MOUNTAIN

Sometimes mountains,

sometimes deserts,

sometimes oceans,

sometimes walls,

sometimes swamps,

sometimes others,

sometimes ourselves.

What are we to face today?  

August 3, 2017

AUGUST

August doesn’t carry much glitter

or glamour. It’s a so, so month.

For kids there’s the suspicion - the

sense - that it’s back to school soon -

with moms buying school supplies

and clothes for the upcoming school year.

It’s hot and humid. Lawns are dry - hard -

and dust flies when they are mowed.

Latino laborers are in the fields -

digging and picking up potatoes.

Then there’s the evenings - beer

and wine - and voices can be heard

from invisible people on porches

or lawns or stoops or steps.

They don’t have enough of

those cool breezes that could

make moments on dark porches

or comfortable coves or inlets,

much more memorable. April and

October, November and December,

now they have the possibility of a

lot more pizzazz and a lot more push.

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

August 2, 2017

DIFFERENCES

Differences, distinctions,

comparisons, contrasts,

red, green, blue, orange,

black, white, yellow,

seeing differences help us

to see what we’re seeing….

female, male, young, old,

but sometimes we forget

those are only labels on the

package. Remove the

packaging and find out,

"Who and what’s inside?"

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

"Look at the birds of the air...."  Matthew 6:26

SOME REDEMPTORIST STUFF

Father Jack Kingsbury
- former pastor of St. Mary's Annapolis, Maryland
put together this video on Redemptorists in North America.

5  SIGNIFICANT  MOMENTS 

IN  MY  LIFE. 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this feast of St. Alphonsus is 5 Significant Moments in My Life.

If I handed you a pen and paper and asked you to jot down 5 significant moments in your life, what moments, what experiences, would you come up with?

Would it be - becoming a parent, the changes that happen in the womb of the mind when there is a  pregnancy, birth, seeing your baby for the first time, raising him or her, putting her or him through school, seeing a kid go off to college, then marriage, then the experience of a grandchild?

Would it be falling in love, marriage, changing, the struggles of marriage, even a divorce, and remarriage, what have you?  Only you know your experiences and how they made you, broke you, helped you recover or what have you?

Would it be a death or a parent, a child or a spouse?  Death can be a powerful teacher. So too sickness, being cared for or caring for another. Then there is aging….

Would it a job, becoming what you did/do in life? Or a job change, or a loss of a job, or retiring?

Would it be moving, a dramatic out of state move, going off to college, the military, moving to Tennessee, or Utah, or Arizona, or where have you.

So that’s my homily thought and question for you today?

SAINT ALPHONSUS

It’s August 1^st, the feast of St. Alphonsus.  As I sat there last night working on these thoughts,  I asked my mind and my memory, “What were the 5 most important moments in the life of Alphonsus Liguori?

First would be his father. His father was strict. Boy do I have plans for you. He had started arrangements for Alphonsus to get married when he was a kid. It was to be a moving upwards. His father was often on his case. Nothing was good enough. His father would be the type to challenge his kid to do better, to have more, etc. etc. etc. His father was angry when his son quit being a lawyer to became a priest. Then one day his father was walking by a church. He heard a familiar voice coming out the window. He walked in, sat down, listened to his son and said, “Not bad!” Then “Good!”

A key moment was the loss of a law case.  We heard that he missed a minor detail and that was why he lost.  Then we heard it might have been a bribe from the other side in a land case - and he was on the wrong side. He hit bottom with that. Depression and locked doors resulted - till he came out of his room and became a priest.

He became well known as a preacher in the Naples area - but he broke down - health wise. His friends told him he need to take a vacation. They sent him own to the Amalfi Coast to rest. Great choice. Then someone -hearing there was a priest there - asked him to go up into the hills - and reach out to the goat herders - whom nobody cared about. Then he found lots of neglected people - up there in those small towns - far from the big city, Naples.  Then he founded  a Religious Community to serve the neglected.  We came to the United States for that reason.  We came to Annapolis for that reason. I became a Redemptorist to go to Brazil. Didn’t luck out.

