Friday, January 17, 2020

January 17, 2020


MEDIUM

Medium is like being one of the 
bridesmaids or bridegrooms at 
a wedding. You’re there – but 
you’re not noticed. It’s like 11 AM 
or 3:30 PM or being 45 years old. 
It’s like Act II in the play – and 
half the audience is somewhere 
else in their brain. Beginnings and 
endings get all the notice – but 
being in the middle is most of life. 


© Andy Costello, Reflections

January 17, 2020




Thought  for  Today

 “Half of the harm that is done in this world / Is due to people who want to feel important.”  


T.S. Eliot, The 
Cocktail Party, 1949

Thursday, January 16, 2020



EXTRAS   FOR  EXTRA  HELP


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Thursday in the First Week in  Ordinary Time is, “Extras for Extra Help.”

If  there  is anything we Catholics know about -  it’s the  extras - extra prayers - extra items  - extra external  souvenirs and symbols of religion - that people add on for  help.

We know about crucifixes, medals and chains and rosaries around necks, religious magnets on refrigerator doors and 14 to 18 inch crosses on walls – and in cars tiny 2 inch crosses and St. Christopher medals – which are still being sold.

Go through any Catholic home for people over 55 and you'll spot an image or statue of Mary somewhere.  I'm of Redemptorist background and we were tasked since 1867 to get images of Mary, the Mother of Perpetual Help, in homes and churches all around the world.


Perpetual Help - How's that for an extra!

If there is anything we humans know about it’s the external souvenirs we have for extra help: rings and things.   We went to the movies yesterday – to see 1917.  They had a black and while photograph  on a wooded beam in a German  trench – and of course when a soldier was shot and killed they found in his pocket a black and white picture of his mom and sisters.

What’s in your wallet? 

I remember listening to an audio tape  talk by Robert Fulghum or someone and the speaker asks his audience to take out their wallets and tell the members of the small group they are in what’s in their wallet.  It can be very revealing.

What’s in your wallet?  Do you have something that reminds us about who we are all in the mind of others or they in us or what have you?

I asked people once to write on a small piece of paper a  favorite Bible text and  keep it in your wallet. Mine is Galatians 6:3. “Bear one another’s burdens - In this way you are fulfilling the Law of Christ.”  I figured if I preached it, I better do that myself.

Knowing it’s there, it’s helps me keep that text and theme in mind and put the text into action.

So, we have these mementos, these souvenirs, these tokens to give us an extra edge.

I love the image of having a small prayer book – and making it a portable cemetery – where we put all our death cards – and we can go through our cards once a month

I remember a period in my life when I got interested in Native American life and literature, etc.. I’m in Washington DC  – and  I dropped into the Bureau of Indian Affairs - which is in the U.S.  Department of the Interior. It was in an off season and well before the It was a good experience.


I asked at the front information desk, if I could see someone important – so I could ask some questions.

It was  valuable moment and I got to ask lots of questions.

One thing the curator said was this: much of Native American  life was to get power – good medicine – over others, one’s enemies. So, Indians  have lots of beads and feathers etc. and traveling souvenirs.



This happened way back - before the opening of the National Museum of the American Indian in 2004.




Check that out - with an eye to jewelry and items people use to extra help and strength - the theme of this homily.



Jewelry designer Jennifer Fisher in a magazine article about her work said, "Jewelry is like your armor.  Personalizing  it gives you strength and power."*

CONCLUSION

So what else is new? The Israelites had the ark of the covenant. Reread today’s first reading about how they personalized that box to give them strength and power. [Cf. First Samuel 4: 1-11.]

So what else is new?  Christians have this gospel text to tell us  that Jesus is there when our skin feels ugly or we feel crappy and small and unclean. Amen. [Cf. Mark 1: 40-45.]

Footnote *"Chains of Love," by Eric Wilson, Instyle, magazine,  page 515, September 2015




January 16, 2020



SEMITRANSPARENT


Sometimes we’re good at hiding
our feelings; sometimes we’re not.

