Wednesday, August 12, 2015

August 12, 2015

ECHO

She was an echo - repeating whatever
others were saying. I didn’t notice that
at first - but once I did, I began to ask,
“When did I begin to find my own voice?
When did my uniqueness arrive, the reason
I was put on this planet?” I think it was in my
first year of high school when I saw a teacher
having favorites - and I wasn’t one of them.
I guess I’m a slow learner because it wasn’t 
till my thirties that my mind moved from spotting the negatives to the positives. 
I was backpacking with three other guys  
in the White Mountains of New Hampshire 
and I said out loud, “This is one great way
to have a great vacation - talking, laughing,
climbing - discovering the great unknown.”


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015

Tuesday, August 11, 2015


UNABLE  TO  DEAL 
WITH  DEATH!

INTRODUCTION

One of life’s biggest  questions is death - the ability to deal with the reality of death.

We come now in the today’s first reading from Deuteronomy to the death of Moses - and his being replaced by Joshua.

THE BOOK OF LEGENDS - FROM THE TALMUD AND MIDRASH


A priest I know recommended many years ago that I buy a copy of The Book of Legends - Sefer Ha-Aggadah - subtitled, Legends from the Talmud and Midrash. It gives legends from way back - many before Christ - by rabbis and Jewish religious teachers.

So  I went searching for it - and finally found a copy in New York City in a Jewish book store on the upper West Side of Manhattan. It’s a big book. Its price:  $75,00.

I try to use it from time to time to get my money’s worth. So last night I looked up commentaries on this section of the Book of Deuteronomy - The Death of Moses - Chapter 5, # 137.

It begins this way: “And the Lord said unto Moses: ‘Behold thy days approach that thou must die’” (Deut. 31:14).

Moses does not like this message. He doesn’t want to die.

I remember reading Elizabeth Kubler Ross’s book on Death and Dying and how we deny death - of ourselves and others.

This section in The Book of Legends on the Death of Moses presents classic two steps in Kubler Ross’ 5 steps: Denial and Bargaining.

Let me present how this book puts what happened.

God says to Moses, “Behold your days approach that you must die.” 

Moses says, “Who me?”

Moses then draws a circle on the ground and steps into it. He says to God, “Master of the Universe “I will not budge from here till you void that decree.”

Then he says, “I’m putting no sackcloth, ashes and praying to you God that you don’t do this.”

“Sorry Moses, this is the way it works.”

Then Moses says, “After all you’ve done to create this world and after all I’ve done to save Israel, I know you won’t do this.”

God keeps saying, “Moses it’s going to happen.”

Then Moses says, “Let me become like the beasts of the fields - who eat grass and drink water, let me stay and be like them.”

“No.”

Then Moses says let me become a bird of the air and spend my time flying everywhere.

“No.”

Then he begs the stars,  then the mountains, then then the angels, to save him from death.”

“No.”

Then he says, “Okay Joshua is taking over, let me stay in his tent and be his advisor. He needs one.”  He adds, “People are going to envy him. Let me stay to prevent that.”

“No.”

Finally Moses accepts that he’s to die.

CONCLUSIONS

I talked about that section of the Book of Legends because it sounds like everyone’s story.

Here’s 3 quick points to consider.

1)   How am I thinking - when it comes to thoughts about my upcoming death.
2)   Lots of folks are scared of death, because of their sins - well today’s gospel has words from Jesus that God rejoices when a sinner who is like a lost sheep and they are found. They are more important than the 99 sheep who don’t need to repent.
3)   It’s the feast of St. Clare today. It’s a Franciscan tradition to call death, “Brother Death” and embrace him.


NOTES:

Painting on top: D, After the Funeral, original painting by Edity Dora Rey
August 11, 2015



MOMENTS


Looking back at life, 
we don't get to choose the moments
we remember. Sorry.






© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015
Painting on top: Alex Colville,
Soldier and Girl at Station, 1953

Monday, August 10, 2015


HAPPINESS? 
IT’S YOU, NOT ME!

INTRODUCTION

The title of my homily is, “Happiness? It’s You, Not Me!”

THE SECRET OF HAPPINESS

One of life’s ongoing questions is, “What’s the secret of happiness?”

It’s asked in various ways, “What’s the meaning of life?” or  “What have you learned so far?” or "What are you looking for?" or “What’s it all about Alfie?”

In Latin we were given a sentence from St. Thomas Aquinas - coming from his use of Aristotle. It is said to be a life sentence: “Omne agens agit propter finem.  Finem est bonum.” [1]

Translation: everything we do, we do for a purpose - and end in view - and basically every time that end is for a good.

