Tuesday, December 11, 2018

December 13, 2018


MERRY  GO  ROUND

Looking back, I’ve never seen an
unhappy face on a merry-go-round.

Yet, so much of life is repeated
sounds, words, motions, illusions,
in and out of cars, the opening and
closing of doors and jars and boxes.

Looking back I’ve seen unhappy
faces in churches and on their jobs.

Maybe seeing life as a merry-go-round
might be a metaphor for having to do
life  - listening to the music, enjoying
life and seeing the circle of life together.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018










December 13, 2018 



Thought for today: 

“When asked by an anthropologist what the Indians called America before the white man came, an Indian said simply, ‘Ours,’” 


Vine Deloria, Jr.

December 12, 2018


FREEDOM

Freedom at 13 is so much different
than freedom at 33  - but the real live
freedom we all long for should be 
happening by 73 or 83 - when we have no 
fear of  heaven or hell - when we put the
rest of our life in God's pottering hands -
and we start to really enjoy looking back
at all our wonderful memories and roads
and we're ready for what's yet to come -
and here we come - ready or not. Amen.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018



December 12, 2018 


Thought for today: 

Be yourself is the worst advice you can give to some people.”  


Tom  Masson



COMFORT


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Second Tuesday in Advent is “Comfort.”

Today’s first reading from Isaiah begins with the word  “comfort” and with that theme: “Comfort, give comfort to my people.”

THE COMFORTER

Growing up we had this neat big down - light brown - blanket - which was called, “The comforter.”

After the radiator, It was the most important thing in the living room - from  December till March.

First come, first serve, unless my older brother could grab and steal it from us. It was one of a kind - and hung around our living room on the couch - rarely folded - because everyone wanted it and used it all the time.

There were also two big dull yellow white wool blankets that were second choices. Besides that they were itchy - but on a cold evening - they were a good choice. We’d be there with the radio on. This was before TV - black and white TV.

PROVIDING COMFORT FOR OTHERS

Providing comfort for others is a specific - non-verbal - act of charity.

Isn’t it neat to see an airline steward or stewardess providing blankets to folks - after 11 PM - 30,000 feet up - even tucking a dark blue blanket on an old man or old lady in the night?

So too in nursing homes or for  babies in carriages - on cold winter days.

So too hot chocolate in winter or ice cream on summer nights.

Isaiah is saying, “Comfort, give comfort to my people.”

I wonder if the concentration camp bullies - and killers - at Auschwitz - and Buchenwald - never had  parents and grandparents - or families who provided comfort to each other when they were growing up.

How could they make life so horrible for the Jews, the gays, the misfits - made to sleep on wood slats in the concentration camps.

BENCHES HERE AT ST.  JOHN  NEUMANN

The benches at St. Mary’s are rather uncomfortable.  The pillows here at St. John Neumann have improved. The pillows you’re on now don’t have buttons on them like the ones that we just replaced

Speaking of benches and uncomfortable chairs, I’m waiting for airlines to provide more chair room - rather than less - bigger bathrooms - and then using  those two factors in advertising for that airline.  “Our seats have 37.6 % more seat room than any other airline.”  “Our bathrooms - you can’t take a shower in them - but they have 42.6% more comfort room than any other bathroom in any other airline.”

TODAY’S GOSPEL - THE LOST SHEEP

Think of the lost sheep in today’s gospel. That lost sheep was the 1 in 99 - who has disappeared - and the Good Shepherd - leaves the 99 and goes in search of his lost sheep.

I notice Father Tiz has several doggie blankets for Wilbur.  I don’t know if Wilbur his pug appreciates that TLC - more than treats  - but I would sense that the dog or cat owner - who takes good care of their pets - that that care carries over to how they see homeless and people in the cold.

I hope that carries over to providing hot chocolate in cold weather and oreos and chocolate chip cookies - year round.

CONCLUSION

My theme has been comfort. I talked mainly about human everyday comforts - but hopefully in doing them for each other, they will  carry over to doing more comforting and caring of each other.

December 11, 2018


BELLS

Bells ringing….  Phones ringing ….
Someone wants someone ….
Or sometimes it’s church bells and
someone has been called to a new life -
please God - heaven -  on the other side
of this life - and sometimes their voice -
remains on someone’s phone - heaven ….
sometimes for a long, long, long, time….
Reverberations can last a long, long time.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2018


December 11, 2018 

Thought for today: 

“Sometimes I think just not thinking of oneself is a form of prayer.”  


Barbara Grizzuti Harrison