Sometimes it all depends on whom
we’re with and what’s going on in our lives.

Most of the time we’re semitransparent and it’s
only those who care - who dare to ask, ”What’s up?”


© Andy Costello, Reflections

January 16, 2020


Thought for Today

 “Righteous people terrify me …  Virtue is its own punishment.” 


Aneurin Bevan, Quoted 
Michael  Foot, Aneurin 
                                                                                        Bevan, 1897  - 1943                                                                                                                                                                                         

January 15, 2020


GOD  TUGS

God tugs.

God tugs the tassel
of our thoughts –
not just in church,
temple or mosque.

God touches us
when we stop to
watch the deep dark
night sky.

God taps our wallet

when we walk down
the street and see a
beggar's out stretched hand.

God takes our hand 
when we tumble on our way of the cross,
wipes our face with his cloak,
and gets us to our Calvary.

God tantalizes
us when we see
tangerines on the table.
Take, taste and eat.

God  thinks
with us when we are
on the communion line
when  we receive each other.

God tugs.

© Andy Costello, Reflections

Wednesday, January 15, 2020


January  15, 2020




Thought  for Today 

 
“Hope is a dangerous thing.” 

Colonel MacKenzie 
in the movie 1917 
which we just came 
home from. Phew! 

Tuesday, January 14, 2020

January  14,  2020


GUINEA  PIG


Sometimes I feel like I’m
your guinea pig – because
I feel like you’re not really talking
to me – you’re having a future conversation -
or you’re looking over my shoulder
at a “Next!”

© Andy Costello, Reflections


January  14, 2020 

Thought  for Today  

“As  soon as you can say what you think and not what  some other person has thought for you,  you are on your way to being a  remarkable man.”   


J. M. Barrie, Tommy 
and Grizel, 1900
  

Monday, January 13, 2020

January 13, 2020


ELITE


Is there a secret desire 
in all of us to be elite? 

Not in everything – but in something – 
or in at least one thing. 

I know how to dress just right 
and you have no clue. 

I know wines and after dinner 
drinks – and you know nothing. 

I’m good in cards or ping pong or 
Shanghai rummy – and you’re not. 

“Thank God I’m not like the rest – 
greedy – grasping – so, so selfish ….”* 

Do we have these desires because 
we actually feel inferior to so and so? 

Is the secret to be able to laugh at 
ourselves especially when our egg cracks? 

Is the secret what Jesus said, “Whoever 
humbles him or herself will be exalted? 

Why is it that we want to be seen 
As Number 1 – at table or at church? 


© Andy Costello, Reflections
*Check Luke 18: 8-14

January  13,  2020


“Heresy  is the  lifeblood  of  religion. It is faith that begets heresies.  There are no heresies in a dead religion.”



Andre Suares, Pegny, 1912

Sunday, January 12, 2020

January 12, 2020




LAYERED  LOOK


Look! Look at your life.
Look carefully. Look!
There are layers upon layers.
There are events upon events –
comments upon comments –
hurts that trigger hurts,
passive aggression on top
of past hurts – payback
on top of payback.
Look at your life.
See the sorrows under
joys and the joys under sorrows.
Let go!  Stop the cycles
of hurt upon hurt. Look!
Listen. Learn. Unravel.

STOP signs sometimes work.

© Andy Costello, Reflections

January  12,  2020


Thought  for  Today:

“Hurt  people  hurt  people.”  


Rabbi Yehuda Berg, 
and Pastors Rick Warren 
and Will Bowen

Friday, January 10, 2020

January 11, 2020


UNDONE

Oh my God, 
there are so many things 
we’d like undone: 
comments, choices, moves, 
gestures, texts and twitters. 

Oh my God, 
did You really regret 
creating us or did the 
author of Genesis 6:6 
regret writing that? 



