. The Church by developing the theology of Mary’s Assumption – which has had a long slow development through the centuries - was finally declared a dogmatic teaching of our church in 1950. [Cf. Apostolic Constitution of Pope Pius XII, “Munificentissimus Deus,” Defining the Dogma of the Assumption, November 1, 1950.]
Today’s gospel takes a story from the Gospels, from Luke, who has the best stuff on Mary. The story tells about her visiting her cousin Elizabeth – who needed her help.

Then Luke gives us the Magnificat. Luke puts this early Christian hymn into Mary’s mouth.

I assume this is a wonderful piece of bible archeology. It tells us that the Early Church around the year 80 to 85 – had already developed this rich theology about Mary. Those Christian churches who think we Catholics came up with our theology about Mary centuries – even a millennium – after the Gospels – might want to rethink their assumptions about Mary – based on how Catholics understand the Bible. We don’t take everything literally. We think the Bible presents great archeology. We dig into the scriptures and ask, “Why is this text here? What does this text tell us about the period in which it was written?” Rich discoveries can be the result. [Cf. Vatican II’s, The Dogmatic Constitution on Divine Revelation, November 18, 1965.]
CONCLUSION
What am I saying? I am saying that we base much of our lives on assumptions. This means we also base our faith on assumptions. The scripture texts help us clarify, dig into, check out, and strengthen our assumptions about life here and hereafter. Amen.

Thursday, August 14, 2008


NOTICED

When was the last time you noticed
a trapped bubble in an ice cube,
or a bird gliding, just doing nothing, in an evening sky,
or a dog in the corner adjusting its front shoulders,
or a little kid turning on a swing
to see her dad’s smile as he pushes the swing,
as he remembers his dad doing this to him,
or the shake of dark red Jell-O
as you spoon it out into a bowl
and then cover it with cold, bright, white milk –
or the kids on the sidelines in their clean uniforms
and the game is almost over
and you want to scream,
“Come on coach,
let these other kids into the game?”
and you hear God say to you,
"Melt! Glide! Hide! Do nothing!
Adjust! Swing! Smile! Push! Turn!
See! Remember! Shake! Scream!
Get into the game!"



© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2008










SORRY

Even though there were strawberries
and the after supper sound of a piano
from the house next door,
you should know by now that once
what was said was said,
I don’t hear or taste anything else.
I only see the pockmarks
on the strawberries.
I only hear the missed note, the hurt.
It’s me – not you – I’m sorry.
I know you’ve tasted this recital before.



© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2008
BEHIND CLOSED DOORS

I wasn’t there,
so off the record,
could you tell me
what really happened in there ...
why you made the decision you made ...
why you ended up doing what you did?

Isn’t that the question,
the most important question,
we’re all asking presidents, popes, bishops, pastors,
leaders, parents, heads of corporations,
and all those other people who make decisions without us...
decisions that affect our lives, behind closed doors.


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2008
BOTTOM   DRAWER

Imagine if we could open a door
and walk down a dozen dark steps,
down to the very bottom of ourselves.
And if we walked around down there,
would we find another door,
a door with rust and dust and cobwebs?
And if we had a key or a way to open
or break down that door,
would we find ourselves inside
a small cellar room, and in that room,
would there be a desk
with a stuck bottom drawer?
And if could open that drawer,
would there be a small book there?
And if we opened that book
what would be written there?
Names? Places? Moments?
The “Whys” underneath
all we did and all we do?


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2008

PREFER

Some look at their watches,
some see the vacation is almost over,
some see the cancer and the wrinkles,
some see the waitress coming with the bill,
some see the end is almost here.

Me? I prefer the dawn,
the budding rose, the morning alarm clock,
the scratch of the match,
the moment just after giving the waitress
my selection from the menu.





© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2008
LISTENING

Listening is more Q than A.
Listening sometimes
is asking the other a simple question
about something in a comment
they made – not to get them,
but to get at an understanding
what they’re trying to get at.

Listening is hearing
what is said and not said.
Listening is tones:
anger – fear – joy – hope –
frustration – celebration,
or doubt – or the asking for help
sandwiched in the one’s sounds.

Listening is more than ears.
Listening is also eyes
seeing whether the other
can look into our eyes
and whether we can look
into their eyes – and whether
our I’s can become a we.




© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2008