Then there was his move from being strict  and severe - to becoming compassionate and kind.  Growing up he was scrupulous - and strict on himself, till he discovered that his perception and understanding of who and what God was like changed. His met  Jesus Christ - the Good Shepard.  He later said, “In 61 years of hearing confessions, I never refused anyone absolution.” Of course not….

He began to write - writing around 111 published books - and the Jesus one meets there is Jesus the Jesus of the gospels.  I believe Pope Francis discovered all this as well. Alphonsus discovered that Jesus was warm, a lover, a friend, a Redeemer. His key book, I was always told, was The Practice of the Love of Jesus Christ.  Get into a warm relationship with Christ.  Meet him in the stable, a baby, then grow in your relationship with him, meet him in the bread, the Blessed Sacrament, and sit under the cross and let his blood drip on your head.  Crib, Cross, Sacrament as we always heard. 

CONCLUSION

Enough already….

Those are 5 significant moments in the life of St. Alphonsus.  I hope you met him here in the Redemptorists at St. Mary’s.  What are your 5?

August 1, 2017

TANTRUMS

At 2 or 3 we make them rather openly,

At 66 we make them rather sneakily.

At 86 we’re back to wearing a bib and

banging our fists and forks and the

spaghetti and the meat balls slide to the

floor  - as we tell all in the nursing home:

“I want what I want when I want it.”

How about God? Does God want

his will to be done on earth as it

is in heaven? Are earthquakes and

tornados and tropical storms and

forest fires God’s tantrums? Or

is God’s will - really our will - to be

done on earth and it is in heaven?

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

REMEMBERING 

WHAT  WE  READ 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this July 31, Feast of St. Ignatius of Loyola,  is, “Remembering What We Read.”

It could also be “What We Heard.”

Answer, “Very little.”

Answer, “But we don’t know what we’re going to remember - till long afterwards.  And that's the catch....”

QUESTION

Have you ever read something that you find yourself thinking about 3 days later, but you don’t know where you read it, so you can’t go back to find it - and reread it?

I read parts of  two newspapers -  most days - The New York Times and the Washington Post.

I don’t read every section. I never read the cartoons in the Washington Post or any paper. I never read the obituaries - except for an upcoming funeral. I never read the business or real estate stuff. But I do read the sports section and the op ed pages.

How about you?  

Do your read papers or magazines or books and then find yourself thinking about something a week later.

FOR EXAMPLE

Like last week, I read an interesting article in The New York Times.  It was in the Sports Section.  It began, I think, about how pro football coaches work hard on their opening practice day speech. Then it mentioned that the New York Giants football coach, Ben McAdoo read a poem and a story for his speech - on this the beginning of his second year as a head coach.

He recited a poem by Rudyard Kipling, “If”.  I remember hearing it quoted but not lately - about being honest with yourself and being able to look oneself in the mirror. Things to ask oneself, “If I’m doing  this, this, this,”  then I’m doing well.  

Next, he read the story about an old lion who was in a Mexican Zoo.  He was basically finished - but the zoo sold him to a zoo in California.   The lion got there and basically was retired - finished - but the zoo staff fed him a lot of vitamins and shots. Surprise, the Lady Lions didn’t like the other male lions - but loved this lion and had some 33 cubs by him in 16 months. The story went something like that.

The players loved it: the poem was for the young guys and the old lion was a story for the old guys. Hopefully they have a  lot more game in them.

I’ve been thinking about that method of public speaking. Maybe instead of homilies, tell a poem and tell a story.

FOR EXAMPLE

Last night I was reading an excerpt from Give Us This Day missalette. It’s an alternative to the Magnificat.  And in one page commentary on St. Ignatius of Loyola,  I read the following sentence and I’ve been thinking about it ever since, “Within fifteen years the order increased from ten members to a thousand.”

Woo.

Wow that would solve the need for priests in the Catholic Church big time and big fast - if that could happen around the world.

