Wednesday, March 20, 2019

March 20, 2019


THE  CHALICE

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily and thoughts for this 2nd Wednesday in Lent is,  "The Chalice."

PROPS

[Holding a chalice]  As you know Father Tizio and now Father Luyen Dau like to use props to help their sermons be more clear.

A prop is something visible - to help us to see the invisible.

So here is a golden chalice.  What do you see when you see a chalice?

What do you see when a best man and a maid of honor or the father or mother of the bride or bridegroom hold up a glass chalice or goblet at a wedding or any occasion and they toast someone?

They are trying to make the invisible - their inner hopes for the future - visible.

A STORY

[Holding a chalice] I was once giving a retreat to some priests - perhaps in Richmond, Virginia. For a evening prayer I held a gold chalice like this one in my hand and said, "Here is a chalice. We see the outside of the cup, but we can't see what's inside."

Inside of each of us is the Good, the Bad and the Ugly.

Inside of us is our story. Our life. Our inner stuff.

I suggest you sit here in this chapel after this night prayer is over. Just sit here and look into the chalice called you - and see everything. 

See the mistakes and the moments of ecstasy.

See everything.

Then when you have some time this evening go up the chalice on the altar and stand where you stand for Mass and the consecration. Lift up the chalice.  Look into the cup - then offer your whole life up to God Our Father with Christ.

Well I did that and left the priests in that chapel to do what they wanted to do next.

I went to bed.

Around 1 PM I heard a knock on my door that woke me up.

It was one of the priests on the retreat. 

For the next hour and a half - he told me what was in his chalice - in his life - and how profound a moment it was this evening when he lifted up his chalice - and lifted his life - the Good. the Bad and the Ugly.

WHAT'S IN YOUR WALLET? CHALICE?

We all know the Capital One slogan? What's in your wallet?

In today's gospel  from Matthew 20: 17-28 -we have the story about what was in the chalice of the mother of the two sons of Zebedee.  She wanted her boys to be # 1 and # 2 in Jesus' Kingdom.

Can you hear those boys saying, "Mom!"

We can hear the anger in the other disciple's chalices/

Jesus says to them, "Can you drink of my chalice?"

They boldly answer, "We can!"

Then Jesus tells them what's going to be in their chalices and what ought to be in them: service. And there also will be blood.

CONCLUSION

One more prop.

Whenever I do baptisms here or at St. John Neumann I ask the mom and dad to take their baby and stand as priest at the altar.

I have had well over 1000 babies on this altar.

I ask them to put their hand on their baby and to say after me, holding - the chalice of their child. "This is my body. This is my blood. We're giving our life to you.

I conclude: "This is the sacrifice of the Mass."












March  20, 2019


EDGES

Standing at the edge of rooms,
and the backs of churches,
sort of nervous at Your margins,
Oh God - not willing to sit down yet
and say, “Amen!” to You  as Word,
hesitant to take and taste You, the
bread and the wine - to chew on, to
digest Your calls to be in communion 
with You. Not sure yet …. Not sure yet …. 
but I'm noticing You edging closer and closer ….

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


March     20, 2019 


Thought for today: 

“It can be revealed for the first time that it was in San Francisco [in 1906] that Al Jolson first uttered his immortal slogan, ‘You ain’t heard nuttin’ yet!’  One  night at the cafĂ© he had just finished a song when a deafening burst of noise from a building project across the street  drowned out the applause. At the top of his lungs, Jolson screamed, ‘You  think that’s noise - you ain’t heard nuttin’ yet!’ And he proceeded to deliver an encore which for sheer blasting  put to everlasting shame all the decibels of noise the carpenters, the brick-layers and the drillers could scare up between them.” 

Martin Abraham, 
Real Story of Al 
Jolson (1950) p. 13

Tuesday, March 19, 2019

March 19, 2019


CARPENTER’S SHOP

If I were wood and God 
was a carpenter, what 
would I want to be? 

A table, a chair, 
a desk, a pencil, 
a hammer handle, 
a plow, stairs, 
a door, a kite frame, 
a flute, a violin, 
a baseball bat, 
a fence, a porch…. 

I am wood and  I am 
a carpenter, and what  
have I become in my life? 

