Sunday, May 22, 2016

May 22, 2016

TRINITY SUNDAY PRAYER


          Lord, why are we so stiff necked,
          so stuck, as if our lives
          were carved in stone,
          concentrating only on the Ten Commandments,
          missing you in the ten thousand moments of every day,
          when you fill us with your grace and mercy,
          when you surround us
          as in a cloud of kindness and fidelity.

          Spirit, help us to mend our ways;
          help us to encourage one another. 
          You are a God of love and peace,
          always willing to be with us
          in our fellowship with each other.   
          Help us to live in harmony and peace,
          always meeting and greeting each other
          in your holy Kiss of Peace.

          Jesus, you showed us
          how much God so loved the world
          in sending you, the Only Son,
          always telling us that
          we don’t have to live and die in fear
          of condemnation, but that we can
          be saved by your name, Jesus

          You are our Eternal Life! Amen.
May 21, 2016


HEALING PRAYER


          Lord, I come now to pray
          for all those I have hurt
          down through the years.

          Down through the years
          there are those I have talked
          about behind their back
          and hurt their reputation.

                    Lord have mercy.

          Down through the years
          there are those I have lead
          into temptation -- temptations
          to anger and to lust
          and a long list of other sins.
         
                    Christ have mercy.

          Down through the years
          there are those I have walked by:
          the hungry and the hurting,
          the lonely and the strange.

                    Lord have mercy.

          Lord, I come now to pray
          for all those I have hurt
          down through the years,

          down through the years.

Friday, May 20, 2016

May 20, 2016

GRADUATION  FROM  CLUMSY 

Yes, he tripped a bit more than
other kids - he spilled his milk -
dropped his books - and he didn’t
do too well when playing catch 
with his dad in the backyard.

But, if his dad was disappointed,
he didn’t show it, so his son
didn’t know it - that is, till he got
into school - and that’s where he
got the nickname: “Clumsy!”

Yes, he hated it. He hated being
called, “Clumsy!” and it followed
him all through ES, MS and HS.
Bummer. Bummer. Bummer!
Who’d like to be called, “Clumsy”?

So when he graduated - no, he didn’t
trip on his way up to receive his HS
diploma - but yes, he chose a small,
small college, far, far away - with hopes
nobody would know him - as “Clumsy”!  



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Thursday, May 19, 2016

May 19, 2016
GRIPES

Beware! It’s hard not to have some gripes -
the itch of strange behaviors - oddities  -
in others - that annoy us - that bother us.

Beware! They can grab us - they can
grip  us - they can crush us. They can be 
like a vise - squeezing us from both sides.

But, the worst beware - is not to be aware -
of our selfish  stuff - the sandpaper stuff -
that rubs odd grievances and gripes in others.





© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Wednesday, May 18, 2016

May 18, 2016

WONDERINGS ….

  • Best moment of my life so far?
  • If I could design my own flag, what would it look like? Draw it….
  • As I get older, do I find myself saying, “I don’t know about that….” a lot more than when I was younger?
  • How do swans keep so white?
  • How do black birds stay so beautifully bluish black - especially in the rain?
  • When they moved from solid rubber tires to ones filled with air, were people nervous?
  • Can people over 55 change?
  • How about 45?
  • Can I change?
  • Tell another - describe to another - with specific details - one change I made in my life?
  • Does it take a cross to get God across to people?
  • Or does cancer and death create atheists?
  • Is there anything on the other side of all this?
  • Why do some ballpoint pens seem to last forever and some don’t?
  • Which is the most important ingredient for a great meal: food, people, place, other _____________?
  • Is the most important moment in life that moment of hesitation before wondering whether to tell a lie or some gossip or to hurt someone with a comment or to cheat?
  • Why does negative political campaigning seem to work better than clear platform planks for the common good of all?
  • Tell another about someone whom I was amazed with?  Because ….
  • Are zoos for people or for the animals - and do animals mind?
  • Treats seem to be the secret in keeping pets happy; how about people?
  • Do we always have to have flaws - things going wrong - some ugly stuff in every heart and every basement - and the possibility of selfishness always waiting in the wings?
  • Has anyone ever really written down their hoped for legacy before they died? Have I?
  • Is prayer more speaking to God or listening in silence to God - that is, if we believe God communicates values?
  • What do toll collectors think about when all alone on bridges, tunnels and toll roads - besides worries about losing their jobs because of  E-ZPass?
  • Does everyone have at least 3 life changing moments?
  • Does everyone have at least 3 wonderings?