I guess we need more priests who are saints.

LIKE

I once took a mini-course in Jesuit Spiritually, One of the presenters said, “This course can be summed up this way. If you want to understand Jesuit Spirituality and Discernment, here it is in one short principle: “If it’s good, more; if it’s bad, less.” 

I’ve been thinking about that for 25 years now.

Think about that. Exercise, prayer, forgiveness, eating right, reading good stuff, listening, well, have more of those practices; the bad stuff, gossip, talking behind people’s back, getting back, not forgiving, eating too much sugar, couch potatoing, eating small bags of potato chips in one gulp - with all that salt, junk  TV, etc. etc. etc. make sure one does less.

CONCLUSION

The title of this homily is, "Remembering What We Read"  or heard - as well forgetting where we read it.

It’s the same with preaching. I had a job of novice master for 9 years and at the end of every year, I’d ask the novices, “Did you remember any homily from this year.”

I preached to them over 300 homilies each year and it was rare when anyone remembered even one. Bummer.

But I keep reading and I keep preaching hoping something sinks in. Hey you never know.

I sense it's like going to a concert. You have to hear all the songs, because you don't know which song is going to stick with you, long after the show.

I heard our last governor - O'Malley's Marching Band do his concert at Rams Head three times and I didn't know his song, "Yes, Sister, No Sister," would stick with me from then on. Maybe because it's catchy, maybe because my sister Peggy was a nun - as well as my dad's three sisters. I don't know ....

ATTENTION ALL FUTURE
FARMERS OF AMERICA!

BE A WINNER!

DODGE BEING A LOSER! 

BECOME A DODGER FAN TODAY!

ALL ARE WELCOME!

July 31, 2017

EVOLUTION

Do penguins ever have an identity crisis?

Do birds envy planes or vice versa?

Do old fish ever feel washed up?

Do guppies group?

Do monkeys say, “Hey, I think that’s my uncle?”

Do butterflies look down on caterpillars?

Do horseflies think they’re the elephant in the room?

Do cows jump when they see the moon?

Do giraffes ever stick their neck out?

Do fat zebras wish their stripes went the other way?

Do thin cats make comments about fat cats?

Do redwood trees have problems aging?

Do apples and oranges appreciate compliments?

Do pigs get angry when people call people pigs?

Do wolves wolf down their food?

Do some horses wish they were a different color?

Do some frogs ever hear, “You’re a prince”?

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

KEEP IT SIMPLE TODAY

WHAT’S  THE 

GREATEST  TREASURE 

THAT  YOU  OWN?

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 17 Sunday in Ordinary Time [A] is, “What’s The Greatest Treasure That You Own?”

That’s your homework for this week: What’s the Greatest Treasure That You Own?”

Here are two tricks to figure out your greatest treasure.

First suggestion: jot down on paper - or computer - or what have you - a list of 10 or 20 treasures that you have - then narrow them down to 3 and then down to 1.

Second suggestion: share your answers and if the treasure is something you can see and  touch, show it to spouse, family and / or friends.

It’s a great exercise. On our high school Kairos retreats, I’ve been on over 30 of them now, Ginny has an exercise, “If your house was on fire and you could grab 3 things - other than pets or people, what would you take out of your house?”

The answers vary - and usually there is one or two great treasures: journals, photographs, an afghan made by a grandmother, a lock of hair from a mom when she got cancer and lost all her hair - before it came back.

What is the greatest treasure that you own?

TODAY’S READINGS

Today’s first reading from the First Book of Kings has this great folklore story that God asked Solomon in a dream at night, “Ask something of me and I’ll give it to you?”

What would you ask God for - if you had such a dream?

Well Solomon asks for the gift of an understanding heart.

He tells God he has this job of king, with so many different people, with so many different challenges - in his struggle to govern this vast people.

And God was pleased with his request and tells him, “You could have asked for a long life, for riches, for the death of your enemies, but because you asked for understanding, I’ll give you a heart so wise and understanding - that there has never been anyone like you - up till now, and after you - there will come no one - to equal you.”

