INTRODUCTION
The title of my homily for this 11th Monday in Ordinary time
is, “Going the Extra Mile.”
We’ve all heard that phrase from time to time.
I’m underlining it in this short homily.
It comes from today’s gospel. It comes from the Sermon on the Mount,
when Jesus says, “Should
anyone press you into service for one mile, go with him for two miles.”
[Matthew 5:41]
William
Barclay in his commentary on Matthew gives evidence that in the time of Jesus -
foreign soldiers - whom one often met on the roads or towns of Palestine would be bossy and pushy - and push
people to do more than the pushed person would expect.
So
Jesus says, “Go the extra mile.”
POSITIVES OR
NEGATIVES?
The
benefits of going the extra mile is that it can make us better workers.
It can get us to give better service.
It can get us to work with a smile more than a scowl.
Of
course, it could also make us angry people - and set us up to being passive
aggressors.
We’ve
all seen fellow workers who do the minimum - and we’ve see co-workers who do
the maximum.
We’ve
probably noticed co-workers who go the extra mile - who go out of the way - to
help someone - and others criticize them for this - mostly because they are
thinking, “People will expect more from me - that I want to give.”
We’ve
all been impressed with a store worker who sees us coming into the store just
as it’s closing and they say, “How can I help you?” instead of saying, “Sorry.
We’re closing.”
When
I drive back from my sister’s in Doylestown, PA. I often hit the DQ on Route
896 - near Middletown, Delaware - just as it’s closing and every time they are
wonderful. Not only do they let me get into the bathroom - but they let me get
my Sugarless Dilly Bar.
I
know a couple who longed for their last kid to move out. She finally did, but
their other daughter, with 2 little kids moved in - right at that moment. Her husband
took off without her.
THERE ARE TWO KINDS
OF PEOPLE
There
are two kinds of people: the minimalist and the maximalist.
Every
kid in every school knows which teacher, which coach, which janitor, is a
minimalist - does as little as possible - and which is a maximalist.
I
remember an English teacher who took forever to mark our tests - and all that
was on the back was an A, B, C or D. That’s it. That’s all.
I
remember an English teacher who had our tests back within 2 weeks, and they
were covered with red. This teacher put
in suggestions - suggestions about words. Make shorter sentences. Use more
familiar words.
I’ve
heard teachers say they love tests than can be marked that much easier and they
hate essay questions. I’ve heard teachers say they love essay questions,
because they really help kids learn better to express themselves.
I
love waiters and waitresses who double check 3 times at a meal, if we want
water - because I always get just water. I like it when they pause to see where
the boss is - and they tell us not to
get something.
CONCLUSION
The
title and theme of this homily is, “Going the Extra Mile.”
Go
for it.
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