Ooops! Don’t tell me
that I have become

a cross for you?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


March     19, 2019 - 



Thought for today: 

“Certain books come to meet one, as do people.”  


Elizabeth Bowen



ST. JOSEPH: 
THE MAN BEHIND THE SCENE

INTRODUCTION

Today we celebrate the feast of St. Joseph. We see statues of him on pedestals— or pictures of him on walls - in churches and homes and on memorial cards. We see images of him with the tools of his trade in his hand—Joseph the Carpenter—or with a flower, a symbol of his purity—as husband of Mary - or holding the Christ child or teaching him a trade.

QUESTION—WONDERING

When it comes to saints, I often wonder why it is or what it is that makes this particular saint, this particular person stand out from the rest of people. To stand out enough to be put up on a pedestal!

What is the energy! What part of us does the life of this saint touch that we want to accentuate!

That’s what hits me about saints. Or in other words, “Patron Saint of What?” and “Why?”

ST. JOSEPH

We know so little about St. Joseph. Yet the name “Joseph”, “Saint Joseph” hits certain cords in people’s hearts.

What is it?

What is it about St. Joseph?

What is it that makes him a big name among the Italians—a Jewish boy—famous among the Italians. Giuseppe! Today is a big feast day. There are lots of pastry and special ones just for this day.

What is that makes him a special saint among the Poles?

What is it that makes him so popular that so many orders of religious women chose to be named after him: “Sisters of St. Joseph!”

Today, this has lessened, with less kids being named Joseph.

But still, what about Joseph? Why Joseph? Why the fame? What myth, archetype does he touch? What does he touch in our life that makes him famous?

OTHER JOSEPH’S

In the scriptures we know more about Joseph of Arimathea than about Joseph of Nazareth. We know even more about Joseph of the OT. So what is it about St. Joseph that makes him so popular?

ANSWER

I think the answer is the reality that 99 % of the people on our planet are what we call: THE NECESSARY PEOPLE BEHIND THE SCENES OF LIFE.

That is the universal vocation of all: to keep all moving—to keep life going—to keep the planet going.

And I think Joseph is the patron saint of the anonymous people—all those people behind the scenes—while the main characters and actors on stage get the credit.

EXAMPLES

Take our everyday life.

Somebody puts the bread out and cereal out and someone fills the juice machine. We only know those things exist till they are missing and we have to go to the back box to get milk or the big plastic racks for bread. We only know the juice needs replenishing when its light is blinking.

Today’s papers. Who are the people who put the paper on the print presses? Who are the copy people? Who drives the newspapers to small and big stores,  so the store has them at 7:00 or 8:00 AM?

Who drives the bus? Who are the truck drivers?

Who does the dishes in the diner or the restaurant? Who put the cable down or cable up for our telephones or TV?

We watch the evening news and there is anchor woman or man.  We don’t see the camera crew. We don’t see the people who drove Martha Raditz  to Capital Hill and set everything up. Their name might be at the end of the news in small print, but we don’t stop to see it.

ST. JOSEPH

So I see St. Joseph as the example, the model, the archetype, of the person behind the scenes.

He represents Parents, Teachers.  Doctors, Truck Drivers, etc.

And what about telephone operators and air traffic controllers. What about FDA researchers who look at drugs. And what about those who put the weather together?

We only see the stars.

We really don’t see the dad after he walks his daughter down the aisle.

THE ENERGY

That’s where I see the energy when it comes to St. Joseph. We need a bit of encouragement every once and a while and on the feast of St. Joseph, the message is that everyone counts. Everyone is needed. We are the little people on the planet, but every little one counts. Today we celebrate Joseph. One of ours has made it.


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Picture on top: Holding Heaven - Dicianne

Monday, March 18, 2019


March     18, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“Waiting sometimes is the only thing left to do.  You learn to wait, or your forfeit the lesson  you were supposed to learn.”  

Anonymous

March 18, 2019


MY  MEMORY

I thought my skin, my bones, my body
were aging - but you should see my memory.

Pea shooters, toy guns, games, fire crackers,
Coney Island, Little League games, school ….

Those were my  memories at 13 - but now
at 79, my memory is like a November night….