I don’t have that treasure - there are a lot of people I just don’t understand - but I’d like to have that treasure - to be more understanding.

In today’s second reading from Romans - Paul talks about predestination and justification. Wouldn’t that be nice to have - to know that it’s automatic. When you die, you know you're automatically going to God. 

Predestination is a tricky theological issue that is very complicated to say the least.

I think, I sense, that the Catholic position is that salvation - redemption, being saved - is a two way street. It’s not all God. It’s not all us. It’s a we situation - a we deal - we work with God. It takes grace and effort. We’re not robots.  But we need help.  There’s freedom - there has to be that - otherwise why live and love - and interact with God and each other? Cooperation, communication, struggle, has to be in the mix. We know this from marriage and family for starters.  The other doesn’t have to love me. I don’t have to love the other - but when we do - and it works - then we experience heaven. It we don’t then it’s hell.

Yet, I am very grateful for the treasure of faith - and hope - and the gift of belief in Jesus Christ. I hope I’ll have that faith and hope till I  die and then wake up in the embrace of God after I die.

In today’s gospel we have these three specifics: the treasure hidden in the field, the pearl of great price, and the net that collects the good and the bad.

Every once and a while people discover treasures - stuff hidden - or put in a safe place and something happens on the way to the forum and their treasure remains in a cellar closet or buried in bottom drawer or attic trunk ….

The Dead Sea Scrolls were in some caves - hidden there for some 2000 years. They were found in 1947.  The Nag Hammadi texts were found in Egypt in 1945 - from some offshoot Christian group in Upper Egypt.  What else is out there?  Scripture scholars hope - hope - that there is a text of Matthew in Aramaic - somewhere - if such a text exists.

So people have treasures - jewelry, or pearls, or what have you - that they treasure.  Sometimes in cleaning a house or disposing of stuff - people net some great treasures - in garage sales, antique road shows or what have you.

What treasures do you have? Go figure and go talk to each other.

MY PERSONAL STORY

I’ve told this story before, but let me talk a tiny bit about my greatest treasure. 

Around 1970 - when my dad was dying of emphysema - I sat down with him and wrote out about 50 pages of  notes - about his childhood in Ireland, his family, his coming to America, to Boston, Portland Maine, Philadelphia, New York City. I got it all and those are precious scriptures. I gave them to my youngest niece, Maryna, and they are in a box in storage someplace in New Jersey.

In 1987 I got the idea to tape my mom - on a small tape recorder. It was just the two of us. So I asked her all the same kinds of questions - her childhood in Ireland, her coming to America, Boston, the name of the boat, her jobs before she came down to Brooklyn to get married to my dad, and all that.

After 45 minutes she said, “The moo is out of me!” Translation: enough I tired of all this thinking and talking. Then she said: next time we’ll get the rest of the story.

Sorry to say she was killed in a hit and run accident two weeks later on the way to church and then work at the age of 82.

Well that tape is precious. I would get that if St. Mary’s went on fire.

I’ve listened to that tape about 10 times and I listened to it with my sister Mary for the first time for her lately. She didn’t want to listen to it till then.

We both laughed and cried - and loved the stories.

My sister said, “I didn’t know mom had an accent.”

Well when I asked myself - in homework - last night - what my greatest treasure is - I said, “That tape.”

I would not go bonkers if I lost it. It will probably be dumped when I die - unless I pass it off to one of my nieces.  It’s a thing - but what makes it a treasure is that it’s someone telling their story.

CONCLUSION

What is your greatest treasure?

Hopefully, we realize it’s each other. It’s another - because we know their story.

We’ve gone to Holy Communion with that person many times. We’ve gone down the aisle to receive them to eat them up - and as we received who they are,  we said, “Amen!”

July 30, 2017

NEXT TIME

  

Next time I’ll ask….

Next time I’ll laugh….

Next time I’ll try harder….

Next time I’ll hesitate ….

Next time I’ll say, “No!”

