Saturday, January 9, 2016

January 9, 2016



PICTURES

Show me your pictures and
you’ll tell me who you are.

And out came wallets and
out came cellphones and
you showed me all those
pictures - all those stopped 
moments - glimpses into you
and the people in your life.

Show me your pictures and
you’ll tell me who you are.


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016

Friday, January 8, 2016



SKIN DEEP

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily for this Friday after the feast of the Epiphany  is, “Skin Deep.”

In today’s gospel Jesus touches the hand, the skin, of a someone with a skin disease. 

In Jesus’ times many skin diseases - “uneasies” with other’s skin - were called leprosy.  Most of the Bible commentaries say the skin disease of leprosy or Hansen’s disease - was not what these folks in the Bible had.

Whatever….

Whatever! People are scared of skin diseases in  our times as well as in Jesus’ time …..

What I like is that Jesus’ touched skin - pressed the flesh. He washed feet and let his feet be washed.

Without rubber gloves….

Of course we can catch stuff by touching stuff and touching skin. In every hospital there are dispensers everywhere to squirt away germs. They didn’t know about germs and microbes in Jesus’ time - like we know today - but they had inklings.

SKIN PROBLEMS

As we all know there are multiple skin problems - skin cancer, lupus, measles, acne, eczema, rosacea, cysts, cellulites, shingles, psoriasis, rashes, cold sores, what have you.

Many of us saw Mikhail Gorbachev’s birth mark - called a Port Wine birthmark or “nevus frameus”.

In our time there has developed a field in psychology called, “psychodermatology”. In looking up stuff on this for this homily I read an interesting story.  In a conference on skin - someone said there is no connection between skin and the emotions.  A person who said there was a connection said the speaker said that while his fly was open. The guy turned red - checked his fly - but not his face - which had become red. It wasn’t true about his zipper, but it proved the point - that our skin is effected by our emotions. We scratch, we itch, we bite our skin. When I’m nervous - like in traffic,  I scratch my neck and my skull.

JESUS IS A MODEL

Jesus models how to treat one another - no matter how we look - no matter how our skin is - no matter how old and how wrinkled we are.

I assume that means how we treat others - and how we treat ourselves.

I assume that means how we see ourselves in the mirror.

I assume this means how we reflect on issues of esteem of self and others.

PIZZA - LIMA

I enjoy telling the story about how I once had to undergo a skin treatment to deal with pre-cancerous skin on my face and my upper neck and shoulders.

The skin doctor had me apply this white cream to my face and neck for a month. I did and my face became red and speckled like a pizza. I was on the road and preaching at the time - so the dermatologist suggested I do this when work was slow. 

I was preaching in other parishes - mainly around Lima, Ohio at the time.

So there I was hearing confessions in the dark - on a Saturday afternoon.

Nobody went face to face - but they could. Then the last person was a lady who went to confession. She sat there 5 feet away in the semi-darkness - making her confession face to face. She didn’t look up but at the end as I said, “Go in peace” she reached out her hand and shook mine in peace - but when she saw my face for the first time she panicked.

Ooops, she didn’t know what to. She then took her hands and rubbed them on the side of her hip - as she walked out.

At that instant I knew what it might feel like to be a person with leprosy.

CONCLUSION

I’ve read in Biblical Commentaries that some New Testament writers are implying that Jesus was the most figured person of all time - the ultimate leper - and the call is to reach out for him - more than skin deep.


If you have ever seen the picture St. Alphonsus did of Christ on the Cross, you’d get the message - seeing Christ on the cross - much worse than the clean Christ on the cross up here. Amen.
January 8, 2016


CHAIRS

Guess they started with rocks
and tree trunks - then cushions....
“Wait, instead of walking further
down forest trails, let’s sit and talk.
Let’s finish the story?" ["Or argument?”] 
Guess chairs improved once people 
settled down - and stopped being 
migrants. Chairs! Chairs! Chairs! Sit down 
and tell me all your stories - all you 
heard late and deep into the dark night.



© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
January 7, 2016

DYSTOPIA

Last week I spotted a word I had never 
seen or heard before: “dystopia”.

It’s hell! It’s a place of depression.

The dictionary says it’s an imaginary
place. They got to be kidding. I’ve met
people who live in Dystopia. I don’t
know its zip code - but I suspect from
listening to them it can be anywhere.

Thinking about it. I rather live in
Utopia, even if its imaginary. It's
the Kingdom of God. It's Heaven.
It's the dream of Jesus for all of us.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
Painting on top by  Eleanor Buffan,
from Hell Paintings, a Series
of Paintings of Tortured Souls.
January 6, 2016

SIDEWAYS TALKING

Lately, I’ve noticed much of
our talking is sideways - so
little eye to eye, face to face,
connecting. We're making  
just comment jabs, at least 
it seems that way. We're 
speaking words that seem to
be sliding by - bye, bye, bye.
Wait a minute - that comment
you made the other day really
cut me. It stuck right in my
middle - right in my gut. And
sorry to say, it seems, better,
worse, 
I think that’s what you
intended to do to me - but sideways - 
on the sly. Come on now, 
let’s talk face to face, eye to eye.

© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016
January 5, 2016

WEAVING

Weaving … patterns … daily living ...
when  will I see what I’m really saying,
what I’m really doing? When will
I know what’s really going on with me,
with others? I guess stopping, stepping
back, taking a walk, discovering distance
is the secret. Looking at my tapestry
and screaming, “Artist!” - “Artist!”
is the step I have to take this year.


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2016
January 4, 2016

RETURNING

At what age do we realize
we’ve been here before?
I’ve told this story before….
I’ve been in this situation before….
I’ve been rejected for this same thing before….
I've made this same mistake before....
Oh my God, life is filled with these over 
and over again repeat performances….
“Life is déjà vu all over again.”
Didn’t Yogi Berra say that before?
Didn’t he say everything before?
Am I repeating everyone before me?
Thanks mom. Thanks dad. 

Thanks Yogi. Thanks everyone!


© Andy Costello, Reflections 2016