Clouds gliding by a silver moon, empty trees
scratching the skin of the night sky ….

Birthdays, burials, sights, sounds from trips
and great friends: failures but so many wins….


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019

March 18, 2019


THREE   THOUGHTS 
ABOUT  JUDGING 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for today -this  2nd Monday of Lent -  is, “Three  Thoughts About Judging.”

Today’s gospel - Luke 6: 36- 38 - addresses the issue about judging - which many people - judge themselves guilty about on a regular basis.

Like everyone, I have often thought about this issue about judging others.  So let me give 3 thoughts about judging in this homily.

FIRST THOUGHT: SAY, “I’M WRONG.”

The first thought is to say to oneself, when one makes a judgment about another,  “I’m wrong.”

Everyone thinks differently. Even identical twins. Our experiences effect our thinking - so our motives for doing what we do, comes from our experience with why we say what we say, why we think what we think, and why we do what we do.

1 million things, inner conversations, outer experiences, are all different in every human being - so how can we think alike?

We get angry or we inwardly say when another judges our motives, “Wait a minute. You don’t know why I just said or did what I just  did, so stop judging me from your motives.  They are your projections - not mine.”

Golden rule: We don’t like it when others judge us, so stop judging.

I’m wrong every time - because motivation is multi-layered, multi-reasons, multi-backgrounded.

Wait a minute! Get your hands on  a memory when you judged someone and you found out you were dead wrong. Say to yourself, “Remember that experience, that last time you  judged and wow was I so wrong.”

Here’s an experience: Someone is sitting there and they see a boy turn around and look back at a girl - 3 rows behind. He keeps doing it.  Surprise we find out that he’s not looking at her, but he’s turning to check the clock just over her head on the back wall. He wants out of there because he has to go to the bathroom. She thinks he’s looking at her. We think he’s checking her out. Nope.

2) THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN JUDGMENT AND PERCEPTION AND SECOND JUDGMENT.

Second message: some people are big on perceiving; some people are big on judging.

It’s not’s virtuous.  People are often just one way more than the other.

A person walks into a store or a church or a room and says, “This room is stupid, the way it looks or is laid out.”

Another person walks into a store or a church or a room and says, “Interesting, the way the pretzels are right across from the Coca Cola.”  Or,  “Interesting the way the benches are.”

I score high on perception. Others score high on judgment on Judgment-Perception Surveys or Self-Tests.

It’s the next step where judgment takes place - after we understand our first reaction.

Some people automatically make a judgement. There is no sin involved.  Some people automatically make a perception. There is no virtue involved.

3) GO FOR BIG COMPASSION

My third point comes from today’s 2 readings - especially the Gospel.

Jesus says have great compassion and mercy in judging others.

Jesus says that the measure we measure with comes back at us.

If we’re stingy with compassion and understanding, yuck. There’s a better way to be.

I love the joke about the one armed fisherman or a one armed golfer.

Did you hear about the one armed fisherman? He caught a fish this big.

Did you hear about the one armed golfer. He missed the putt by this much.

In both cases I’m putting one arm out.

Well, with regards judging someone, miss by this much. Hold out one arm.

Enough.

How are you judging my homily?  Sorry, I had a crazy morning - and didn't get enough time to do this better.

Sunday, March 17, 2019



TRANSFIGURATION 
MOMENTS AND PLACES

 INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Transfiguration Moments and Places.”

I like these  2nd Sunday in Lent readings: the transfiguration scene. We hear 3 versions of it: Mark last year, Luke this year, and Matthew next year.

For this homily I would simply ask you to do what I’m about to do: go through your life and pick transfiguration moments and places that transfigured you - changed you - stunned and stopped you.

I’ll give you a list of some of the places and moments I picked - so that you might do the same.

They could be an early morning moment at Rehoboth beach when you got up all alone and walked down to the water to watch the sunrise - or a night time moment  - when you stopped to look up at the sky like Abram did in today’s first reading and you counted the stars - and there you were with God.

Here are 7 places I picked. What are your 7 or 10 great moments - or places - where God was transfigured before you - and you saw the light - and you said in prayer, “God it is good that I am here.”

