Sunday, October 22, 2017

October 22, 2017




UNLESS YOU BECOME 
LIKE LITTLE CHILDREN 

And God just happened
to spot a little kid with crayons ....

And God just happened
to say, "Let me give it a try ...."

And God just happened
to hear from us, "It is good...."

© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017

Saturday, October 21, 2017

October 21, 2017


RE  WORDS

R is back there - near the back
of our  dictionary - but at some
point these R words need to be
considered and then reconsidered.

Regrets: take regrets - name 5.
Resentments:  scratch any anger....
Revolution:  start at least one.
Resurrection:  come back when dead.

Want  a few more RE’s for re-evaluation?
How about: reconciliation, re-open, renew,
reconnect, re-read, realize, recall, rearrange,
recommit, respect, reverence, and rejoice.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017


Friday, October 20, 2017

October 20, 2017

BROKEN

“Uh oh!”
A mom hears her 3 year old
blurt out from the other room.

“Uh oh!”
she says as she heads from the
kitchen to the living room.

Her darling daughter is standing there
about to cry  - with a doll’s leg in one hand
and the rest of the doll in her other hand.

How old are we when we finally learn
how to handle the broken: toy, dish,
parent, relationship, marriage, child?

When do we learn what’s the right word,
glue, trick, attitude, skill  - to know how to
fix a broken expectation or broken heart?



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017


Thursday, October 19, 2017

October 19, 2017




NOT  SHAME,  LOVE  


She blamed me for trying to shame her -
into loving her parents - whom sorry
to say - she dumped a while back there.
Okay,  there are reasons for everything.

Blaming me quieted me. It shut me up.
I didn’t want to make things worse.
This most basic human connection -
father and daughter - can earthquake.

It’s as basic as saliva in the mouth,
no matter how you try to spit someone
out of your life. I just wanted to say, “Please
recover. We all have only so much time.”

I love you enough right now to say all this.
I just don’t want to see you bent over at
their graves - feeling ugly that we died
without forgiving and loving one another.

Get under a cross and pray, “Father forgive
us because we don’t know what we’re doing.”
Who’s right? Who’s wrong? Who cares?
There’s always 7 stories in every story.

I hope each of you hears this and says,
“At least 7 stories! Please forgive me!”
Every parent-child story needs to be
resolved with love - not shame - not blame. Amen.


© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017


Wednesday, October 18, 2017

October 18, 2017


THERE’S  ALWAYS  MORE 


There’s always a lot more.
Go ahead take that last piece
of apple pie. There’s another one
in the kitchen - and if there isn’t,
we have some chunky chocolate
chip cookies in the bottom drawer.

There’s always a lot more.
You’re never getting my all.
There’s another story in the
kitchen - and if I forget that one,
there is always the story I never
told you. It’s in my bottom drawer.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017



Tuesday, October 17, 2017


PAUL’S  LETTER TO THE ROMANS


INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Paul’s Letter to the Romans.”

We began hearing the opening words of Romans yesterday - but I didn’t say anything about it - because it was the feast of St. Gerard. Today however, I simply want to give a few opening comments about Paul’s Letter to Romans in general because we’ll have it more or less for 4 weeks - October 15 till November 11th - as our first reading.

It is not used when we have the feasts of St. Luke and the apostles Simon and Jude - as well as All Saints Day - but we can use a segment for All Soul’s Day.

ROMANS' GREAT THEME

The great theme of Romans is that Jesus Christ saves us. We don’t do it by  keeping the Law - or by what we do - by our works -  even though they are important - but we are saved by Jesus Christ.

Jesus is the one who knocked Paul on his face on the road to Damascus.

Jesus is the one who Paul was persecuting - in going after the Christians.

Jesus is the one who challenges Paul to conversion and to change.

Human beings try to save themselves by getting circumcised, keeping the Law and the calendar feasts of Judaism, but Paul found out in a dramactic way - we can be saved - not by ourselves - but by faith in Jesus Christ.

By hearing Romans we’ll hear various other nuances of that theme - but we better hear, understand and accept this theme loud and clear.

Like this is one big room - and the most important person in this room - is Jesus Christ.

ROMANS

Different folks date the Letter to the Romans at different times. I like Joseph Fitzmyer, S.J.’s date of 57-58.

He has just about finished his work in eastern part of the Mediterranean - and now he’s heading West - for Rome and Spain.

Part of the Appian Way to Rome

He has not been to Rome yet - where he will die.

Fitzmyer didn’t think Peter was there yet - but he too will die there.

He doesn’t know any of the people in Rome - but we’ll hear about 30 names in the last chapter of Romans - 16.

Paul is thought to be the author of Romans  - with some questions about the last chapter.

COMMENTARIES AND USED BY

The Letter to the Romans is a must read for Christians.

Joseph Fitzmyer in his comments about Romans in the New Jerusalem Biblical Commentary says, “Romans has affected later Christian theology, more than any other New Testament book.” [page 832]

Early Christian writers like Clement, Ignatius of Antioch [whose feast we celebrate today], Polycarp and Justin all use him. We can keep on adding names to that list.

Then there are the commentaries by  Calvin,  Luther, Barth, Rahner and various others,

CONCLUSION


So don’t just sit back and listen to Romans at Daily Mass in the next 4 weeks. Pray with key thoughts about life in and with Jesus. Hear Paul tell about the struggles we all go through - with Jesus there to help and save us. Amen. 
October 17, 2017




NOT EVERY YEAR IS THE SAME

“Sometimes you have a year
when everything changes.”

She told me that a lady she works
with said that - and it got her thinking.

It got me thinking, so I wrote it down:
“Sometimes you have a year
when everything changes.”

For her it was this year: two marriages,
a graduation, and a 60th Birthday.

For me, well now I have to do my
homework - and figure out my years.
Now I have to do some deep thinking.



© Andy Costello, Reflections  2017