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Tuesday, May 17, 2016


I  WANT  WHAT  I  WANT 
WHEN  I  WANT  IT 

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this 7th Tuesday in Ordinary Time is, “I Want What I Want When I Want It.”

Don’t we all?

Well, it all depends.

I read that it’s the addict’s creed.

It’s everyone’s need when someone does something we don’t like or they don’t do what we want them to do. Like, for example,  - pick up their dog remains and we step in it. Or, for example, - they walk down the main aisle in the middle of a sermon and the whole church is watching them - including the preacher.

Smile.

TODAY’S READINGS

When I got the idea for this homily from today’s two readings.

James is telling us in the first reading where wars and conflicts come from.

They come from right here [Point to the heart and head]. Right inside this me that I am.  We covet. We envy. We’re jealous.  We want.

We want what we want when we want it.

In today’s  gospel, Mark 9:30-37 -  the disciples are fighting on who is the greatest.

They don’t want to hear that this Jesus enterprise brings on the cross - the dying to self - the rising, the resurrection for others.

The call is not to be served, but to serve.

The gospel tells us about little children. They are all surprise. They are out of our control. They need service. They need attention. They need us. Talk about wanting what they want when they want it. Think of children.

So too dogs.  “I want a treat! Woof. Woof.”

DESIRE

Buddhism is not the only religion that gets at desire.

Jesus challenges us to get in touch with what we want.

Blessed are you when you hunger and thirst….

We could also add, “Feeling angry - when you hunger and thirst.

So once again, it all depends.

What we want is what we want: our will.

My will be done - on earth as it is in heaven.

This is everyday stuff.

I hate it to go to a restaurant or anywhere with another - or be in the other seat in the car - and the other is going crazy - with the line - with the waiting - with the traffic.

Where’s the waiter!  I want what I want when I want it.

I love the cartoon that says, “You want it when?”

Xerox that one. E-mail it to yourself. Hang it on your mirror. Magnet it to your refrigerator door.

On the NBC evening news  with Lester Holt they have been featuring the long lines at airports to get screened. In Chicago the line and the wait can be 3 to 4 hours and many are missing their flights.

Talk about terroism.  This started big time with 9 - 11 and we have been dealing with the after shocks ever since.

I don’t know about you. I am waiting for the tipping point and figure out new ways of dealing with all the  craziness of the human heart.  You want that? When?

When I drive through those wide overhead E-ZPass go throughs  - that can register 3 cars at once - I wonder if  airports will come up with a massive bomb sniffing xRay machine - that a crowd can walk through all at once.

THREE QUOTES

Listen to what James says again - but this time in the first chapter of James, “Let patience have her perfect work, that you may be perfect and entire, wanting nothing.  If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God.” James 1:4-5

Anwar Sadat said,  “Most people seek after what do not possess and are thus enslaved by the very things they want to acquire.” 

Logan Pearsall Smith wrote, “There are two things to aim at in life: first to get what you want; and after that to enjoy it. Only the wisest of mankind achieve the second.”

I would add a third:  The really wise learn how to deal well with not getting what one wants.

I remember hearing the Jesuit psychiatrist and priest, James Gill telling about a heart [or was it a stress specialist?]  in California who urges Type A people to do the following spiritual practice of how to deal the stress of long lines. 

I have done this ever since.

It’s a simple trick. When you see 3 lines in a bank or supermarket, always pick the longest line. Then when you get up to the front, jump off the line and once more pick the longest line. I’ve been doing this in Giant - Office Depot - wherever - ever since - even toll booths.

I'm not a Type A person - but if one is - an added practice is to try to recall your high school classmates by name while standing or waiting on long lines - or the capitals of all the states in the U.S. or whatever.

CONCLUSION

The thought for the day is patience.

Key game plan would be patience;

Key ways of being patient: the ability to laugh - the ability to wait - the ability to get there very early and close your eyes as you move up on the line - and if you really want to confuse others - go back and start again - on the longest line.
May 17, 2016

AT EVERY WEDDING

At every wedding,
every woman present
is seeing her life walking
down the aisle; 
at every wedding 
every man - well
at least 53.6 % of the all
the men who are present -

are still wondering
what it’s all about.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016