#  1  - MOUNT OF THE TRANSFIGURATION

The first would be the day we took a bus up to the Mount of Transfiguration place in Israel. It might be the place. It might not be the place. But it was a place there or near there that got the tradition: “It was here that Jesus experienced a transfiguration moment.”

We went by bus - 24 priests with a  Franciscan, Father Stephen Doyle leading us - up the mount of the transfiguration. The bus was easier than doing it on foot.

We had Mass in the church up on top.  Stephen read the gospel story of the Transfiguration and then after Mass he  gave us an hour of silence.

For the hour of quiet prayer,  I went up the roof of another  building up there. I was all by myself in the quiet - seeing the Golan Heights in the distance and the green pasture lands down below.

A guy had asked me when he heard I was going to Israel, “How do the sheep get fed?  Whenever I see Israel on TV, it’s desert and dryness. Well when I got back I told this guy, “In the north there is plenty of green pastures and sheep and goats.

After the hour of quiet we had a lunch at a Franciscan monastery up on top as well.  It was a spaghetti dinner.

Lord, it  was good to have been here.  The bread was good as well….

# 2 - ZION NATIONAL PARK



The next place I would pick is Zion National Park in Southern Utah. I never knew it existed till I went there.

If you ever get a chance to see National Parks in the southwest - make sure you include Zion National Park. If you get to the Grand Canyon, you’re in striking distance of Zion.  Wow. Well worth it.

I was with another priest, Tom, whom I worked with for 8 ½ years before I came to Annapolis. I was preaching in Tucson - and he flew out when I finished and we had a great 2 week vacation.  Zion was the best.

Lord, it  was good to have been here.

#  3  -  LAKE OF SOLITUDE


The next place would be Lake of Solitude in the Rockies.  4 of us were backpacking - and were  headed for a place called Black Lake.  Well, we met these 3 guys from Boston who were also backpacking. They asked us where we were headed and we said, “Black Lake.”  They said they were there - but much better was Lake of Solitude.  They gave us directions and we had maps - and we changed our plans.

We made it. Sure enough. it was like a church without a ceiling - and the sanctuary was a pool of water - holding the blue sky and some clouds. that flowed into a small lake - listed as the Lake of Solitude. We immediately started saying an Our Father.

Lord, it  was good to have been here.

# 4  CHARTRES CATHEDRAL



I always wanted to go to Chartres Cathedral - not that far a distance from Paris - and it was all I hoped for.




A Malcom Miller gave the tour - 2 hours in the morning - 2 hours in the afternoon - and we came back the next morning - for another 2 hours. He would explain 2 stained glass windows at a time - and some other aspects of medieval cathedrals.

Lord, it  was good to have been here.

Chartres was Lourdes and Fatima - a great Marian Shrine - long before Lourdes and Fatima - and people from all over Europe made pilgrimages to there.

# 5 THIS CHURCH


Next I would add this church. It’s been here since 1858.

Sense all the prayers still moving around this sacred place.

Think of all the tears shed in this sacred space.

I mention this church to trigger the thought: What have been the sacred places and spaces - the churches of your lifetime.

Where is your spot in this church?

Do you have a favorite bench?

Is it up here where babies are baptized or right there where couples make their vows.

Is it a confessional - or a place where you went to a special communion - maybe having dropped out for a while.

Let me point out two spots in this church - that have deep lingering feelings for me.

A woman died right there - after a wedding - when they were taking pictures. [Point]

I had a funeral for a 3 day old baby. Her remains were on a small table - right there [Point]

Lord, sometimes it’s sad to be here. Lord sometimes we’re glad to be here. Lord sometimes we need you.

# 6 MOM AND DAD’S BURIAL VAULT



Next - and this is true for so many people - there is the place where our loved ones are buried.

Where are you cemeteries?

My mom and dad are buried on the 4th floor of an enormous building - a mausoleum at St. John’s Cemetery in Queens, NY.

It’s neat. It’s clean. It has piped in music. It has marble seats. It’s a sacred place.

I was looking this up today on line and Google said that Lucky Luciano, John Gotti, Carlo Gambino and Vito Genovese are buried in this same cemetery.  Fine Irish men to mention on a day like today.