Next time I’ll say, “Yes!”

Next time I’ll read the directions….
Next time I’ll leave a message….

Next time I’ll take a wall seat ….

Next time I’ll turn the TV off….

Next time I’ll get more sleep ….

Next time I’ll ask if I have a vote ….

Next time I’ll find out, “Who’s who?”

Next time I’ll walk….

Next time I’ll pick up the bill….

Next time I’ll ask if there is a next time….

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

July 29, 2017

BELLS

Do you have any bells ringing

and they send their sound through your windows from a nearby church?

Listen! 

Maybe you do 

and you don't hear them.

Do you have any prayers

coming in your windows

from a nearby church or person?

Listen! 

Maybe they are sounding 

or praying for you and you don't hear them.

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

HOME  AGAIN 

Do we have to go home again

to figure out why we left home

in the first place? Distance does

make the heart grow fonder as

well as make the mind go wander.

Sometimes we have to see another

doing what we did, in order to see

what we did in the first place. Life….

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Scenes from the movie, Brooklyn

BACK  TO  SCHOOL: 

DANTE ALGHIERI 

Have you read Dante's Inferno, Purgatorio and Paradiso?

Before you die - before the Divine Comedy is over or begins, before you enter  Paradiso (Please God, please!) read Dante and see how close he was to how we pictured the hereafter.

Here are a few YouTube presentations on Dante. Go  through the lectures etc. before you read his Divine Comedy.

BACK TO SCHOOL: 

HIERONYMUS  BOSCH 

Once one looks at the paintings of Hieronymus Bosch, we sort of can't forget them. They are tattooed onto one's memory.  

That happened to me.  

When I had the chance to visit Vienna, Austria in 1984, I had on my list of "Must See!" a museum that had some of the paintings of Bosch. "Woo!"  was my reaction.

Then when I was in  Bruges, Belgium, I saw some more of Bosch. Once more I thought, "Woo" and "Woe!"

The following are some talks and some stuff on Bosch. Visit these YouTube videos and find yourself in the middle of some fascinating imaginings. 

You can also find a lot more by going into Google and typing in "Hieronymus Bosch" - as well as, "YouTube Hieronymus Bosch".

July 28, 2017

DAILY   HELL

What was going on in the lives

of Hieronymus Bosch and Dante

Alghieri that they described their

daily life the way they did? Inferno!

My life:  not a golf course of horrors

like Bosch’s canvasses of naked

people jabbing people with spears and

gigantic knives cutting people in half.

Nor like a dark wood - in a midlife

crisis - like Dante’s journey through

an Inferno in the nine circles of hell,

navigating its hills and horrors.*

Daily hell? Of course there are everyday

problems like the crush and rush of

traffic jams - but there are also ice cream

cones on a hot summer night: Paradiso.

So Dante and Bosch - you’re a bit too much.

But Dante and Bosch - when I read your words

and look at your pictures, I’d have to admit,

I want heaven and to be far from hell. Amen.

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017
*"Nel mezzo del cammin di nostra vita."

Dante [c. 1265-1321]
Great Nose

Dante listening to Dante

with his ear buds....

JULY  27, 2017

MORE THAN WORDS

Talking to each other is much

more than words. Sometimes

the other hears our tone, our

volume, and hesitations and

our pauses - and what we are

not saying. Words, words ….

It’s so much more than simply

saying, “I’m listening. I’m here.
I love you. How are you today?”

  

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

July 26, 2017

DADDY’S  CHAIR 

My dad made this chair.

I don’t know who painted it last,

but my dad made this chair.

It was down our cellar in Brooklyn

all through our childhood and it

was perfect for our game, “Who’s king!”

He made it from wood he found

on the beach near the 69^th Street pier

at the water of  Brooklyn’s Narrows.

My sister told me later on in life

what I never knew all through his life,

“Oh yeah, daddy  made that chair.”

And it’s taken me a lifetime to realize

he made me as well. So dad, king,

sit down and tell me what else you made. 

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017