October 15, 2022
Thought for Today
"Prayer is the mortar that holds my house together."
St. Teresa of Avila
October 14, 2022
Reflection
SIGNIFICANT OR SUCCESSFUL
On Oprah today, there was a guy named Holden on her program. He is a psychologist who has a book out on happiness. He said what an undertaker had just said: "It's more important to be significant that to be successful." [August 23, 2007]
Significant or successful?
Success: there is a need to reflect upon that.
For example: to raise a successful family? To have a successful job? To have a successful season?
I suppose the key is to do one's best - to serve and to love - and if one has a kid who chooses otherwise and messes up - one still one's best.
As to baseball and football only one team wins the World Series - or the Superbowl - so how does a team measure a successful season? To have broken even or made money? To provide good games - and great plays on the field. To have had fun and enjoyed their jobs?
Success? Define it? Describe it?
Significant seems the more successful word - when it comes to comparing words.
But what is significant?
It seems significant is more significant than successful.
To be able to sign one's name to one's painting or work.
To have made a difference.
To be a sign to others.
I'm not trying to be smart - but the sign of the cross is the sign of a failure - or is it the sign of resurrection and the secret of life?
To die for others.
To be a sign for others.
To lay down one's life for others - for a right cause.
Is that the ultimate success and the more ultimate significance?
October 13, 2022
Reflections
MARY
The other day a lady was talking to me about this blog.
She said she liked the things I said about Mary the best.
There's a message there.
However, I couldn't recall anything I said about Mary.
Honestly....
Various people who come here to church in Annapolis, Maryland, come on Wednesday - because that's the day we have some special novena prayers to Mary. We honor her here under the title of OLPH - Our Lady of Perpetual Help.
Wednesday is the traditional day for Mary in the Philippines - Brazil - and India. Growing up in Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church in Brooklyn. New York I saw this all through my childhood. When I went to the seminary I heard about the same thing happening on Wednesdays in Mission Church in Roxbury, Boston, Massachusetts.
There's a message here.
Question: what does Mary touch in the human heart?
For starters I'd have to say, "Momma".
I would have to remember every time I stood there seeing a mother with a child in her arms. Whenever I would say, "Hi" to the kid - if I was a total stranger - the child would turn their face from mine and bury it in their mother's embrace.
There's a message here.
I would have to say that everyone has a deep desire to always want to return to their mother's womb.
Isn't that why we say in the ancient Mary prayer, the Hail Mary, "blessed is the fruit of thy womb, Jesus"?
We all want down deep: peace and security.
I don't get it when Protestants protest about how Catholics honor the Mother of Jesus.
I've heard people say, "We're making her God."
Nope.
I think the complaint should be against the dogma about Mary being called, "The Mother of God" - Theotokos - in Greek.
That decree from Ephesus is an ancient decree - way before the Protestant Reformation.
I suggest that Protestants should at least honor Mary as the Mother of Jesus - the Jesus you honor and love.
In the meanwhile - go to Ephesus - delve into the fight over the title of Mary as Mother of God.
Then people might grasp and understand, Part 2, of the Hail Mary prayer: "Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners, now and at the hour of our death. Amen."
In the meanwhile, if you don't accept the title of Mary as Mother of God, grab a rosary and say, Part 1 of the Hail Mary prayer: "Hail Mary, full of grace, the Lord is with you, blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb, Jesus."
October 12, 2022
Reflection
IS IT WORTH IT?
I was wondering if the question, "Is it worth it?" - is a good question to ask?
Is it the bottom line question in much of our decision making?
I don't remember ever asking that question specifically - in any of my decisions.
Yet, come to think about it, it's a good question. It's worth thinking about whether something is worth doing.
It's a value question.
It's an energy question.
It's a use of one's time question.
Is it worth getting out of bed this morning.
Is it worth marrying this person?
Is it worth it to become and then stay a priest.
Is it worth it?
The words "cost" and "time" and "life" appear in the background of this background question.
I'll have to re-read Dietrich Bonhoeffer's book, The Cost of Discipleship once again.
Dietrich could have stayed in England a returned to Germany - but he must have decided it was worth it.
Jesus made promises or reward to those who would leave all to follow him. He must have been aware of the question, "Is it worth it?"
Did Jesus have to make the decision in the first place - whether to become human and whether to follow the way to Jerusalem?
In the garden, was he asking the question, "Is is worth it?"
At the end of our life, seeing everything, hopefully we'll say, "It was worth it."
Isn't that "Yes" the secret of happiness?"