Lord, it  was good to have been here.

# 7 IRELAND - FIRST TIME.





And my last place would be a moment when our plane came towards the coast of Ireland. I had a great window seat. I could see the coast as we headed for Shannon Air Port. I could see the green. And a thrill came over me. I’m about to see for the first time, the place where my mom and dad are from.

The green was beautiful that bright morning.

Lord it is good to be here.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily  was “Transfiguration Moments and Places.”

I just mentioned 7 places that are sacred - and I ask you to name 5 or 7 of yours.

And tell them to each other. Amen.

HAPPY  ST.  PATRICK'S  DAY


10,000
BLESSINGS 
TO YOU
AND YOUR 
FAMILY
TODAY


March 17, 2019


PEACE  AND  QUIET  TODAY

Peace and Quiet within our hearts today. 
Amen.

Peace and Quiet within our families today. Amen.

Peace and Quiet within our neighbors today. Amen.

Peace and Quiet within our world today. 
Amen

So we can hear the roar of the deep ocean called, “God” within us today. 
Amen.

So we can hear the music and the dancing
in our neighbor's  homes today as well. 
Amen.
  

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 


March     17, 2019 - 

Thought for today:

 “The Catholic and the Communist are alike in assuming that an opponent cannot be both honest and intelligent.”
George Orwell, Polemic
Jan 1946, ‘the Prevention of Literature’

Saturday, March 16, 2019

March 16, 2019


MOST  VALUABLE  PLAYER

M V P:  now that’s a very tricky award!
M V P:  now that could be very subjective.
M V P: now is that just for teachers or
athletes, or necessary people.

M V P: how about down syndrome folks?
M V P: how about the handicapped?
M V P: how about the blind, the deaf, and the lame?


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019


 March     16, 2019 

Thought for today: 

“The  terrible  fluidity  of self-revelation.” 


Henry James [1843-1916], 
Ambassadors (1909 ed.) preface.

Friday, March 15, 2019

March  15,  2019



ST. CLEMENT HOFBAUER:
BAKER & BREAKER OF BREAD


INTRODUCTION

The title and the theme of my homily this morning is, “St. Clement Hofbauer: Baker and Breaker of Bread.”

As you know the Redemptorists were founded by St. Alphonsus Liguori.  Then there is our second founder: St. Clement Hofbauer – who got us rolling on the other side of the Alps.

There is a little known quote from the book of Lamentations that Alphonsus used to quote. I believe that it sums up his life, his vision, and his ministry.  “The little children go begging for bread; no one spares a scrap for them.” A vulgar modern translation could be: “The little children are begging for bread and nobody gives a crap about them.”

The Redemptorist is called to bring the bread of the word to the people of the world who are starving for the Bread of Life. But there is a nuance - a major nuance that is part of the Redemptorist tradition, lore and myth. It’s this. You just don’t give people loaves of bread. You first have to cut it up in smaller pieces so that they can eat it. You don’t just give them sermons, you simplify and cut them down so people can understand and digest what you are talking about. KISS. You don’t overdo it with too many points, too many big words, too many metaphors.

The call is to be good bakers, good preachers and then good cutters, good breakers of the word into small pieces, so the children of the world can be helped to eat it. 

Unless you be like little children, you shall not enter the kingdom of God.

ST. CLEMENT AND ST. ALPHONSUS: DIFFERENCES

St. Clement and St. Alphonsus were two totally different characters.

Alphonsus was from the upper crust of society and Clement from the lower crust. You see the top side of the bread, you don’t see the underside of the bread. Who sees the poor?

Alphonsus was a lawyer, who grew up hobnobbing with the rich and the powerful of society and ending up working with the poor and the powerless - who sometimes were outside society. Clement was a baker. He grew up as a poor kid, with little means for a school education and ended up being well known not just to the poor of Vienna, but also to some of the great intellectuals and high society of the city.

One was born in the capital city of Naples and moved out of it. One was born in a small town and ended up in the capital city of Vienna.

There could not be 2 more different men.

ST. CLEMENT AND ST. ALPHONSUS: SIMILARITIES

Yet there are some points that both of those saints had very much in common.