Even when we do something bad, we think there is a good in it. It’s called an apparent good [bonum apparens].

Ooops. I don’t want to gum up my homily with some Latin stuff - that might sound complicated.

So in this homily I’m simply saying that the secret of life is to do everything for others and we will be happy.

Once more the title of my homily is, “Happiness? It’s You, Not Me!”

TODAY’S READINGS

That’s the message of today’s readings.

The first reading from Second Corinthians 9: 6-10 says God loves a cheerful giver.

It also says that the person who sows sparingty, won’t get that many tomatoes, potatoes, strawberries, watermelons or flowers.

The first reading also uses the word “abundant”. That triggers the thought that if we look around this world we’ll see how much abundance God has given.

Say to God, “What’s with all these stars?”  And I’d add, “Why isn’t there life on them all?” 

And God would probably say, “Turkey get on a glass bottom boat and take a look at all the fish in all the oceans of our world? Get a microscope and look at the life that surrounds you.”

I heard something like this on public radio a week ago. “One hair on your head can produce a million stem cells in about 2 weeks.”

“What?” I said, “Let me hear that again?” 

Well the radio doesn’t work like that, so I’ll keep looking for what that was about.  From another angle, it doesn’t matter, because nature offers many examples of incredible numbers once one starts looking into creation.

Today’s gospel repeats this same message about the more or less in giving and not giving.  The wheat seed sitting in a bag in a wharehouse is just a wheat seeds on a shelf. Plant those seeds. Close your eyes. Come back in a while and take a good  look at a field filled with wheat.

Jesus is saying, “If you try to hold onto your life and you don’t give, you’re going to end up hating your life.”

Give and you will live. Serve tables, wash feet, hold doors, listen instead of doing all the talking, give, give and give, and you’ll see happy faces including your own.

CONCLUSION

Today is the feast of St. Lawrence, the deacon who gave, gave, gave, served served, served - and was killed with that attitude in mind.

The legend is that he said when they were burning him to death, “Turn me over I’m done on this side.”


NOTES:

[1] St. Thomas Aquinas, Ethics of St. Thomas Auinas,  St. Ia IIas, Q. 25, A, 2,  "Omne agens agit propter finem aliquem, ut supra dictum est. Finis autem est bonum desideratum et amatum uncuique."
August 10, 2015

HARD DRIZZLE

As he shook off his umbrella and then closed the door - which took his shoulder and an effort to close, I asked him,
“What’s the weather like out there?”

“It’s a hard drizzle.”

I had never heard a weather report
like that one before. Interesting!

I stayed with that comment all day.

The two meetings I was at weren’t
that interesting anyway.

“What’s your life been like?”

Would anyone say, “It’s a hard drizzle”
or would someone say, "Blue sky sunshine"?





© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015
Painting, "White Umbrella" by
Andre Kohn


Sunday, August 9, 2015

August 9, 2015

CAN DO

How many times have we stood there
and asked someone, “Hey what can
I do to help around here?” Of course
we say that in some kind of group
setting - like before or after a meeting
when people are setting up tables or
chairs - or what have you. Well, the
secret of happiness is to make a list
of things we can do everyday like:

Listen to someone - like saying, “Wait a
minute, repeat what you just said. I find
that very interesting” and you mean it.

Thank someone - like saying, “I really
appreciate all you do around here -
especially the little things that I can’t do.
For example,...”

Ask people great questions like, “Dad
how do you want to be remembered?”
Or, “What was a movie that really moved
you?” Or a book you couldn’t put down?
Or a song you found yourself singing
when alone?” Or, “Who encouraged you?”

And then do what we can do!


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015
August 8, 2015

STEPS

Getting ready - those kicks while
in the womb - stretching those legs -
wanting out of there - out - up and away -
making our way in life - first crawling -
catching our breath - oooh the pain - oooh
the hurt of trying to stand tall - but falling -
till finally we accept reality - we’re human -
- we need help - then we want to get to
school - middle school - high school -
college graduate  - get a job - get married -
have kids - wanting to be there when they
take their first step - to see them grow,
as we go through the steps of life - retire -
enjoy - then at some point  being unable
to let go of the car keys - that’s a tough step -
then to take those last steps into a nursing
home  - with a cane - with a nurse’s aide -
not wanting a wheel chair - not wanting to die -
then the decision to make the ultimate step -
the big act faith - to crawl - it would be nice if
it was a leap  - but no - to crawl to the Father’s
feet - with the hope of rising to the Eternal Dance. Amen.


© Andy Costello, Reflections, 2015