© Andy Costello, Reflections





January  11, 2020

Thought  for  Today  

“Autobiographies  ought  to begin with Chapter Two.” 

Ellery  Sedgwick, 
The Happy Profession 
January 10, 2020


TUG-OF-WAR

Tug-of-war can be a tough game.
Tug-of-peace hopefully is also a
game that is going on as well.

The rope used for tug-of-war
games is usually very thick.

Time, control, money, ego,
are all in the weave of rope.

Life is the pull of all these
forces. Hopefully, we learn
the game called tug-of-peace.


                                                                                 © Andy Costello, Reflections
January 10, 2020


Thought for Today 

 “There are many who stay away from church  these  days because you hardly ever mention God any more.” 


Arthur Miller, 
The Crucible, 1953


Thursday, January 9, 2020

January 9, 2020



DIRECTOR’S  CHAIR

While watching the making
of the movie of another’s life,
sometimes we notice  the other has
someone else in the director’s chair.

It could be Mommy, Daddy, Spouse, 
trends, that are pulling the strings, 
arranging the scenes – controlling the
lines, directing the action and the cuts.

Then sometimes – we find out –
the other, the movie director of
our life, wasn’t interested in us –
only wanting us to be their Oscar.



© Andy Costello, Reflections


January  9, 2020


Thought  for  Today
  

“Writing  comes  more easily if you have something to say.” 

Sholem Asch,
New York Herald Tribune,
November 6, 1955

Wednesday, January 8, 2020



BELIEF  IN  MIRACLES

INTRODUCTION

The  title  of my homily is, “Belief in Miracles.”

Today’s  gospel   has the story of Jesus walking  on  water.  It’s a classic miracle story and metaphor. So,  last night in preparing this homily I decided to think about miracles.  So the title of my reflection is,  “Belief in Miracles.”

MARTIN O’MALLEY

I got an e-mail Christmas card from a friend of mine, Martin O’Malley. Great name. I had told him I now live next to the ocean.

Some of his roots are from Galway, Ireland and my parents are from Galway, Ireland. I told him I like to stand down by the water and say to myself  - pointing out into the Atlantic , “Galway,  Ireland is right there.” 

He had said he did the same thing with his kids at the beach in Ocean City, Maryland when they were kids.

Then I told him about the statue of Mary on our property here that has Jesus doing the same thing: pointing out to the water. 




Did Mary and Joseph take Jesus to the Sea of Galilee when he was a kid?  It’s not that far from Nazareth.

He slid into a follow up e-mail the following words, “The miracle is to walk on land.”

I wrote back to him, “Great quote. I’ll give you credit if it’s yours.”

THICH NHAT HANH



He wrote back, “Sorry. It’s from Thich Nhat Hanh – whom I met and love to read. Thich said, ‘The miracle is not to walk on water. The miracle is to walk on the green earth, dwelling deeply in the present moment and feeling truly alive.’”

Wow is that classic Buddhist spiritual visioning.

I’ve been thinking about that and surprise today’s gospel appears and I’m down for saying a few words.

Last night I looked up what other folks have said about miracles and how we see.

Jon Bon Jovi said, “Miracles happen every day, change your perception of what a miracle is and you'll see them all around you.”   

Change your attitude – open up both your eyes – and open up the third eye – the inner eye the mystics talk about.

Have that faith and you can stand on our beach and be in communion with all the people on the waters and the land they lap and wave to all day long.

Have that faith – have that way of thinking and seeing – and you can be in communion during this meal with all people at 8 o’clock Masses in this time zone and all people having breakfast, lunch and supper around the world at this time – the constant daily miracle of the multiplication of the  loves of daily bread around the world.

Have that faith, that way of seeing, and every time you see visible signs of love, you’ll see and sense the presence of the invisible God all around you  - as today’s first reading from the First Letter of John puts it. [Cf. .  4:11-18]

Have that faith – that way of perceiving – and you can write the song in the Rogers and Hammerstein’s musical, The Flower Drum Song. “A Hundred Million Miracles”.