Both are the founders of our Congregation - one on each side of the Alps. Both of the them had struggle after struggle to get foundations and approval. Both of them never really lived to see the results of their work. As we heard in today’s first reading: 1 Cor. 3: 6-11, Paul said that he planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth. Or it’s like a building, Paul said, I laid the foundation. Another is building upon it. But Christ is the corner stone. Neither of these men really saw the great growth that resulted from their lifetime of hard work. Each of these men are the ground on which we stand, the foundation of our congregation, the bottom line why we are here today.

However, besides these men being our founders, where I see a great similarity, is in the image of bread. Clement, as I said was a baker. Alphonsus was a lawyer who ended up having a great love affair with Jesus in the Bread of the Altar, the Bread of the Eucharist.

However, what I would like to stress today is the bread of the word.

Now by stressing this I am not implying that neither of them, nor us Redemptorists should not be concerned about the people on the planet who are starving  for actual bread - those with physical hunger. As human beings, as Christians, as Redemptorists, if we see our brother or sister starving for bread, we better feed them. “The little children go begging for bread; no one spares a scrap for them.” Clement fed his orphans at St. Benno’s in Warsaw and Alphonsus worked to get food for the people of Agatha of the Goths in the famine of 1763 - 1764 and Redemptorists ever since have been deeply concerned about helping those who are starving and poor.

But I am stressing that the end of our Institute, the purpose of our Congregation from the very beginning, as our first constitution puts it is to “follow the example of Jesus Christ, the Redeemer, by preaching the word of God to the poor, as he declared of himself: `He sent me to preach the Good News to the poor.’”

In today’s Gospel: Luke 10:1-9 we see Jesus appointing disciples and sending them 2 by 2, to work in teams. The harvest is plentiful,  the laborers are few. Jesus sent them forth to bring peace to others. If a son of peace is here, then your peace will rest on you, if not it returns to you. The Kingdom of God has come to you.

The stress then is on the Bread of the Word - Good News - Gospel - preaching. The stress is on giving people meaning in their lives, when they don’t have meaning. The stress is on prophetic preaching that will convert the hearts and minds of people so that there will more peace and justice in our world and less selfishness. The stress is on prophetic preaching against structures that cause poverty and prophetic preaching that in the meanwhile, since we always have the poor with us, we see those scrounging with the dogs for scraps at the garbage pails outside our houses.

Both Alphonsus and Clement saw a Europe in their times where people were starving for the word of God and a) preachers were not giving them that bread or b) if they were giving it, they were not breaking it up for them. Both saw that people need sermons that are down to earth, meat and potato stuff, bread not cake, stuff not fluff.

Our tradition then is not just to preach the word, the bread of the word, but to break it up into pieces so that people will understand it easily and no longer be starving.

CONCLUSION

Today, yes our world has a lot of people who are starving. Today, yes our world has a lot of food that could be used by those who are starving, but there is greed, laziness, use of food as weapons, poor distribution of food etc. Yes to all that.

But where our provinces work, I see that most people have the means to get physical food. What they lack is spiritual food: the bread of the word. The people are hungry for the Word of God. “The little children go begging for bread; no one spares a scrap for them.” "I was hungry and you gave me to eat."

The people we serve seem to me to have much of the world’s goods, but are also starving for meaning, prophecy, Good News, the Word made Flesh: Jesus.

The harvest is plentiful, the laborers are few. Jesus invites us to work in the field. Alphonsus and Clement said, yes. Do I?

AMEN COME LORD JESUS!

March 15, 2015

THE  PIER

The feel of wood on the soles of
my bare feet as I stand still here
on a pier - with the licking, lapping
sound of water just below....
I love being on a wooden pier.
What a great place for wood -
better than a casket but - but wouldn’t
it be nice if  wood in the forest
still growing - still alive - had a
say in their future: table, desk,
cradle, rocking chair, pier platform,
then again there is the horror
of a forest fire that wipes away
700 miles of woodland in a single day.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2019 

March 15, 2019


Thought for today: 

“A child becomes an adult when he realizes he has a right  not only to be right but also to be wrong.” 


Thomas Szasz,  
The Second Sin (1973) 
Childhood”