Tuesday, December 13, 2016


CHANGING  MY  MIND

 INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 3rd Tuesday in Advent is, “Changing My Mind.”

It’s a great gift be able to change our mind.

It might get others angry.  Or it might make others happy - especially when we benefit from another’s change of mind or heart. It intrigues us. It gets us to wonder.

TODAY’S GOSPEL

In today’s gospel - Matthew 21: 28-32 - we have two sons. One says to his father, when asked to go out and work in his vineyard, “I will not!” But Jesus says that this son changes his mind and goes out and starts working.

The other says to his dad, “Yes, sir!” but he doesn’t go out and work in the vineyard.

I’ve wondered at times - what got Jesus to say this. What did he notice? What’s the backstory?

Did it come out of watching the public yes men - the chief priests and the elders - that  they didn’t seem to be down deep in their hearts doing what God wants? Then those who say, “No” to God - the tax collectors and prostitutes - the so called “bad people” - the people labeled “sinners” changed their minds and then go and do God’s will.

That’s seems to have been Jesus experience.

Take Matthew - a tax collector - who rips people off - let’s go of his gains - throws a party for Jesus and then follows Jesus.

So that’s one possible experience of Jesus Christ.

YOU GOTTA LAUGH - YOU GOTTA BE FLEXIBLE

When it comes to this experience of people changing their minds, there are all kinds of humor in many life situations.

I’m not married - but I’ve seen scenes of TV - as well as the movies - where a wife asks a husband, “Does this dress look good?” He says, “Beautiful.” Then she comes out with another outfit on. “How does this one look?” Once more he says, “Beautiful!”  Once more she comes out with something else. “Beautiful.”  Then we see them going out for a Christmas party and she has some other outfit on. 

People change. People change their outfits and change their minds.

This gets us to laugh, wonder, scratch our heads, as well as talk to each other or about each other.

This can give us pause for patience.

I’ve remember hearing 2 priests arguing about something.

The next morning I hear one of them in the same argument with someone else, but this time they are on the side of the person they were arguing with the night before.

You have to laugh.

And isn’t prayer often asking God to change his mind?

In the meanwhile we get frustrated - especially when someone can’t see what we see - and won’t change their minds.

CONCLUSION

The title of my homily is, “Changing My Mind.”


You gotta laugh

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