The refrain is saying what I’m saying in this homily,

           “A hundred million miracles,
            A hundred million miracles are happ'ning ev'ry day,
            And those who say they don't agree
            Are those who do not hear or see.
            A hundred million miracles,
            A hundred million miracles are happ'ning ev'ry day….”



Notice today’s gospel has that very same message when Mark tells us about those who don’t get it, “They had not understood the incident of the loaves. On the contrary, their hearts were hardened.” [Mark 6: 52]

But those who get it see Jesus walking with them when on the water, in a boat, at a meal, at this mass, when walking on this planet.

As the flower drum song puts it,  those who get this ability to see miracles see the miracle of children growing, the  rivers flowing, the sun rising, flowers flowering, stars staring and a little girl in China –  standing up today and starting to walk for the first time.

CONCLUSION

As Albert Einstein put it, “There are two ways to live: you can live as if nothing is a miracle; you can live as if everything is a miracle.” 

Our move ….

January 8,  2020



WHO  THE  HECK?

Who the heck came up with:
“This is the best pizza in the town ….
“This is the best milk shake there ….
“This is the best meringue pie there ….
“This is by far the best movie ever ….
“This is the best day of my life so far ….
“This is the best poem I ever read ….
“This is the worst I’ve ever seen you ….
“This is the worst soup I ever tasted ….
“This is the worst sermon I ever ….
“This is the worst poem I ever read ….


© Andy Costello, Reflections


January  8, 2020

Thought for Today 

“The  last  years of his life had become so precious to him that, as he said, he would willingly stand at street corners hat in hand, begging passers-by to drop their unused minutes into it.” 

John Walker, of
Bernard Berenson, 
The Bernard Berenson 
Treasury.

Tuesday, January 7, 2020


January 7,  2020


MOTIVE?

People judge my motive.
I hear them do this at times.

What I wish they would realize
is that life is a multi-motivated thing.

In fact, most of us don’t know
why we do what we do.

Didn’t Jesus say something
like that up there on the cross?

“Father forgive them because
they don’t know what they’re doing.”*

A week, a month from now,
we’ll see another why to our why.

So enough with the judging.
Enjoy the  complications.


© Andy Costello, Reflections
*Luke 23:34


January 7, 2020




Thought for Today:

“Everyone wants to understand painting.  Why don’t they try to understand the singing of birds?  People love the night, a flower, everything that surrounds them without trying to understand them.  But painting – that they must understand.”

Pablo Picasso,
Quoted Gerald Brennan,
Thoughts in a Dry Season, 1979

Monday, January 6, 2020




TOE TAPPING

Does God love it when 
people go toe tapping? 
I know I notice toe 
tapping when people are 
just sitting there on the 
subway heading home 
or uptown or downtown or
in church during hymn time. 

How about music makers:  
do they try to build toe 
tapping into their pieces? 
If they do that, I’d like to 
know just how they do that, 
so I can build some bounce  
and joy and toe tapping into 
every place I dance into. 

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020

January  6, 2020


Thought  for  Today 

“I  always  tell students that it is what you learn  after you know it all that counts.”

Harry S. Truman

Sunday, January 5, 2020


DON’T  BOTHER  ME!


Well, I don’t want to say it like that.
But sometimes I just want space.
I just want some time to be alone.
I want to just do nothing but read,
walk, think, pray, and be with myself.

How about you? Are there times
that you too want to be alone, to
have some space – to ponder, to
wonder? Hey Jesus had his garden,
his cave, his 30 years of privacy.

Wait a minute. Saying it that way,
seems too much. I need a minute or
a hour to think this all out. When
things are moving too fast and all are
talking, I simply want to slip slide away.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2020


January  5, 2020



Thought for Today

“Consistency is contrary to nature. Contrary to life.  The only consistent people  are the dead.”  


Aldous Huxley, Collected Essays, 1960